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Have you ever been in a situation where you contemplate about what your mother said to you? You didn't pay much attention to it at that time but when something happens you realise "my gosh she was so right"! I bet you have thought that at least once in your life. I think about it many times and I try to implement my mothers "pearls of wisdom" whenever applicable.

Seeing the scene where Suhana is speaking her mother's words, pulled the strings of my heart! Vidhisha's wisdom's are so simple, yet so real and so relatable. During adolescence we try to avoid listening to lectures from our mother, but then later we realise how important they were and they still are, for a mother will always want her child to grow up to be good person in every manner possible. That is why she shares her own intellectual thoughts with us, to help us grow, to learn, develop, to become a better person everyday! There lies a beauty that is invisible to the naked eye. A mother gives us her pearls of wisdom but she never wants anything back for it, for it is her unconditional love that makes her want us to become wise, sensible and more beautiful.

The letter spoke in a simplistic manner, yet it was so effective in conveying what is so deep and true to life. To make your in-laws your own, you have to do a little adjustment and give lots of love. This is the fundamental base for almost all homes. Going into a new home, a new family, a new way of living, is daunting for any girl but if she applies this theory into practice, then life will become a little easier. Soon she can call them her own and soon their world will become her world!

Suhana has come a full circle, she at 1st couldn't stand the thought of living in a world that is so alien to her. Her world literally turned upside down as her husband and the family were totally different to what she expected or wanted. Life seemed so cruel but this was a result of her own brash decision.

After finding true love and affection from the Kashyap's, she realised that they were her "family" and not a "crowd" anymore. Badi ma gave her the much needed maternal love and warmth that she was yearning for, so for Suhana she became her "mother figure" and not just her "elder saas". Ishaan's honest, simple and understanding nature drew her closer and closer to him. In him she found a true husband, a precious bond and the love of her life.

Now she reads her mother's letter with more regard as each word has so much value and depth that was incomprehensible before but now they make perfect sense. Each time they become more transparent and crucial for her own growth. Suhana holds the principles with high esteem, for her it's no longer just a letter from her beloved deceased mother, but a guide in life and indelible contribution for her journey into marital bliss. Vidhisha's blessings, her pearls of wisdom has encouraged her Suhana to be where is is today! For her, Ishaan is her love, her heart and her family is her world.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Beautifully written Sheemu👏Simply loved what you have written.. The same is with everyone, you realize at some point of time in life that yeah indeed mom was right..



As for Suhana, the letters represent the only guidance she got from her mom apart from a few memories.. With time she realizes the true value of her mom's words.. One of the best parts of writing in SGP along with BM's dialogues.👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ice.maiden

Beautifully written Sheemu👏Simply loved what you have written.. The same is with everyone, you realize at some point of time in life that yeah indeed mom was right..




As for Suhana, the letters represent the only guidance she got from her mom apart from a few memories.. With time she realizes the true value of her mom's words.. One of the best parts of writing in SGP along with BM's dialogues.👏
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Thankyou Shushma. Your compliments are always so encouraging.

Yes you so right, there comes many points in our lives when we think of all those advice and how correct they are!

I agree 100000% that the letter is a incredible piece of work. Must have been written by someone of a loving/caring and wise nature.

You know since the beginning, I've loved this invisible bond that Sunana shares with her mother, whether it's through memory, letter or photos. It's invisible but the creators and Ragini have made it so impactful through performances that you cannot ignore it!. There is something so special about it...very heart warming and heart wrenching. Love it!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Such a wonderful Post👏 Sheemu di I agree with whatever you have written!
I think that only when we experience anything personally is the time we get to understand our mother's concern & advice for us..😊
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@Sheemu Di Wonderful post as usual!! ⭐️I forgot to tell you yesterday, I love the titles of your posts. I can tell it is your post just by reading the time. Funny, isn't it?

Will reply as soon as possible. Hopefully.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent Sheemu, excellent, you have such a talent with words, the way you you put your thoughts in words is itself a treat to read. The writter of SGP would be so happy , as when they write something they are the least appreciated bunch but when something goes wrong they get the blame!! if the dialogues were great, most praise are given to the actors who delivers them and very little to the writer and when the script is bad the whole burden is on the writer,s shoulder we do that all the time !!.
You are absolutely right about everything, this is where SGP stands out, a very realisrtic, applicable to real life scenario. This is the Xfactor of SGP which is so close to our heart, this is the SGP which make is different among the crowd, and when ever they deviate from this realistic story line we find it difficult to relate to it. SGP has become part of our lives, I wish people see the real reason of SGP not just couple falling in love and falling everwhere else, its a journey of life made interesting and lovable by the whole family wether its emotions, comedy, love, romance , when ever its done with right balance it touches you. I love SGP from the core of my heart, it is for all the sect of our society no matter who you are, this is the main SANSKAAR, or TEHZEEB, or Life Style of millions in the subcontinent.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sheemu you are a master of words👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sheemu.. Superb Post.. Vidhisha words are so real and true.. It was so sad that while writing the letter she knew that she will not be there when her daughter get married .. She knows her daughter will surely miss her mother in marriage and going to live in an unknown family.. As a mother vidhisha is not visible to her daughter, but convey her message through the letter...

I like there relationship between suhana and her mom.. It's so much painful and touching..One of the best dialogues of SGP conveyed very well by Ragini...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovable_ragzfan

Such a wonderful Post👏 Sheemu di I agree with whatever you have written!

I think that only when we experience anything personally is the time we get to understand our mother's concern & advice for us..😊



Awww thankyou so so much Sheetu dear. You kindness is my strength!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ymanjushree10

@Sheemu Di Wonderful post as usual!! ⭐️I forgot to tell you yesterday, I love the titles of your posts. I can tell it is your post just by reading the time. Funny, isn't it?


Will reply as soon as possible. Hopefully.



😆lol really? Well thankyou. I do try to be creative with my titles, sometimes they work and sometimes they don't but thankyou so much for liking them. It means a lot to me.

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