Will you accept shaurya as a man of your life?🤓 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Tikmun

Haan.. but these two are not yet in a relationship,right? So ACP is not a bad option.😆

But at this moment my only advice to Anokhi is to focus on studies,phir yahan se nikal loo..😆

By the way i am a fan of KV.. coz of him and Deba,i am watching this show from the beginning. otherwise i don't watch any show of this channel.

Acp s mjhy ajeeb vibe ati😂

Btw..nice advice 😂

NO

It's actually very easy to get drawn to somebody like Shaurya, because his broken state triggers the caring instincts of a woman's personality. But it is not a woman's job to "fix" toxic men. Plenty of people go through some really devastating experiences in life but they turn out just fine and don't let those experiences become the epicentre of their lives. Men like Shaurya tend to drain the energy out of patient people around them because they expect them to understand and put up with their insecurity issues while simultaneously gas lighting and guilt tripping the same people if something doesn't go their way.

If I fell in love with such a man, I'd love him from afar but I wouldn't allow him to become a part of my life until I'm sure that he is willing to unlearn all the toxicity. But if he ends up going back to his toxic behavioural pattern, I'd have to walk away. Love is not reason enough for me to put up with toxicity.

I'm 25 and unfortunately I have seen people like shaurya, with love and care they can be better but not completely, because upbringing matters, nobody can change his 30 years of regressive mentality in a few years, in shaurya's case anokhi can help him showing a different perspective and her love can change him mending his issues but I'm saying from personal experience the deep rooted prejudice never goes away, it lurks in somewhere, he can see things differently now but when situation comes that prejudice will be out, because people can change but they can't be completely remodeled to some other person, he is still that person but a modified better version, he will control his issues but his 30 years of toxic upbringing won't leave him either, he will learn to cover the dirty things under politeness, he will learn to control his anger issues but he will still be over possessive and jealous because he thinks anokhi as his property, only he has haq on her, and that will make their relationship suffer because anokhi will suffocate with his overpossessive attitude and possessiveness feels good in honeymoon phase of relationship only then it becomes intolerable and it makes relationship die, love should be your own happy place, love should be liberating not confinement, it should give you more happiness than pain, I believe love should not be problematic because life is already problematic enough,love should be soothing so someone can take respite from all the baggage and problems life throws at us daily

Absolutely NO. The reason isn't shaurya . Its a little different. Yes , a girl must first see that the man respects her , rest everything comes later..in shauryas case it can be fixed, but I will never put up with such a moron narrow minded family. I'd rather like shaurya as a husband with aastha and Shaan as his parents.

Originally posted by: Rima_123

NO

It's actually very easy to get drawn to somebody like Shaurya, because his broken state triggers the caring instincts of a woman's personality. But it is not a woman's job to "fix" toxic men. Plenty of people go through some really devastating experiences in life but they turn out just fine and don't let those experiences become the epicentre of their lives. Men like Shaurya tend to drain the energy out of patient people around them because they expect them to understand and put up with their insecurity issues while simultaneously gas lighting and guilt tripping the same people if something doesn't go their way.

If I fell in love with such a man, I'd love him from afar but I wouldn't allow him to become a part of my life until I'm sure that he is willing to unlearn all the toxicity. But if he ends up going back to his toxic behavioural pattern, I'd have to walk away. Love is not reason enough for me to put up with toxicity.

Totally agree with you, it's so easy to fall for people like shaurya, the motherly instincts of women always make them fix everything and everyone which at last cause damage to the woman, she gives and gives and doesn't receive much making her empty inside

I don't want anyone😆..I am happy drooling KV🤣

He he I was thinking same......

Will I be able to accept?

The answer will be may be I will love him to eternity,but husband or spending whole life No.......

I will choose to be heartbroken and live alone instead.......

In any cases I will be the one who had to bear pain .......It is just like to choose in which pain you accept to suffer .In both choices you are going to suffer.......

Being Anokhi's age group somewhat slight elder I know we like this kind of people we feel special,important etc but in real life this takes worse turns....These kind of people doubts every move,dominance gives them an different kind of kick.....,They wants to and controls the partner's life .......Upar upar se sab accha dikhta hai but it kills you within and not to forget these kind of people hs an criminal instinct too......If you tries to leave them later they won't.......(have listened a kind of) if anyone interested will let you know as suni-sunayi kahaani hai..........

These are the people wo khud chaahe jo bhi kare they will take you for granted but aap kuch bhi nahi kar sakte.........

Yeh dur ka dhol suhawna hai.........

The women who comes from such relationships suffers alot even after yearsof counselling they doesn't get healed back...They doesn't remain the person they are..........Plus they don't even care about your feelings....

There was an show (was regional)in which the ML has doubt on his wife when she was purely innocent,he spies even her calls and contacts with her own family,when a classmaate of her who one sided loves her comes to know about his nature goes and tells him...They were in arelationship and without clarifying he tortures her,insults her family to an extent her mother died due to heart attack....Even won't let her dad take her home(that too when she was shown pregnant)and he believes it wasn't his child....And in rage he gets into physical relationship with another women ......And expects her to accept him......

Aise log real lifemain bhi hote hai(I mean self-centered and obsessive).Jealousy and possesiveness is Ok ! but everything needs to be in imit.......

It is harmful! Such kind of relationships kills the person within.........ye buss shows and films main dekhne ke liye hi achha lagta hai..........

Its quite interesting to read the various views but most of them focus on his possessiveness. I think it is today's episode's effect. Chill guys, I'm sure it is a dream sequence only, SS will never behave like this in public.

Also Shaurya is not a toxic character, he flares up only about Aastha which we all know is normal human reaction for abandonment though I hate him calling her tum and showing disrespect every time, I can understand him.

He did humiliate Nikki & we all bashed him for that, but now that he knows he was wrong, I dont think he'll show his jealousy like this, not so crassly, no.

Originally posted by: serenepeace46

Totally agree with you, it's so easy to fall for people like shaurya, the motherly instincts of women always make them fix everything and everyone which at last cause damage to the woman, she gives and gives and doesn't receive much making her empty inside

There's a reason why it takes women so long to escape from abusive relationships because we ignore these red flags as we have a hope that time will fix everything. But it rarely ever happens. Personally, emotional baggage or not, yelling at people in public, dismissing reasoning as "lectures", expecting people around me to always be answerable to me...... these are some very big red flags that are hard to ignore.

Shaurya as a life partner ?🤔

NOPE 🤢

I want a life partner not a mother in law’s FAILED project for a life time

It’s the mindset that it is the duty of a wife to get her husband to the right path

Kyun bhai? 🤢

Why is it expected that the girl/ wife should be patient understanding forever and the man can go to any level of toxicity in a relationship?

if a man has only one lifetime and he is expected to have a good one same goes to the woman too

Whatever is shaurya’s childhood issues he chose to turn bitter 🤢

vaise even Anokhi did not grow up in a very secure lovable environment maybe even much worser than shaurya’s childhood where there’s was lack of allmost everything love support security and understanding 😳

So how come she respects relationships has her head right on her shoulders ?🤔

Where as shaurya loses it frequently and throws a hissy fit when things don’t go his way

So I won’t take the CRAP of childhood issues blah blah

It’s the bad choices shaurya made as how he chose to deal with his issues

Mujhe bhi zindagi jeeni hain main kyun apna sab kuch tyaag Karoo? For what.? 🤢

So My Answer is a BIG NO 😎

Gyaan zyaada ho Gaya ?🤣 Sorry 🙈🙈