This is a question for Ruhan actually. He thinks he loves Mishti. He thinks she has feelings for him. But the thing is Mishti believes in commitment. She believes the way to show commitment is marriage. Well marriage is a document of commitment. Legal way to accept you are committed. There may be hypothetical , virtual reality type commitment in love...but in our society and in Mishti's life also commitment means "marriage."
Or else Nandu and Kunal was also in virtual reality wala committed before they gave dhoka to Mauli.
So what's Ruhan Babu's plan. Suppose Mishti breaks wedding with Veer.
Will he Ruhan marry her? He doesn't believe in commitment . So I guess he will not.
Then what will be his love? It can't be live in relationship too. As that too wants commitment. You live in with one, sleep with another...commitment /love goes to gutter.
But Ruhan doesn't believe in commitment. Then how will this love of his go on. Shadi veer se aur romance Ruhan se kind of??
I am not understanding this guy's idea of love. Love makes us do better for the person we love. Love means giving our love mental peace. Like Ishan did., When he saw Mauli is trapped and suffering in between him and Kunal ...he wanted to sacrifice himself to keep Mauli happy and peace. Ishan was ready to marry Mauli to and sacrifice everything including his family for her.
What kind of love is this guy Ruhan is having for Mishti. Even if she loves that guy...what will his love pay to her? It is already making her disturbed. If she breaks up with Veer this guy Ruhan is not going to ease her life in anyways. Rahne ke liye ek ghar bhi nehi hai uska...payar aur pereshaan karne aagaya.
Ruhan is reminding me of the movie "Keya dil ne kahan" where Esha kept waiting for Tushar till he changed his mind. As per practical experience I am not sure this kind of guys change their mind. Ex- Ash and Salman or Kat and Salman or other GFsss and Salman.
So why will Mishti love Ruhan ?
1. To be the mother of his nazayaz bacca
2. To be his GF forever
3. To be his free house provider with etc.
P. S. At first I also liked him. But at present he is not looking like a man to me. Staying in a house where the land lady( partial) is irritated by him and doesn't want him...demanding love from that land lady or friend's fiance. I am finding him a very bettamiz and faltu guy at present. Sirf baton ka sher. Should I like him for his words? No. Kunal also used to give bhashan on woman liberty , working woman's support and blah blah. I hate Kunal now.