Shaurrya mom

So she is not as bad as she is portrayed to be. This Tej Devi couple is so shrewd they literally are the reason for Shaurya missing out on parental love

I found the fb reason for split and abandonment flimsy. Yeah his mom decided she needed to provide for her parents but to leave her child over the job issue was crazy. She and her husband could have come to a compromise over it maybe he could have provided some help etc but to leave your child over the need to provide for your parents and then to have no contact seemed like a crazy reason.

Originally posted by: manny136

I found the fb reason for split and abandonment flimsy. Yeah his mom decided she needed to provide for her parents but to leave her child over the job issue was crazy. She and her husband could have come to a compromise over it maybe he could have provided some help etc but to leave your child over the need to provide for your parents and then to have no contact seemed like a crazy reason.

I see what you are saying but remember we are only given one side of the story. This is what the sabharwals think of her that she was selfish and mean that's not the entire truth also she did want to take her son away with her she didn't abandon him she was told too to leave him behind and again that was just verbal we don't know in exactly what situation she left of she tried to take him away or just accepted it. Neither did we see if she tried to contact and wasn't let through by the evil badi maa and bade papa who obviously filled it in his mind ke his mum never cared for him which doesn't seem to be true. So I think it is a bit too early to come to judge aastha and the situation at that time.

The saberwal are orthodox rich ppl but guess shaan wasn't strong enough to support his wife had he stool up for her they could have been together...

Let's see how story pans out m sure anokhi will be the one reconciling shaurya and astha

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I see what you are saying but remember we are only given one side of the story. This is what the sabharwals think of her that she was selfish and mean that's not the entire truth also she did want to take her son away with her she didn't abandon him she was told too to leave him behind and again that was just verbal we don't know in exactly what situation she left of she tried to take him away or just accepted it. Neither did we see if she tried to contact and wasn't let through by the evil badi maa and bade papa who obviously filled it in his mind ke his mum never cared for him which doesn't seem to be true. So I think it is a bit too early to come to judge aastha and the situation at that time.

Yeah obviously its the pov from the chachi person of what transpired in the past. But still both his parents still have some form of contact so we know there could have been a way she could have had contact with her child too even if she had to leave for her parents. Its not like the aunt and uncle are some dictators that they can force her to give up custody of her own child. Lets see what her version of the past shows. I hope we dont get to see grandpas last wish fb though lol what a weird promise to give out before dying women cant work lol

I think the weakness they have shown from the dad also played a part in the separation for sure. Obviously the ML has been brainwashed by the elder aunt and uncle into hating her and also his educated version of MCP lol

I guess they want the FL to be the miracle worker who fixes his relationship with his parents and reunites mother and son coz the actual duo who seem pretty sane cant bridge the gap lol

this reminds me of a turkish show I watch where the FL who has no expertise in psychology somehow cures the uppity ML mom from isolation in her house and gets her all 'cured' in a few tries lol now the woman wont stop being out and about meddling lol

Originally posted by: manny136

Yeah obviously its the pov from the chachi person of what transpired in the past. But still both his parents still have some form of contact so we know there could have been a way she could have had contact with her child too even if she had to leave for her parents. Its not like the aunt and uncle are some dictators that they can force her to give up custody of her own child. Lets see what her version of the past shows. I hope we dont get to see grandpas last wish fb though lol what a weird promise to give out before dying women cant work lol

I think the weakness they have shown from the dad also played a part in the separation for sure. Obviously the ML has been brainwashed by the elder aunt and uncle into hating her and also his educated version of MCP lol

I guess they want the FL to be the miracle worker who fixes his relationship with his parents and reunites mother and son coz the actual duo who seem pretty sane cant bridge the gap lol

this reminds me of a turkish show I watch where the FL who has no expertise in psychology somehow cures the uppity ML mom from isolation in her house and gets her all 'cured' in a few tries lol now the woman wont stop being out and about meddling lol

