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Posted: 15 years ago
#21

😭 Am so depressed ....missed the show....😭

Already excited to watch the repeat...reading all ur awesome views..šŸ˜›
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: an12345678

@vishmewell: She did complain in the last episode when she was denied the chance to play Ludo.

There is different relationship between bhabhis and their husbands and Suhana and Ishaan. And, if not to their husbands ... to whom are they going to tell their problems.

And, Suhana did act in ways that have shaken their feelings for her. Do not think they had any kind of problem with her and did everything to make her at home. They still do not crib that Suhana does not do any house chores. They have kept the family together, molded themselves accordingly, and love each member.

I believe at this moment they are more human and better than Suhana. Suhana is more concerned about her feelings and what affects her ... she only shows concern when others share the same loss like hers.




RD are wives yaar... lekin hamari Suhana Official Wife hai na... 🤣 dekha 'Offcial' aage laganese kithna vajan badjaatha hai.. 🤣🤣🤣 that's what makes her special...🤣
She is innocent.... galathi ki usne.. lekin RD ke samjhaneki thareeka galat hai...

they would have taken her to to some nukkad where she would not survive without them and leave her there to taste her own medicine... jo hosh 3 hrs mein thikane mein laasakthe hai, then why make someone like Suhana TUBE LIGHT cry??? She doesn't understand anything unless told directly. What happened after the first dinner epi? Unless dadi told her in plain words she did not understand. Also, she is from different life style...

If Suhana was concerned only about her feelings and only what affects her, would she say to her mom's picture that "these people are very nice and may be she would not match them even if she tried her best? She was insulted out right by pushing the plate towards her... you don't do that even to your maid... she was about to take a bite from D's plate and D takes the plate away? How cruel is that? There's a difference between making mistakes intentionally and unintentionally. While Suhana undoubtedly put the bhabhis thru humiliation and fear. But that was unintentional, innocence and stupidity. But what bhabhis are doing is intentional, cruel and... they are forgetting the fact that Suhana needs to hear in plain words to realize her mistake rather than beating the bush... She is a TUBE LIGHT!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

she only shows concern when others share the same loss like hers because that's the only world she knows... she is like a frog in a well... Isn't it a good enough reason to give her more exposure and little more understanding?😳😳

Edited by vishmewell - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: an12345678



Very well said Anu. 😊 Beautiful acting and beautiful dialogues ... and beautiful direction. I was given the title of Dakku An as I used to be so mad at KMH creative team and for writing such hollow dialogues that made no sense ... šŸ˜† I have no complaint here. It's near perfect. 😊



Thanks, An :-)

LOL KMH...I better keep my mouth shut about that showšŸ˜†šŸ˜†.....anyways, SGP gives me no cause for complaint from the creatives either....I don't think I've admired the writers of any daily soap as much as I admire the creative team of this show....they deserve endless awards in my opinionšŸ‘šŸ‘
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Official wife ka tag only seedha-sadha Ishaan knows šŸ˜†. I do not see Suhana as innocent, even innocent people know that one does not ditch people in a restaurant, and they can be ditched but won't ditch. She is too self-centered, according to me, and had quite a protected life. The moment she was exposed to harsh realities of life … (when Sid announced she is just not marriage material) … she went ahead and married someone just to prove she is. An innocent person won't show such kind of trait. Everything has happened according to her whim and when that equation is disturbed, she is disturbed too … and ends-up disturbing others life.

One afternoon, she was not willing to share the cool confines of her room with others. And, when she feels lonely, she wants others to give her the company, or one may call that holding out the olive branch. What about the feeling of the two ladies. She has been directly pointed-out in the tube-light scene, but what happened after that, restaurant fiasco. These two bhabhi would very well had hired a cab and got back home, leaving Suhana behind. But, they were worried about her too and kept standing in that place all alone … wondering where she is. If I bring the reality angle: Delhi is called the rape capital of India.

I did not like that scene: when they take the plate away. But, one can see it as symbolic: the insulting looks that they received from the waiters in the restaurant … may be it was shown to make Suhana realize how insulting one feels when something like that happens.

Were they so bugged with Suhana from day one, Nope. They loved her, made breakfast according to her taste, pampered her and still do not accuse her of being useless -- which she is currently. One cannot expect to go on doing things for others without expecting a little something back in return.


How long can Suhana continue living like a frog in a well that too in her sasural where there are sister-in-laws like her?

Me in defending bhabhis mode … šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

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Posted: 15 years ago
#25
I loved todays episode and everything about it! It was just amazing..too beautiful!
Dil khush kar diya aaj!
and hopefully the war btw bhabhis and Suhana will be over by tomm or day after..
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Posted: 15 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: an12345678

Official wife ka tag only seedha-sadha Ishaan knows šŸ˜†. I do not see Suhana as innocent, even innocent people know that one does not ditch people in a restaurant, and they can be ditched but won't ditch. She is too self-centered, according to me, and had quite a protected life. The moment she was exposed to harsh realities of life ' (when Sid announced she is just not marriage material) ' she went ahead and married someone just to prove she is. An innocent person won't show such kind of trait. Everything has happened according to her whim and when that equation is disturbed, she is disturbed too ' and ends-up disturbing others life.

