All the hate is for Nandini ...why not Kunal?

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Vani. J

@vani.jug

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Posted: 6 years ago

#11

I think both of them are obviously equally at fault. But I can understand why Mauli is willing to give another chance to Kunal and not Nandini. Nandini looks like the "other woman" in Mauli's eyes, the one who knowingly came in between her and her husband. It's much easier to cut her off than the love of your life. As far as other characters go then they should treat Kunal and Nandini equally in my opinion

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SASSZS

@SASSZS

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Posted: 6 years ago

#12

Both are to be blamed but for Nandini she betrayed a person who helped her which is really a sick thing to do. So she has double sins, maybe people hating her more cos of her fake acting of feeling guilty and also cos she caused more hurt to Mauli. Mauli supported her Friend even when that other drama girl told her they did arti together. She believed her Friend will never betray her. Maybe cos I was betrayed in real by my Friend, so the Friend betrayal seem to be bigger for me. Hence the hatred. Also I don't like Drashti acting from few days, it irritates me hell lot, makes the hatred more stronger somehow.

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 6 years ago

#13

I hate both of them equally. Mauli has criticized them equally. In fact she has said harsher things to Kunal. You don't get to be a victim, you destroyed me, where did I go wrong as a wife? As for breaking relationships, Nandini is easy to cut off. Kunal is a bit different. She took vows to be with him in front of god. She is married to him by law. His family is her family. His house is her house. Their life is one. He requires more thought. If Nandini is an infected limb of her body then Kunal is half of her whole body.

I hate Kunal as much as I hate Nandini. But I still feel like bashing Nandini more because of what she has been doing since the whole incident. "I can't live without either of you." 😕 Crying a river 😕 and trying to justify her actions and feelings. Coming to their house knowing she has no justification so it will just piss people off. Calling him today... Like why? Why are you calling him? Fikar ho rahi hai...So what? By calling him in such an ugly moment how are you going to help him? Are you a doctor who will physically help him if you find out he is doing worse? No. Are you going to take him to the hospital because somehow his family neglected to take care of his health? No. You are calling because you are down right retarded and selfish. You are putting your peace of mind over theirs. And that is my problem with her! She is making this whole thing about her. Kunal and her both f**ked up equally because both were in a serious relationship with Mauli. Usually I blame the cheater partner more since they are the ones who broke marriage vows but here both are equally guilty. Both broke sacred bonds and destroyed Mauli. Since the secret came out Kunal at least has the decency to take what has been given to him. He looks like a man who feels like he is a piece of shit. He is not standing there explaining how he fell for Nandini. Nandini on the other hand is focused on her love story with Kunal. She is just a little sad that her friend found out about all of this.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 6 years ago

#14

Shakti & Drashti share a good chemistry. Kunan would have been acceptable if Kunal was not married. Both Kunal & Nandini are at fault but more so with Kunal as he started it. But Nandini should have controlled herself if she was a good friend. I hate Kunal & Nandini chars equally.

Mouli's mom is highly irritating.

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Angels11

@Angels11

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Posted: 6 years ago

#15

I ve said this earlier & I will say this again. BOTH Kunal & Nandini are EQUALLY responsible for wat happened. N doesnt get a free pass just coz she is an abused, battered wife & K doesnt get a free pass just coz he is male. Both r adults, both took a decision consciously so both need 2 face the consequences...

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#16

Both are at fault but i hate nandini a little more than kunal ..why shouldnt i ? This age old thinking of only women are blamed , i dont know what to infer from this..nandini is wrong and people will say her bad things..why didnt they shame kunal and rajdeep? They should have , nahi kiya toh nandini doesnt become less cringeworthy..i would have cheered for kunal and rajdeep shaming .

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Priya

@Priya_18

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Posted: 6 years ago

#17

In defense of Mauli cutting off all ties with Nandini, technically Nandini has betrayed Mauli twice. Once by trusting Rajdeep over Mauli and this time by destroying her house. Also, Mauli considers their friendship to be older and thus longer whereas Kunal has been there for 5-7 years. Dosti 10 saal ki umar se nibha rahi hai, assuming they are 25+, it's some 15+ year old friendship, that definitely requires you to be more responsible not lust over your bff's husband.

