to the awful parents- hope it is a lesson learnt?

U know today I think is a big lesson to the awful parents of this show. did pRatima achieve anything with her devious ways did Lata and Pankaj achive anything by being nice poor, uninvolved people? But to these parents I wanted to ask them u got your daughter there like nice poor ppl but did u notice her unhappiness, did u see how uncomfortable she was? Or where u too lost in being nice, good poor ppl that u didn't notice the unhappiness on her face and the sadness in her eyes. U got so offended at being told 1 bad word by Dadi but did u forget that u left YOUR DAUGHTER for months in that house and made her face that every single day of her life. U fought for yourself but why have u never fought for her in the same way that she fought for u today? She put your self respect and honour in front but have u ever done the same for that girl? You just left her to be never worried and never thought about her and told her to deal with the situation u put your daughter in. The daughter who u treated like gold her whole life u put her in 1 persons hands but was that person capable enough to hold gold was it not a hint that when a person can't even remember other ppls names was that person even capable of handling gold? 1 person does not make a family but 1 person can destroy a family and u left your daughter with not 1 enemy but 4 her husband, his grandmother and his sils. How did u expect 1 person to save your daughter when she was surrounded by enemies for over a year. Really if this was real than your daughter after the treatment she has gotten would have gone into depression and would probably have committed suicide because she has been mentally and emotional tortured. So to all bad parents in the world take a look your niceness never does any good when your child is in danger. And to the cvs the parents in this show is bad please show them getting a redemption track. Be participates in their childs life after a daughter marries it does not mean that their duty ends with them. And I wnt let my parents watch this show until they get a redemption track just imagine my parents getting ideas from this show I will starve to death. When I get married I intend visiting my parents on wednesday and the weekends(meat days lol) so my husband can get a proper meal coz I dnt like cooking and that wnt change just imagine my parents telling me oh no u not my duty so I can't come and eat I will starve I dnt like take aways that much I like home made food. So please show the proper thing lol. Get these parents right and make Pankaj make suhani get married to Rohani married Rohani forever

I can't believe suhanis parents are so weird they never saw how unhappy she was in BH

They have ever felt the pain that their daughter has gone through for a one whole year facing humilations and criticisms from the evil gang and loveless life from her husband she struggled for her survival is what actually suits her condition.

Originally posted by: rerose

They have ever felt the pain that there daughter has gone through for a one whole year facing humilations and criticisms from the evil gang and loveless life from her husband she struggled for her survival is what actually suits her condition.

they are really bad parents

Originally posted by: khushi_shankar

These thigns actually are very common in Indian society. I have seen a lot of parents who turn a blind eye to the suffering of thier married daughters just to save htier so-called izzat in society. They do not hreact untill they themsleves have been insulted and that is the only thime when they feel the pain. They just do not realize or refuse to acknowledge that thier daughter has gone through this torture and continues to do so for countless months.

The fact htat a daughter is more important than society is actually surpriseingly quite new and rare in Indian society.

Jut to give an example for my personal life, my whole maternal family were watching a TV show in which a girl was being tortured by her in-laws. She then told her parents hwo just turned a blind eye to her suffering.

My mother got very furrious and exclaimed that she would murder or atleast beat up the guy to tries to harm me, no matter if it was my husband. She would be willing ot bare any reactions from society to save me from any torment. The shock that I asw in the faces of rest of her family members said everything about thier views. (they then were shocked ot hear that she would be willing to fight with the world for me)

very true i think even by me it probably happens as well once a girl is married its like she has no1 she is on her own but the reason for that by most is the fact that most times the girls family is poor and so they would have no place to keep her so instead of telling her parents or even if they aware of it 1 she wouldn't tell or 2 her family wouldnt be able to help her. its so important in this day and age that woman are independent and self reliant as if they don't have the backing and they are forced to stay with their in laws and husband they wouldn't be treated well.

Originally posted by: sandiab

very true i think even by me it probably happens as well once a girl is married its like she has no1 she is on her own but the reason for that by most is the fact that most times the girls family is poor and so they would have no place to keep her so instead of telling her parents or even if they aware of it 1 she wouldn't tell or 2 her family wouldnt be able to help her. its so important in this day and age that woman are independent and self reliant as if they don't have the backing and they are forced to stay with their in laws and husband they wouldn't be treated well.

your mom is the best and i hope that every1 here has the same sort of parents as u and me my parents would also react the same let alone beat the guy they would immediately take me out of the situation. My only hope is that the cvs realizing how they are showing these parents. unfortunately i do not think they are the brightest bunch and they do not seem to want to see fans reaction to their show so one would wonder if they are even aware that these parents are actually awful. they probably think because suhani is not being tortured by prats or by her own parents that these are good parents and they are actually not good parents as well.

true...i have a question. how did pankaj force yuvi to the marriage telling it was for suhani's happiness?just bcoz she likes him, it does not mean she will remain happy in her in-laws.

I started replying and realized I better not, or I'd rant forever. And just read Lakshmi's post, which I also want to reply to and didn't (much) for the same reason.
And they won't learn a thing.