One afternoon, she was not willing to share the cool confines of her room with others. And, when she feels lonely, she wants others to give her the company, or one may call that holding out the olive branch. What about the feeling of the two ladies. She has been directly pointed-out in the tube-light scene, but what happened after that, restaurant fiasco. These two bhabhi would very well had hired a cab and got back home, leaving Suhana behind. But, they were worried about her too and kept standing in that place all alone ' wondering where she is. If I bring the reality angle: Delhi is called the rape capital of India.

I did not like that scene: when they take the plate away. But, one can see it as symbolic: the insulting looks that they received from the waiters in the restaurant ' may be it was shown to make Suhana realize how insulting one feels when something like that happens.

Were they so bugged with Suhana from day one, Nope. They loved her, made breakfast according to her taste, pampered her and still do not accuse her of being useless -- which she is currently. One cannot expect to go on doing things for others without expecting a little something back in return.


How long can Suhana continue living like a frog in a well that too in her sasural where there are sister-in-laws like her?

Me in defending bhabhis mode ' šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†



I agree with everything you wrote about RD POV and they have a right to be mad at Suhana. But the way they are trying to make Suhana realize her mistake is wrong. Jo screw screwdriver se lagasakthe hai, they are using hathoda... 😳 I rather would have approved them taking to a nukkad where she cant survive (as Suhana Bajpai) without them and left her there. That would have rung bells faster for Suhana rather than harkat that will not make sense to her.

Yes, Suhana married Ishaan for all wrong reasons. But she never misbehaves either with him or the family members.
They may be loving her but they are always biased towards Suhana from day one. I will give you a small flash back of the first few epis of Suhana in her Sasural. The scene where she broke the glass, did RD not complain to Inder-Elesh that Suhana would not mingle with them? And... to the extent that they taunted Ishika that her shant Suhana bhabhi broke the glass that afternoon! 😳 So, I have to disagree with you that bhabhis are dood ke dhule... šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

Did Rajini ever thank Suhana for taking the blame for spending Rs.1000 oot of which Rs.650 was spent on Meethi's school bag? 😳 Isn't that a common courtesy? 😳

When Disha was so upset about Suhana calling Elesh jobless, Suhana went to the extent of serving tea and pakora in their room to manao her... Did Disha ever say sorry to Suhana for going over board with her teasing and calling Ishaan to be her unfit husband? 😳 😳😳 It doesn't give RD a right to say or do anything and not say sorry. 😳

Did you ever ask urself why RD did not tell the family members about Suhana? Please don't tell me they were trying to protect Suhana šŸ˜†šŸ˜† if that's true, they shouldn't have told even their husbands. šŸ˜†šŸ˜† They only protected themselves by doing so... small example. Suhana aaraamse forgot she was in western dress while returning. But RD reminded her to change into saree 😳😳 Had they left without Suhana and later Suhana arrives in western clothes pol nahi khuljaathi ki all the bahus wore the western under the sarees?😳 So they protected their image in the family by not going home without Suhana... Suhana is bindaas... she WYSIWYG type... she would have not lied to the family and accepted she was wrong doign that... would RD have done the same?😳 I dont think so. To them the perfect bahu image is important... 😳😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
#27
Lovedthat line...Eshaan is very sweet....Suhana Be careful i am falling for your man šŸ˜šŸ˜†
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@vishmewell: It's not for the perfect bahu tag that they reminded Suhana to change. Firstly, they understand family values and the kind of family they belong to. Would Alok have taken coolly to the sight of his bahu in western outfit, and coming back so late in the night? Secondly, the taxi was not going to drop them off, right in front of their house, but they had to cross the narrow lanes to reach their home. Rajni was being practical when she asked her to change.

They are dealing with her on their own level, and have not involved anyone else, or complained about her to anyone else or done things to bring her stature down in front of other members. Remember, they were publicly humiliated. They just want her to realize. They could have very much talked bad about Suhana to Ishaan, and they have every reason to do that, but they did not. Instead they asked Ishaan to keep her happy always. Isn't that what matters the most when a husband stands with you, and supports you even if the whole world is against you. They taught him to stand by his wife no matter what happens.

Since they are living in that family for so long and completely love the joint family structure, any sign of impending crack worries them. Tell me if a new bride breaks a glass in anger because it wasn't cool enough, wouldn't it raise red flags in any home. Everyone will be worried if she will become part of them or not.

They love pulling each others legs and they were doing the same with Suhana. There is always friendly banter that goes on in families or between friends, how did you get such a beautiful wife man ' look at you. Did they know about her past? Nope. Since, the family is always making fun of each other they did not see any reason to say 'Sorry.'

Also, in most of the Indian families Thank You is not said. They may jump in joy, love the presented stuff and express the same ' but Thank you would be missing. Does it mean there is less gratitude? Nada. Rajni did express that the bag was indeed cool.

Enough of defending bhabhis for the day šŸ˜† šŸ˜†šŸ˜†. Enjoyed it.

Edited by an12345678 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Vishmewell: Also, as someone said in one of her posts: taking her to a public place would have been more humiliating than what Suhana is facing now. Even that would have not been right.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#30

I'm not even gonna lie, it got me crying. It was such a poignant line. It practically defined SGP.

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