The gayatri chachi did mention today that how tej bhaisaab threatened to go the legal way for the custody and forced aastha to leave him behind and then strategically taken him under their wing to strengthen their position and hold over the household and shaurya. Aastha in the FB did mention that she will fight and she is trying to talk and reach out to Shaurya in the brief meeting they have had today too which means she probably did try but he was too brainwashed by then. She did say yesterday too that hopefully he will understand now as he's an adult now but it again.comes back to how strategically the bade papa and badi maa has distanced him from.his.parents. woh baap toh pehle hi loser hai who didn't had the spine to stand up.for his wife na pehle na ab and bete se bhi banti nahi hai caz of his loser ways. So it makes sense why itne saal se contact ho nahi paaya caz shaurya now wants nothing to do with the mother whom he thinks abandoned him when in reality she was not at all financially secure then to do court kacheri and besides she was leaving her child still in a loving family who could support him and with his father so shaurya in that sense still had the security while they were making her to abandon her old parents who were dependent on her for some faltu kasam so at that time her parents needed the sahara way more.

Now that doesn't mean her child didn't but again it comes down to who needed her more at that time and that is a very realistic human situation and conflict. Sometimes you have to choose. Again am not justifying whatever happened but to me aashtha wasn't wrong given in the situation she was trapped in. She did try to take the kiddo along with her the very same day but woh devi snatched him and in the spot declared herself as his maa and abhi toh aastha nikli bhi nahi thi ghar and she started the brainwashing with sirf ek maa hai tumhari main. So who knows aur kya kya garbage bhara hai usne in all this time. They are the reason he has such backward soch. Brings me back to the bahu saying clearly he was fed wrong info all this while instead of telling him the reality that his mother had no other option then to support her parents with his uncle dying they told him that she chose her career over him which isn't true. This is what aastha said yesterday too that plz do not think that am rebelling against the family by wanting to work nope.but this is the need of the hour but she didn't get any support from her in laws and esp that spineless pati who couldn't stand for his wife or son

Ab apne jeete maa baap ko marne ke liye chod de in an emotionally and financially weak situation for bapu ji ko di some pointless kasam puhleez. What stupidity is this that the sabharwals wanted

One thing am.loving is how the women are supportive of each other without being in your face. Bohat hi nuanced understanding and support dikha rahin hain sab ek dusre ke liye be it Anokhi's momand sister or yeh chachinof shaurya she could have lied to her bahu and all he she presented just plain facts without manipulating about the manipulative ways of her jethani.

Ofcourse anokhi will bridge the gap later but abhi ke liye I am liking how her bonding is kept separate with aastha then the usual iss liye bond karna caz hero.ki maa hai. 😆

Now let's wait for aastha ki story

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

The gayatri chachi did mention today that how tej bhaisaab threatened to go the legal way for the custody and forced aastha to leave him behind and then strategically taken him under their wing to strengthen their position and hold over the household and shaurya. Aastha in the FB did mention that she will fight and she is trying to talk and reach out to Shaurya in the brief meeting they have had today too which means she probably did try but he was too brainwashed by then. She did say yesterday too that hopefully he will understand now as he's an adult now but it again.comes back to how strategically the bade papa and badi maa has distanced him from.his.parents. woh baap toh pehle hi loser hai who didn't had the spine to stand up.for his wife na pehle na ab and bete se bhi banti nahi hai caz of his loser ways. So it makes sense why itne saal se contact ho nahi paaya caz shaurya now wants nothing to do with the mother whom he thinks abandoned him when in reality she was not at all financially secure then to do court kacheri and besides she was leaving her child still in a loving family who could support him and with his father so shaurya in that sense still had the security while they were making her to abandon her old parents who were dependent on her for some faltu kasam so at that time her parents needed the sahara way more.