Kunal is one lucky bas***d in my eyes, his MIL favors him so much. Wife ab bhi pyaar karti hai aur Nandini bhi pyaar karti hai and what does he do? Nothing. Mauli considers him the most important person in her life, uske baad hi Nandini aati hai. In the state of mind that Mauli is right now, adding to it her mother's words, any woman will try to give her marriage a chance. Why won't you? Friendship se zyaada commitment hoti hai shaadi mein. And no one will want to just let go off that easily. But I really want her to go separate ways, even if she does end up taking Kunal back, she should not be all lovey dovey. He needs to repent and realise his mistake.

Again, both Nandini and Kunal are equally guilty in my eyes.

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Twenty1st

@Twenty1st

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Posted: 6 years ago

#18

Because women live in a BUBBLE and i suppose a few slanders/curses/demeaning words won't BURST that protective shield😕

The fact that DD received so much flak for a character like Nandini shows the mentality, while the ML probably got a odd few (sorry if i am wrong)

Its sad, both are equally guilty, Kunal is more in terms of me, but Nandini is hated WAY more because she is the WOMAN in the situation while the HUSBAND who vowed to protect, care and be honest is forgotten or simply stated as being a MAN. I'm sorry but if men are like Kunal then I'm simply happy being single.

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Twenty1st
Because women live in a BUBBLE and i suppose a few slanders/curses/demeaning words won't BURST that protective shield 😕

The fact that DD received so much flak for a character like Nandini shows the mentality, while the ML probably got a odd few (sorry if i am wrong)

Its sad, both are equally guilty, Kunal is more in terms of me, but Nandini is hated WAY more because she is the WOMAN in the situation while the HUSBAND who vowed to protect, care and be honest is forgotten or simply stated as being a MAN. I'm sorry but if men are like Kunal then I'm simply happy being single.

Sorry but why should women get away with adultery ? Because she is a woman ? I dont support shaming her or name calling or abuse or anything against nandini..a husband is bound by the promises and commitment , fine .sometimes there is an illusion of love also like in case of mauli and kunal ..but by what relationship were nandini and mauli tied up? Nothing , just friendship..yet mauli helped her selflessly , by going against the society so that nandini leads a respectable life ...mauli pulled her out of hell...she did something which one normally doesnt do for their closest relatives... what did nandini do to her? it was.nandinis choice to live the life of a.mistress and besharam (she called herself that ) , she.chose this path she will walk on it and face the consequences..kunal will rot in his hell..and lastly its nandini only who is discussed is because nobody justifies kunal as they try to justify nandini . Hence the arguments..which give the impression that nandini is blamed more..no..she is discussed more than kunal.

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Padmajaan

@Padmajaan

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Posted: 6 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest
Why all the hate and every punishment is for Nandini ? Why not for Kunal ?
Even Mauli , she broke her all the relationships with Nandini but not with Kunal ...why ?

Husband or best friend ? I think Husband was her more close relationship than a best friend so when Kunal didn't think about Mauli why was she expecting it from Nandini ? Atleast Nandini tried to go away from them to Lucknow.

Why she was ready to give a second chance to Kunal ? Not once Kunal has said to Mauli that he doesn't love Nandini but still loves Mauli yet Mauli was so sympathetic towards him . She tried to leave home only when Kunal took Nandini's name in his sleep and changed his password otherwise Mauli was ready to forgive him . Her mother also told her to forgive Kunal .

And now Society people ... hating Nandini .

But whatever makers are showing is the reality . Look at online audience ( modern audience ) ... they are hating Nandini much more than Kunal , even Rajdeep who himself is a cheater , has sold his wife , killed an unborn kid is acceptable for people but not Nandini

Sadly that's the bitter reality of our society...blame the woman always ...men are men afterall so let's forgive them

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I really hope all the regular delusional posters in this forum who are guilty of all this and still speak about how regressive Indian society is and Mauli's mom is read this and understand where you are coming from and that they are just mirrors of society and mauli's mom.

Edited by Padmajaan - 6 years ago

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