Final decision has been made!!!!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Disclaimer- Everyone knows what not to be done.

This guy knows how wrong he is and there is a storm inside him, and he wants someone to share this storm. Whatever Kunal wants to do with Mauli is not yet known but he definitely wants Nandini to be with him.
His confession to Nandini was a desperate attempt to bring Nandini to the same page as him so that he has someone to share his guilt and frustration with. People will do anything to justify their wrong actions at times even if they had to call their emotions as pavitra, paak, God-destined thing and what not. Kunal wants Nandini to convince to his feelings and succumb to it, he wants Nandini to become vulnerable and give in to him so that his heart gets some peace of feeling that he isn't alone in this. Devil has honey-trap ways to make its target fall into it. (Now, Kunal isn't a devil but his thoughts are and definition of devil is subjective here).
Desperation makes man do anything to justify their acts. And Kunal is in his most desperate phase.
He wants Nandini to feel what he feels and that's why he has been constantly pushing her from the very moment he has got an idea of this possibility. He wants

Love as a feeling isn't wrong but the person you love makes the whole difference. Single person falling in love is no problem but a committed person falling in love is a wrong on many accords.

This relationship with Kunal is the last thing she needs because she is in middle of a divorce, Rajdeep is still there and this would be cheating the very person who was your savior when no one was around.
Nandini is in building her life phase and the relationship would do nothing but halt it & turn it upside-down.
Nandini's battle with Rajdeep was relatively easy because there was her righteousness, law and Mauli all in her favor. But this upcoming battle won't be because she will have everything against her except for Kunal, who himself would have no backing.

Love is not the only thing that is essential to sustain and survive in a marriage, there are a lot of other things as well. Is Nandini sure, that she only wants love and nothing else- respect, integrity, dignity because this one relation will put a huge question mark on her credibility. She will be questioned for ruining a married woman's life despite being a woman & being married in the past. It's norm to question the same gender. Will Kunal be able to bring her self-respect as a husband, will Kunal be able to stand for her always, will she ever be able to forgive herself, will she ever be able to get over the guilt, will she ever be able to stand for herself in front of the world & say that I have done no wrong, can Kunal be trusted with a relationship just because in her eyes he is better man than Rajdeep? Will Kunal be able to introduce Nandini to the world with same pride without any hint of guilt or other unspoken emotion, will she be able to take questioning eyes of the world?
These are questions only Nandini can answer through deep introspecting and not with some Baba telling her that this man is your destiny. Nandini didn't just wanted to be loved by a man, she wanted to be respected for doing that which Rajdeep never provided her. Karma has strange ways of working and those who have experienced it in life know better.

Nandini didn't just extend her hand today, she easily discarded all these thoughts and jumped for a momentary thing. And that happens when your brain is not working consciously and that's what makes Love blind. It takes away your rational thoughts. She chose Kunal over Mauli again. First she chose Rajdeep and now Kunal & this particular choice makes her selfish. Kunal accepted his feelings & Nandini made no attempt to stop him either and that makes her equally wrong. Two wrongs can't make a right. Both Kunal and Nandini are wrong & their feelings together don't make a right. This relationship is made on foundation of a broken heart & trust of Mauli & it will reflect itself on time with how Karma works. Since makers have used God so many times, I hope Karma is used too as an equal proponent. That would make it more real.

Every woman believes her first marriage to be last and eternal but it doesn't happen. Reality is cruel. Kunal already is on dangerous path and Nandini must think a 1000 times before stepping her foot alongside him on the same path. One step forward & there is no looking back. But she already has stepped forward.

That would have made Nandini strong in every sense. Life has strange ways to provide us long-lasting suffering & pain. This is life's way of giving Nandini more pain. Is Nandini ready to bear it? Nandini was strong enough to fight Rajdeep but will be the same in this? At present, Nandini is as weak as Kunal.