Now that doesn't mean her child didn't but again it comes down to who needed her more at that time and that is a very realistic human situation and conflict. Sometimes you have to choose. Again am not justifying whatever happened but to me aashtha wasn't wrong given in the situation she was trapped in. She did try to take the kiddo along with her the very same day but woh devi snatched him and in the spot declared herself as his maa and abhi toh aastha nikli bhi nahi thi ghar and she started the brainwashing with sirf ek maa hai tumhari main. So who knows aur kya kya garbage bhara hai usne in all this time. They are the reason he has such backward soch. Brings me back to the bahu saying clearly he was fed wrong info all this while instead of telling him the reality that his mother had no other option then to support her parents with his uncle dying they told him that she chose her career over him which isn't true. This is what aastha said yesterday too that plz do not think that am rebelling against the family by wanting to work nope.but this is the need of the hour but she didn't get any support from her in laws and esp that spineless pati who couldn't stand for his wife or son

Ab apne jeete maa baap ko marne ke liye chod de in an emotionally and financially weak situation for bapu ji ko di some pointless kasam puhleez. What stupidity is this that the sabharwals wanted

One thing am.loving is how the women are supportive of each other without being in your face. Bohat hi nuanced understanding and support dikha rahin hain sab ek dusre ke liye be it Anokhi's momand sister or yeh chachinof shaurya she could have lied to her bahu and all he she presented just plain facts without manipulating about the manipulative ways of her jethani.

Ofcourse anokhi will bridge the gap later but abhi ke liye I am liking how her bonding is kept separate with aastha then the usual iss liye bond karna caz hero.ki maa hai. 😆

Now let's wait for aastha ki story

Ok i didnt watch todays epi yet lol but I think more of the fault is def the hubbys he was there with the kid and he let his bro and sis in law mess up shuarayas head with their nonsense. HIs weakness cost his wife and son their relationship and now he drinks away and sends whatsapp messages to his estranged wife or should i say noor lol I get asthas dilemma i wonder if her parents are still alive maybe they could shed some light into the issue for the ML. I bet the badi ma couldnt have kids and used this as an opportunity to snatch shauraya lol by the time astha and chachi had kids and she didnt lol The guys family is def pareh like jhahil lol who acts like this if they wanted astha to stay they could have helped her parents out try to make the dire situation for her easier but I guess they wanted her out maybe in some sordid way for sure coz we know astha was already willing to give up her career for shaan in the first place to marry him but this time she had no other choice coz she had really no support whatsoever.

Im glad chachi and her bahu seem normal but they too have little say. At least they have each other and maybe in future will be supportive for astha and obviously anokhi lol i feel bad for anokhis mom and sister man they have no way out hopefully when she runs off to study they get the guts to fights back against the dad and her sisters greedy husband.

Anokhi bonding with astha lol yeah they have the better relationship hope shaurya doesnt get all jealous later on seeing their bond my mom loves her more then me woe lol

After watching today's episode,it's evident that the primary culprit of this entire fiasco is the father Shaan. The question of Aastha having to work in order to financially support her parents wouldn't have arisen had he been self sufficient enough to support them himself. And if he couldn't do it then he should have left the house with his wife and son. Had he stood by Aastha's side then all threats made by Bade Papa and Badi Maa would have been futile because no court on earth can take a kid away from his biological parents who are physically and mentally capable of raising him.The reason why they were able to intimidate Aastha into giving Shaurya up was because she didn't have Shaan's support.

In short,both Aastha and Shaurya are victims of Shaan's cowardice. Shaurya's mind was conditioned and tuned to a particular thought process due to years of manipulation by his so called Badi Maa.The fact that she gave up her chance at having kids of her own for raising him must have burdened him further.

Originally posted by: fkhr30

So she is not as bad as she is portrayed to be. This Tej Devi couple is so shrewd they literally are the reason for Shaurya missing out on parental love

Just like the other Chachi said. They filled Shaurya with hate.His mom didn't leave for her career. She left to support her parents. Kitne ghatiya log hai ek bete ko Maa ke khilaf karr Diya.