Are makers faltering ? Or is it deliberate ? (DT Note pg. 11) - Page 4

Created

Last reply

Replies

102

Views

5.4k

Users

22

Likes

402

Frequent Posters

phoenix27 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: krystal_watz



I guess then the whole forum is blind because NOBODY can see that apart from you. Veer understands Mishti and is ready to live by her whims, her dreams and wants are important to him, she also loved and respected him before Ruhaan came along.


Veer Mishti did not have any issues before Ruhaan came. Even a blind person can see and understand that they started having problems only after Ruhaan entered.

Don't argue just for the sake of argument. It bores me. 🥱


He couldn't even say to his mother that misty wants this ring and accepted a back door to fullfill her wish and you say that this man is good.
anshvi thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: ria2794


Now she knows that it was just attraction of a perfect life that forced her to say yes for the marriage. And now she wants to mend her mistake. What is wrong in this.


Makers are showing attraction between MishAan and not the other way round

Also she said yes cox she wanted to...it means she was being selfish whrn she said yes to Veer, whrn she made so many promises to him? She clearly said that Veer is carign, loving, understanding right ? So what different she saw in Ruhan ? Attraction and sparks ?

Problem is that MishAan lack depth and a proper reason to be together...MishVeer were happy before Ruhan entered ! MishAan scenes are about attraction, sparks and connection so far and that is where the problem lies


Edited by anshvi - 6 years ago
angaswamol thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 90 Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: ria2794


Now she knows that it was just attraction of a perfect life that forced her to say yes for the marriage. And now she wants to mend her mistake. What is wrong in this.


There is nothing wrong. But she should honest with Veer & said clearly it's her fault not his. In there relationship she is the one wrong which have faulty love definition & mis lead to him. She should come clean to Veer & his family & apologize big time to veer & his family to waste of there time on her faulty love criteria.
phoenix27 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: anshvi


Makers are showing attraction between MishAan and not the other way round

Also she said yes cox she wanted to...it means she was being selfish whrn she said yes to Veer, whrn she made so many promises to him? She clearly said that Veer is carign, loving, understanding right ? So what different she saw in Ruhan ? Attraction and sparks ?

Problem is that MishAan lack depth and a proper reason to be together...MishVeer were happy before Ruhan entered ! MishAan scenes are about attraction, sparks and connection so far and that is where the problem lies



Misty and Ruhan might lack depth but veer and misty don't even have any depth.
chicksoup thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 6 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: anshvi


Emotionally compatible ? I don't think so...Makers have shown that Veer has flaws but he does understand Mishti ! He left her that day but then realised his mistake and appologised
Even now he is giving her space and trying to understand her
Also Mishti behaves nicely with her in laws which isn't an abnormal thing!

If this was abnormal then makers would have shown Ruhan pointing it out to show the difference between Veer and Ruhan! But instead Ruhan complimented her !

This was shown not to establish that Mishti pretends to be soemoen else but to establish that she tries to do every thing right So that nothing can break her relation! So she takes extra efforts like wearing a traditional outfit infront of in laws

Also Veer's mom seems super chill and understanding

Also how exactly she has changed herself ?? She agrees with Veer more often Right ? On who's will ? Her own right?
Has Veer ever forced her ?
She needs to be honest with him is the point

Also even now makes are not focusing on this ! Mishti never felt that she was unhappy ! She should have been if she was doing something forcefully ! Why not give the guy a chance whrn she herself admitted that Veer is understanding

But now Ruhan has entered the frame and she is experiencing sparks and attraction

Like u said Veer is mature so Mishti should have given him a chance by beign more open with him

Point is makers instead of highlighting flaws in MishVeer relation took the same route of showing that True love means juzbaat, sparks and attraction...it is similar to what they tried to establish earlier as well


Emotionally Veer can support the Mishti who has promised to have her world revolved around him and look after his parents. He is not compatible with the Mishti who is not sure of herself . Mishti in her real self is not exactly his cup of tea.

Veer has never forced her. As Radhika feared both the girls have some emotional side she is fearful of. Deep down she knows Mishti is not herself around Veer's parents, but probably views it as a funny thing.

