What would you do? How would you feel?

I was sitting here and thinking about what Suhani had said to Yuvraj on the terrace. Then I began to wonder if I was in her situation would I be that patience, maybe maybe not. I am patience but I question everything. Then wonder what you guys would do. So I came up with these situations.

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tough questions lol
i forgot your name yar

okay so i feel yuvani are at 4th number situation .. and yuvraj is over his past and now he is realising that his past happened because he was destined to have a future with a girl with golden heart. about suhani if she finds out , it depends on the way that how she will come to know about it . if yuvraj himself explains it she would understand but if she had to face it by witches her world would crush down but she will gather.
see the kind of nature suhani has been shown with is she is pure angel with pure heart she cant think negative forget doing negative but at the same time she is strong and understanding. she accepted yuvraj , loved him the way he was i mean come on if i were at her place i would have never gone for someone who is being rude to me.
but thats called love to accept one with how they are.
so suhani loves yuvraj she would definitely think about his happiness and decides to back out but our hero will hold her hand to never leave it
if talking about me lolzz i am fairytalish lives in my own land called paristan but i am strong headed , strong minded i dont believe in sacrifising if being hurt again and again . i believe to stand so i would give a chance but not chances. ill breakdown too because when expectations breaks na its worst feeling ever ..
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i have little bit suhani in me but i am not totally suhanish .

Honestly this would be very difficult for me to understand. Bt furthermore I wnt really ever fall for some1 like Yuvraj coz of his ways and even if I did I wnt have even given him a chance after the 1st few times he misbehaved( I believe in 3s I only give a person 3 chances to cross me and than I cross them out lol). Bt the beauty of suhani is her patience, who would have known being so patient with the idiot would lead to finding such a gem of a person. Now my reaction to all the scenario is. 1. I would leave him I wouldn't want my friend to live a half life with me knowing that he was in love with some1 else and even if he couldn't get his dream girl I would want him want him to find true happiness with some1 else if he doesn't see me in that way. 2. Eish this is a tough 1 coz if he doesn't want her back and is willing to work towards something than I dnt knw maybe I would try to be with him. Bt the question in my mind is he in love with me and just needs time to adjust to things or does he just want to be a good husband coz if he just wants to be a good husband he can go be a good husband elsewhere lol. - bt really I am just the sort of person who is all about comfortability I must be very comfortable with the person to be open bt if that comfort ability is taken away for any reason(and it could be the smallest thing) and I get uncomfortable it is nearly impossible for me to get that feeling back so even if he is willing to work at it I wnt be able to. 3. Consummated bt he is upset if I am left to come up with my own conclusions as to his reasons he is depressed I would think that he stil wants to be with her and would leave. Bt if he explains he is unhappy coz of the lies and not coz of her than it might make a diff. Bt again I am just no suhani. 4. Both happy than I dnt think I would leave especially if the reason he was forced was somehow related to my family like the way it is in the show. Somehw I feel like suhani has a greater responsibility towards ensuring that yuvraj heart isn't broken a 2nd time coz of her father and friend. Bt really to be honest all 4 I would leave, have a long sep from the person I would just want to get out of the r/ship. if we meet again years later and there is something there than its ok he can win be back. Bt its truly inconceivable for me to see hw any1 could stay with yuvraj after finding out the truth whether he stil loves his ex or not or whether he loves me or not. I would just feel like a total idiot for seeing something that wasn't there and furthermore acting on it. And this story it truly didn't make suhani's feelings clear why in the world would any girl not think its strange that her husband doesn't want her physically after months of being married really that is just stupid. No1 is that innocent an imbecile lol.

Originally posted by: naam-ada-likhna

I was sitting here and thinking about what Suhani had said to Yuvraj on the terrace. Then I began to wonder if I was in her situation would I be that patience, maybe maybe not. I am patience but I question everything. Then wonder what you guys would do. So I came up with these situations.

What would you do if you were in this position. How will feel? Would you be able to trust your husband. He hid his feelings for another girl from you and the origins of your marriage. Think of each situation differently.

1. If you were just friends and you find out he was forced into the marriage while he was in love with someone else during the beginning of the marriage.

I would definitely get out of the marriage. If someone is forced into something, I would surely confront him for spoiling someone's (mine here in this case) life but I would surely not impose myself on him. i know it looks like-easy said than done but I'm quite sure I'll do something of the sorts in this situation.

2. He is trying to be a good husband but he is often stressed because he isnt ready to consummate. You find out he was forced into the marriage while he was in love with someone else during the beginning of your marriage. The girl also is beginning to like him back but he is over her.

Here in this case I would definitely give him time and maybe after knowing such a thing about your husband, you might get stressed too so I would also give some time to myself to get my thoughts clear.

3. You guys happen to consummated but he seems to be distance and depressed after it happens. You find out he was forced into the marriage while he was in love with someone else during the beginning of your marriage. The girl wants him back but he doesn't want her.

I don't know. I might be shattered after this. This is just so wrong. I am not sure what I would do then actually. I hope something like this never happens.

4. You both are happy but you find out he was forced into the marriage and was in love with someone else during the beginning of the marriage. The girl is around but he is over her.

I don't think it would matter me much then. Past is past, everyone has one. I would be glad that we are happy now and I would just move on with our relation.