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NEHU

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Freebird_23

arre m nt saying on your post only der are many who stated dt so i jz said my POV,, n yes m agree wid you,, n trust me its my thought too dt no1 thinking abt yuvani mrrg ,, n concentrating on social work like soumya sudharo abhiyan,,bt dis is getting enjoyable.. as per the entertainment ,, n y suhani cooking it was clear in todays epi ,, she cant see any1 hungry in her house,,

yes yes of course...everyone has their own POV and we all have different perspectives to see things.
it's just that it irritates me to see her getting bothered for everyone instead of instead of introspecting her relation with Yuvraj.

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IKEAwizard

@IKEAwizard

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Sonarikafan

in my opinion, they should just wear heavy make ups, and be with their husbands and enjoy life. that should be their cardinal job i think.

Sounds like the perfect life to me 😎.

Edited by IKEAwizard - 10 years ago

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NEHU

@Glitter_In_Eye

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: IKEAwizard

Sounds like the perfect life to me😎.

even to me... 😆

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kuchnaakahoo

@kuchnaakahoo

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

But what is the problem in cooking for ur family,
Is this work only restricted to maid / house help ??

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NEHU

@Glitter_In_Eye

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: soulspirit
But what is the problem in cooking for ur family,
Is this work only restricted to maid / house help ??

not again please.
I request you to go through the previous comments once. I hope then you will understand my point.

let me repeat it for you again.
Quoting it again for you.
I am not exactly against the
lead cooking in the show but I
am
against her cooking at every
given
hour and do nothing else like
for
once get her life straight.
and
As far as SSEL n Suhani are
concerned, what actually makes
me
angry is the fact that she just
got
to know that her marriage was
a
sham and the thing that
actually
bothers her the most at such
point
of time is her family members
are
hungry.
I hope I am clear now. There's
no problem in cooking for
family. I never rose any ques
before when everything seemed
to be fine in her life. She used
to cook before too but see the
situations have been changed
and so much has happened. Is
it the right thing to do at such
point of time?

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Amni

@amni375

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

My dear, she loves cooking. What is wrong with cooking in your own house and feeding your family? why is it a shame to feed your family?

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artifacts

@artifacts

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Let me put it this way.

For Suhani, cooking might be stress reliever in these difficult times. There are many including me who find cooking helps to lessen stress and painful times. Of coarse for me it happens Occassionally.😆

Suhani is going through bad period and needs to keep herself busy at something. She never had any interest in going to parlour ( may sound strange but then again it is a fact that she hardly liked it and plus when her life is at such point, she might not be concerned about her looks ) she can read a book but again, when one is frustrated, may not be able to focus on books. If I were her I would think of listening to music or going to visit her mom or Bhavna. But again may be Suhani doesn't want to trouble her sister and her mom is just too much ! She can just surf internet though.

Another thing I can think of is maybe Suhani's cooking was always appreciated by everyone in house including dadi ( though she may criticise most of the times) so Suhani kinda felt powerful in the kitchen. It is her comfort zone.

Cooking for family is individual choice. Some may find that cooking for family is their dream( i feel this has been propagated by men in particular 😆) whereas some may not like it or may find it waste of time. I don't want to be judgmental just trying to analyze her psyche.

Just my two cents

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NEHU

@Glitter_In_Eye

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: amni375
My dear, she loves cooking. What is wrong with cooking in your own house and feeding your family? why is it a shame to feed your family?

there's no problem in cooking for a family who betrayed you of course. People like Dadi, Ragini, Menka, Soumya can throw insults at you but since they are family, you should cook for them. Yes, ofcourse, no problem with that. She can feed them till the day kick her out of the house and she can continue with her love for cooking some place else. Yes, you are right. no problem in cooking for the family.

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NEHU

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Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Aarti_16
Let me put it this way.
For Suhani, cooking might be stress reliever in these difficult times. There are many including me who find cooking helps to lessen stress and painful times. Of coarse for me it happens Occassionally.😆
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Suhani is going through bad period and needs to keep herself busy at something. She never had any interest in going to parlour ( may sound strange but then again it is a fact that she hardly liked it and plus when her life is at such point, she might not be concerned about her looks ) she can read a book but again, when one is frustrated, may not be able to focus on books. If I were her I would think of listening to music or going to visit her mom or Bhavna. But again may be Suhani doesn't want to trouble her sister and her mom is just too much ! She can just surf internet though.

Another thing I can think of is maybe Suhani's cooking was always appreciated by everyone in house including dadi ( though she may criticise most of the times) so Suhani kinda felt powerful in the kitchen. It is her comfort zone.

Cooking for family is individual choice. Some may find that cooking for family is their dream( i feel this has been propagated by men in particular😆) whereas some may not like it or may find it waste of time. I don't want to be judgmental just trying to analyze her psyche.

Just my two cents

yes, that could be one reason and tbh I can think of million excuses to justify her cooking and being in kitchen every time.But my point is something else. Tell me something, if you're Suhani and your marriage is on stakes and people like Dadi, Ragini , Menka, Soumya who are trying their best to kick you out of the house, what were you be doing? Cooking for them? I hope you got what I'm trying to convey.