Mishti looked pretty, but quite silly in her traditional attire, precisely why Pari made fun of her. Ruhaan was supporting her as her well wisher and would never want her to look bad in front of the people she wanted to impress. Traditional wear was fine, but putting the duppatta over her head looked really weird and I think that is a thing to be highlighted. It was not something the writer attributed as a positive, they were highlighting how she changes herself. Pari is a better judge of Mishti here.

She is giving Veer a chance, right?
As for being open with him, she apologised and said it is something she doesn't want to.talk about. If Veer can give her that space and trust her that much, it is great. That's how every couple Resolves issues.

FruitToasty thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: anshvi


Exsclty

Mishti is not fake with him per say...she has always tried to give her extra to the relation to make sure it works
She was dominating today and Veer agreed like u said
They were honest with each other and Veer agreed ...so how is Veer blamed for not loving a dominating Mishti
She kept cutting his calls , spoke rudely with him and then asked him to not ask her anytime and he was okay with everything



Mishti is the only one who is fake in her relationship.

I don't understand 6 months old relationship is nothing but 1 month old bickering, insulting is everything

Lets turn the tables and say Ruhaan falls for Pari somehow and say that he doesn't love Mishti anymore, then what?

anshvi thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: ria2794


Misty and Ruhan might lack depth but veer and misty don't even have any depth.


Then She should wait for someone with whom she can have depth 😆
Do u think she should be with Ruhan since a s per u he has some depth but the moment she finds soemoen who has more depth so she should ditch Ruhan as well 😆
Btw by lacking I meant not any depth 😆

Edited by anshvi - 6 years ago
arshifan2012 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 6 years ago
#38
I was in a very happy relationship. Post 2 years, we broke because he fell out of love. He gave me a lot of excuses but that was the real reason and somehow he was unable to be honest with me.
So yes, people do fall out of love, even when they are very compatible with each other, even when they love each other with every possible cell in their body. It happens and it's okay.

Compatibility issues or not, MishVeer have other problems. She changes around him, she won't work (which was initially her own choice but now seems like Veer's indirect pressure) and no, I'm not against MishVeer but the truth is, people can fall in love and out of love any time. It's not a crime and the sooner Mishti realizes this, the better.

Love is a complicated subject and so far, I can understand Mishti's problems regarding both the men in her life. Pyaar is not dosti as most people claim it to be. But if there's no dosti, this same pyaar will seize to exist. So far, MishVeer seem more like friends than a couple.


anshvi thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Mishti is the only one who is fake in her relationship.

I don't understand 6 months old relationship is nothing but 1 month old bickering, insulting is everything

Lets turn the tables and say Ruhaan falls for Pari somehow and say that he doesn't love Mishti anymore, then what?


Exactly

How is what she has with Ruhan better than what she has with Veer?
What is the basis here ? Apart from attraction sparks ?

She dated Veer for 6 months ! As per her there is nothign wrong with Veer...as per her they were very happy before their engagement!

Then Ruhan came ! It is Mishti who is at fault here and not Veer...it is Mishti who islacking and not Veer
anshvi thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: arshifan2012

I was in a very happy relationship. Post 2 years, we broke because he fell out of love. He gave me a lot of excuses but that was the real reason and somehow he was unable to be honest with me.

So yes, people do fall out of love, even when they are very compatible with each other, even when they love each other with every possible cell in their body. It happens and it's okay.

Compatibility issues or not, MishVeer have other problems. She changes around him, she won't work (which was initially her own choice but now seems like Veer's indirect pressure) and no, I'm not against MishVeer but the truth is, people can fall in love and out of love any time. It's not a crime and the sooner Mishti realizes this, the better.

Love is a complicated subject and so far, I can understand Mishti's problems regarding both the men in her life. Pyaar is not dosti as most people claim it to be. But if there's no dosti, this same pyaar will seize to exist. So far, MishVeer seem more like friends than a couple.



Veer had cleared it long back that Mishti is free to do whatever she wants after marriage ! For him marriage is not a bondage but ! Mishti can be the way she is now even after marriage

Also there was no indirect pressure...He asked Pari to handle works as Mishti had work overload and he asked Mishti if she was okay with. the decision
It was Mishti who lied to him

Rest of the points have already been discussed

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".