I guess most of us with the exception of a few would be teenagers here, no one would really be as mature about relationships like adults, but sometimes people do tend to underestimate us too often. I was thinking about what happened to Ajay and Neha.
What would you do if you were in Neha's place?
Personally, I would think twice before ditching the person, ok, I'd make him feel guilty about it, but I wouldn't leave him for it, I'd ask him, what he'd do if I'd done the same thing: cheat on him, and make him feel sorry for it, probably give him the cold shoulder or something but I wouldn't ditch him if he went astray once, I mena people do make mistakes, it is a part of human nature, and I'd probably be very upset but I think that something like this can be forgiven, first thing I'd deal him a tight slap, that for one, and then maybe take some time off alone to think about it, you can't ruin your relationship just because of one mistake, you have to work on your relationship.
Although, I would think it would be a different thing if my husband or partner was consistently cheating on me, then I'd walk out of that relationship with my self-respect and dignity intact. Although a break-up hurts, it is best to move on, one is also depriving oneself of one's happiness in the long run, by refusing to move on. But it's better to move on, let yourself get into a relationship, without getting into it just because you're on the rebound, but giving it your best shot, than living in a seemingly non-existent, loveless relationship, where the one you love, does not love you, which could probably be more tolerable were it not for the fact that he also does not respect you, and more importantly, it would be you who is not respecting yourself, because you're suffering, your children if any, are suffering is you're together because of them, which is wrong, if two people can't make a relatuonship work and stay back because of the children, it's sad for the child, because, they'd both love the child, btu they'd also be bickering behind the child's back. It's better to stay single or find a person who loves and respects you and accepts you the way you are unconditionally.
I'd like to hear your comments about this. I hope no one minds, I was thinking people here have nothing to discuss, so I thought of starting a relevant topic. And no, the topic isn't inspired by KANK, I haven't watched it yet, and this discussion was partly inspired from Ajay and Neha, and aslo as people do face such situations, especially today when relationships are so fragile. Awaiting your comments.
Would you forgive your partner and why?
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