Originally posted by: khatimeethi
I agree i am judgemental too at times and learning as well ,yeh bas ek perspective tha
ya I know everyone is :p I am too ;) but when I stop and think for twice and thrice, I start to understand them. They may have took wrong decision in life but they are not bad people. My own uncle married twice. I love my second aunt most but when I grown up I realize that what uncle did to my first aunt was wrong, I didn't like it but I could never hate my uncle. he is the most sweetest person. he may not be great husband to my first aunt but he is great father(from both side), great brother, great son, of course great uncle. My first aunt is too bitter(she is too sweet at front ) I really don't like her but I do feel bad for her. My second aunt was also really wrong like my uncle but I love her very much. She didn't get easily acceptance from the family but she did took care of each and everyone in the family. I don't know whom to blame, whom to hate. because jisse liye bura feel hona chahiye I really don't like her but jiski mistake hai I love them. Log ke ek baar ke mistake se kya woh humsa ke liye bad human ho jate hai? I don't know what happened in the past because I haven't born that time so I can't judge them.