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It's more like a query. In the preferences section, we have this option that only Buddies can view our scrapbook. I got a few scraps from someone who is not my Buddy so I just got a little worried, can that person see my scraps? 😕

Another thing. Quite a few days ago, I simultaenously got a Buddy request and PM from some member. I declined the request but when I opened the PM, it was CCed to other members as well. Like the bulk PMs we send? So I was thinking, just sending anyone a buddy request to anyone makes them our buddy? And it's not necessary for us to actually accept that request and they just get full access to our profiles like our buddies do? Also, when we delete a buddy from our list, are we automatically deleted from the said buddy's list as well or do we still linger there?

Sorry if this doesn't make any sense but this whole Buddy/PM/Scrap system seems a little off to me. If anyone can explain just how much privacy we are getting and how much our say is when interacting others via a PM, I'll be thankful.

Cheers!

Thanks Shreya! I have been confused about this scrap/PM thingy ever since I joined IF 😆

Any person can send you scraps, but they can't see your scraps if they are not your buddy and you have set you scrapbook to buddies only.

oh yeah! sorry, I deleted your buddy request before seeing this thread. Wow! Thanks a lot! I was actually having a few reservations with the privacy and all...you solved a lot things! :D

You are welcome. 😊

So, I accepted and deleted you, now check whether I am still there, though I doubt that.

no, you aren't there.

Okay then! Crisis Averted! 😎

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