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i dont understand this irrational hatred of soumya. she has never thought preeto is wrong. we the audience think preeto is wrong because what she perceives as destruction of harman's life is harman's happiness and personal choice which should be respected. and preeto has tried to completely ruin soumya countless times even when her son's life was not being ruined at all. you seem to always justify preeto's actions as concern for her son. its never been soumya's fault nor has she ever asked harman to do all he did for her. it was her good fortune. preeto instead of confronting her son spent her time trying to ruin soumya, trying to send her to kinnar world, then to prostitution in bangkok, getting her kidnapped over and over, nimmi's death- her motherhood has been cursed because she failed to respect another woman's motherhood. you reap what you sow, so i dont understand why anyone would be sympathetic. and the anger soumya had at her sister's life being ruined is not the same at all. surbhi should be able to lead a life where she wont have to fight her husband's love for another woman constantly- she knows harman loves her. that would actually ruin surbhi's life. harman's life in contrast is NOT ruined. preeto may think it to be but for harman soumya is his good fortune, not misfortune. so his life is NOT ruined. it will be ruined if he leads a sad life forced into a marriage just to give preeto pota-poti. so ofcourse the comparison of soumya reaction and preeto's crying fowl when shes been breaking the rules from the get-go and conspiring and conniving all the time are very different.

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

i dont understand this irrational hatred of soumya. she has never thought preeto is wrong. we the audience think preeto is wrong because what she perceives as destruction of harman's life is harman's happiness and personal choice which should be respected. and preeto has tried to completely ruin soumya countless times even when her son's life was not being ruined at all. you seem to always justify preeto's actions as concern for her son. its never been soumya's fault nor has she ever asked harman to do all he did for her. it was her good fortune. preeto instead of confronting her son spent her time trying to ruin soumya, trying to send her to kinnar world, then to prostitution in bangkok, getting her kidnapped over and over, nimmi's death- her motherhood has been cursed because she failed to respect another woman's motherhood. you reap what you sow, so i dont understand why anyone would be sympathetic. and the anger soumya had at her sister's life being ruined is not the same at all. surbhi should be able to lead a life where she wont have to fight her husband's love for another woman constantly- she knows harman loves her. that would actually ruin surbhi's life. harman's life in contrast is NOT ruined. preeto may think it to be but for harman soumya is his good fortune, not misfortune. so his life is NOT ruined. it will be ruined if he leads a sad life forced into a marriage just to give preeto pota-poti. so ofcourse the comparison of soumya reaction and preeto's crying fowl when shes been breaking the rules from the get-go and conspiring and conniving all the time are very different.

If Preeti only pressure Souma to convince Harman's second marriage. OK then.

But Preeti had sent Souma to Kinnari world without advance Harman said, then she wanted to sell Bankog to do prostitute. intentionally hurt emotionally Nimmo, who died. Preeti, was not sorry.

One thing is when the scheming second thing is when someone threatens the life.

Harman is an adult has the right to decide for themselves.

What Preeti doing wrong.

family has a mouthful, God, I do not think God would agree that Harman lived with two the wives. Clearly the plan Preeto is to marry Harman, and kick Souma.

It does not matter. Anyway, polygamy is to be married, and marry again, not it's okay.

This second marriage would not be valid under the law. because I do not know whether it is in India, but polygamy, I think there is not.

So Preeti, a Harman makes criminals. What the villagers say? villagers know that Harman is married to Souma.

Originally posted by: naaju

Preeto is wat any present Indian mother is like..Preeto's wrath is justified in d sense dat neither she nor Harman knew at d tym of wedding abt saumya's truth...If Harman knew den Preeto dint had any right to blame saumya n her family bt it was nt like dat...Problem started becos Harman married saumya n accepted as his wife...n his feelings grew...datshwhy preeto blames saumya...

Bt if Harman knew at d tym of wedding he wud have obviously backed out..

Nimmi shud have stopped d wedding anyhw by saying saumya has some disease or is unproductive..Hw cud she blindly believe Harman dat he wud still b kind towards saumya after knowing d truth..Hw much she knew harman..wat if he wud in anger murder saumya??..watch crime patrol..ppl actually do murderin a flcik of second wen they r r in anger...

In India I have seen both boys n girls doing suicide wen dey get married to gay or lesbian..Becos Its impossible for anyone here to accept such things at present...Parents disown their own children after knwing dey r eunuch, gay or lesbian.Den hw cn v expect Preeto to not hate saumya...

If v luk at the current scenario in India parents dont even accept inter religion n intercaste marriages n r ready to do honour killing for d same..Den hw cn v expect any parent to accept such marriages..

Preeto is no tulsi or parvati she is a very realistic mother..

My muslim friend wanted to marry a hindu guy.His mother gave her clear cut warning of murder, acid attack etc...

So I find preeto's character very realistic as show is set in present day wid village backdrop...

Originally posted by: Estadra

If Preeti only pressure Souma to convince Harman's second marriage. OK then.

But Preeti had sent Souma to Kinnari world without advance Harman said, then she wanted to sell Bankog to do prostitute. intentionally hurt emotionally Nimmo, who died. Preeti, was not sorry.

One thing is when the scheming second thing is when someone threatens the life.

Harman is an adult has the right to decide for themselves.

What Preeti doing wrong.

family has a mouthful, God, I do not think God would agree that Harman lived with two the wives. Clearly the plan Preeto is to marry Harman, and kick Souma.

It does not matter. Anyway, polygamy is to be married, and marry again, not it's okay.
This second marriage would not be valid under the law. because I do not know whether it is in India, but polygamy, I think there is not.

So Preeti, a Harman makes criminals. What the villagers say? villagers know that Harman is married to Souma.

@shivin

@naaju (Beyhad dost😉). Hats off to your realistic way of writing.

Originally posted by: naaju

@shivin

I dont think I mentioned saumya's fault anywhere...n I dint even said Preeto is morally correct..I just said she is realistic...If I get cheated in marraige may b I wud also get ready to murder d cheaters..It depends upon d nature of person...n preeto has negative personality..

N yes I agree things r getting changed but its at a very small level n esp for higher class ppl living in metros..Datshwy I said d story is set in village backdrop..esp Punjab n v all knw wats d scenario is in Northern India esp Punjab n Haryana

I have seen 2 types of social msg based shows--

First one is which only shows wats is actually going in reality like Bol n Matrabhoomi..It doesnt tell ppl wat dey shud do for being morally correct... ..Like in Bol movie d euncuh child was raped n killed n den daughter killed her father..n movie ended at a sad note..

Second one is which shows wat is happening n den shows ppl reforming n realising their mistaken den dey show revolution n all n hw future shud b like...

Currently I see shakti as falling in first case..

Becos marriage wid younger sis wen elder sis has problem is also common in villages..Though its very wrong bt dis is reality...n life is mostly not Fair

Originally posted by: NeverBeDismayed

@naaju (Beyhad dost😉). Hats off to your realistic way of writing.

I liked the para of your starting .."Nimmi..." - She is rootcause of ruining harmans life. 😡. Bloody could hv straight away shouted wo kinnar hai konnar hai kinnar hai..."

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@ tejaswani.. I am still counting no. Of times of word "ruin" in your abstract. 🤣

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@Estrada - i simply couldnt fathom..mixed liners.