Had KuNan been real characters, they would have been pointed out in reality. That how it is in reality too. Period. EMAs bring a lot of people to shame- main people & their family & this I have seen very closely.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Don't think could have said it better myself. Agree with every single word. Right now the only thing separating Kunal and Rajdeep is that he is not physically abusive!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Don't think could have said it better myself. Agree with every single word. Right now the only thing separating Kunal and Rajdeep is that he is not physically abusive!!!


Exactly, final decision has been made. Kunal has confessed, Nandini has accepted. Whatever they do now on the name of protecting Mauli will just make things really gross.

What upsets me is the fact that Nandini didn't choose Mauli ever, neither over Rajdeep nor over Kunal.

EMAs are outrageous. Period.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Totally agreed nandini always selfish this time also she choose her happiness either it's wrong now she became mistress of Kunal till he is married everyone always ignoring mauli's mom view when it's came to nandini but in this matter she is always right
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruhi1985sheetal

Totally agreed nandini always selfish this time also she choose her happiness either it's wrong now she became mistress of Kunal till he is married everyone always ignoring mauli's mom view when it's came to nandini but in this matter she is always right


That's what Nandini should have thought. Her legal position besides Kunal. But sadly, she didn't.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya



Exactly, final decision has been made. Kunal has confessed, Nandini has accepted. Whatever they do now on the name of protecting Mauli will just make things really gross.

What upsets me is the fact that Nandini didn't choose Mauli ever, neither over Rajdeep nor over Kunal.

EMAs are outrageous. Period.



The sad part is even Mauli said that Nandini never chooses her. How sad for a friend who is being betrayed by two people so close to her, hope they at least give her the courtesy and tell her.

I think both of them have gone past the point of protecting anyone .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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So wonderfully written ..you have conveyed everything so beautifully and perfectly.

Love love love ..do they know what love is?


The problem is not that they are grey , they are flawed . One wrong person in the name of his desires is set to destroy many lives and calls it love . The message that they are sending across is to never blindly trust your bff or your husband blindly and always mind your own business .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It better not to have a friend like Nandini and a husbsnd like Kunal
This is a story of EMA but how they portrayed it is disgusting .
Cheating is cheating
Sadly that true ...
Betraying friend and cheating wife is really sad
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nandini after everything Mauli has done for her, chose to cheat her with her husband?
I just watched the initial scene where her negative and positive conscience is arguing... Was happy that she still chooses to leave. But then she relents to K's pleas and their so called Love?? Is Love the only requirement for a relationship?

She went through the same pain when Rajdeep slept with some other woman right in front of her. Still how can she do this to Mauli? And also what respect she'll get from the society for being someone's mistress? Seriously Nandini has lost it.
Poor Mauli... The way she shared about her fears with Nandini, she'd gonna be shattered when she knows the truth.

Really wanna see the truth coming out soon just like how Kunan's feelings for developed sooner than expected. The show is sending out a very wrong message, don't help anyone, coz who knows they might destroy your life taking your husband from you and dont trust your husband and freinds completely... I'm sure this show is gonna have great trps as TRP audience love this kinda drama.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with everything u wrote. The decision is made n there's no looking back now. She is treading this path all becos she wants love in her life. Is it worth it? Is love above one's trust, self respect, integrity, guilt, relationships? Does nothing else matter? What happiness is she going to get by choosing kunal over mouli? If she is in any kind of trouble, she can't even go to mouli anymore. Can kunal be with her 24*7 n safeguard her? She is going to get the back slash from both mouli n kunal 's family. In the end she did listen to her bad alter ego n extended her hand towards love. Sadly the good inner self was pushed aside.
Kunal...he is the most selfish, spineless crybaby we've ever seen on tv. ( I can't even call him a hero) He is not letting her move on. Why the hell is he running behind her crying all the time. My God! He cries more than mouli. This girl has taken a sensible decision of moving out n he comes running begging her to love him. Any mature sensible person will just give way n see how thinks work. This is not teenage love! The lesser I'm write anything about him the better.
Anyways.. I'm only waiting to mouli' s journey from now. Hope they don't make her into a mahan matha in this show. If they want to keep everything realistic then keep mouli realistic too. Show a wife's reaction n how she kicks these two cheaters out of her life n moves on!

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