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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambrosia

Before jumping into conclusions it was her responsibility to talk to both Ishaan and Suhana first. She over heard Suhana declaring that the marriage was a bakwas for her but couldn't Radha bua see it that in spite of being unhappy, Suhana is still in their house? She is doing her best, trying to mend her ways when she could just pack her bags and leave. She is not even thinking that Suhana may not be happy with the marriage but probably she is working on it and maybe Ishaan is helping her to do that.

It was not right on her part to take decisions in behalf Suhana and Ishaan. It's their life and they have to take decisions regarding their married life themselves. Before involving the elders in the house and giving them unnecessary tensions, she should have tried first to solve the issue herself but she is all set to bring about more badnaami to the Kashyap family.

I thought at least she would understand the meaning of marriage, the importance of relationship as she had been unfortunate. Radha bua was a big disappointment for me. I just hope badi maa convinces her to calm down and think rationally.



WORD Ambrosia! 👏 esp. the bolded part.

Radha Bua should not take matters in her own hands. Agree she has gone through a lot of suffering/scarring in her life, she hates her own son and is possessive of Ishaan. But then if she DOES look up to Ishaan as her son, isn't it a mother's primary instinct to save the her son's breaking marriage? Here she is talking about getting rid of Suhana as though she were some inanimate object. If Suhana and Ishaan have some marital problems, and even then Suhana has not already left the house, then Radha Bua has to understand that there is something more to the story than she's privy to. The creepy way she looks at Suhana gives me jitters. I am disappointed as well. I am sure Badi Maa will talk her out of it, as she understands the importance of marriage more than anyone else.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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After hearing what Suhaana had said about the marraige and Ishaan meaning nothing to her, I dont really blame Radha bua for feeling the way she is.
I can see where your coming from though, we as the audience know that Ishaan & Suhaana will eventually fall in love so we hate to see someone doubting their marraige and hence the annoyance with Radha Bua...
I do kind of find it irritating that she just walks around looking at Suhaana 😆. Im glad they show her telling Badi Ma all this in the precap...at least Radha bua finally did something about the situation...Badi Ma is so much more sensible and hopeful that she's sure to be convinced they can awaken the love in Suhaana! Or else she'll at least keep Suhaana for fear of badnaami 😳
On a side note, Im glad SGP is finally picking up the pace and that very slowly we're seeing Suhaana starting to find some laughter in the crazy circus house 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth



WORD Ambrosia! 👏 esp. the bolded part.

Radha Bua should not take matters in her own hands. Agree she has gone through a lot of suffering/scarring in her life, she hates her own son and is possessive of Ishaan. But then if she DOES look up to Ishaan as her son, isn't it a mother's primary instinct to save the her son's breaking marriage? Here she is talking about getting rid of Suhana as though she were some inanimate object. If Suhana and Ishaan have some marital problems, and even then Suhana has not already left the house, then Radha Bua has to understand that there is something more to the story than she's privy to. The creepy way she looks at Suhana gives me jitters. I am disappointed as well. I am sure Badi Maa will talk her out of it, as she understands the importance of marriage more than anyone else.

Very nicely put...thats very true! But I guess thats the reason she has kept silent so far as she was analyzing the situation over in her mind. And the things Suhaana had said were quite harsh and enough to turn anyones head, especially when their in reference to someone like her son. Suhaana may not have left the house, but she hasnt made much of an effort either....plus the whole breaking the glass scene probably made her even more tense. And Radha has suffered so much in life that she probably has a negative view on things so hence her reaction to the situation as such.
But I do think it was ridiculous for her to say in the precap that she thinks they should break their marraige. Arre at least talk to them two first and see what they want?? That part was definately out of hand and she needs to stop trying to control everything.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well..after that...i think that badi ma wud make radha bua understand that ishaan and suhaana can be together........
in the future i think badi ma is gonna b the one bring ishaan n suhana closer
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anugupta

Very nicely put...thats very true! But I guess thats the reason she has kept silent so far as she was analyzing the situation over in her mind. And the things Suhaana had said were quite harsh and enough to turn anyones head, especially when their in reference to someone like her son. Suhaana may not have left the house, but she hasnt made much of an effort either....plus the whole breaking the glass scene probably made her even more tense. And Radha has suffered so much in life that she probably has a negative view on things so hence her reaction to the situation as such.
But I do think it was ridiculous for her to say in the precap that she thinks they should break their marraige. Arre at least talk to them two first and see what they want?? That part was definitely out of hand and she needs to stop trying to control everything.



Thank you Anu. See that's my point too... confront Ishaan and Suhana rather than recommending the other family members to break their marriage.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanayaa

He he Dis was bound to happen we luv Sushaan nd seeing sumone who wants to seperate dem will definately not appeal to us 😆

@Rijul:I agree she is a relatable character bcoz u do feel bad wen u see ur luved ones in pain nd u tend to develop a neagative feeling towards d person who is giving pain to ur loved ones...l but d way she is behaving is quite irritating... Always checking on suhana nd all dat... Instead of doing dis cant she confront suhana for once... She can ask her d problem...I kno its not dat ki suhana will tell her everything but she shuld try to see suhana's perspective tooo before comin to ny conclusion... She cant just go nd say ki we shuld seperated dem marriage is not a child's play....nd yes its afterall Ishaan's lyf she shuld let him handle it....
But maybe i m wrong,...maybe i m thinking impractically 😳I m not saying dat her feelings,emotions r fake or unrealistic.... I kno she luves Ishaan a lot but she gets irritating sumtimes....



I agree with you Sanayaa. Radha bua's love for Ishaan is genuine and she is attached to Ishaan.

In her love for Ishaan, her thinking is getting clouded. Yes, she heard her say things to her dad that she can't live in that marriage. She actaully asked Ishaan that afternoon whether he is happy in that marriage and Ishaan told her not to worry.

Insead of giving Suhana some time to blend with the family she is jumping the gun to separate them. In the process, her actions and thoughts towards Suhana are getting maligned. I was feeling very uncomfortable every time she is in the frame frowning at Suhana. But the consolation is badi maa is aware of her bua's thoughts and hope she will control her.

Suhana already is beginning to soften and realize her mistakes and learning to be respectful towards family members. I wish bua can see these changes in Suhana.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

I do agree Radha Bua has a reason y she is unhappy with Suhana as she heard the real bitter words Suhana spoke to her father, and to be frank what she said was really horrible, just imagine how would we feel when v hear someone whom we love being talked of like that? She really screamed and spoke in a really insulting manner about Ishan, their family, and about their marriage. And when Radha Bua heard all that, she even fell sick! So I think her reaction is just natural. But ya, she should also think practically, especially middle class people give more importance to marriage, relationships, etc, so it is not something u can just easily break off!



Hello dewdrop 😊 Yes, it would upset anybody who heard Suhana say all those mean things. As you said, she should be little more practical and give Suhana some time. She must also understand that Suhana is bin maa ki ladki and deprived of motherly affection or interaction with elderly women to learn things in a natural course of time. She yelled in the afternon at the servant lady and when explained in a nice way, she was sensible to mend her ways... she toned down, became more respectful towards family members. I wish Radha bua can see these changes in Suhana.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: remosalsa

yaa..even i find her irritating😔...in precap, he just wanted to go & break their relation😲



That reaction was little out of place... I guess she is a little annoying character... she has some negativity in her. Badi maa is cool headed... she's awesome...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambrosia

Before jumping into conclusions it was her responsibility to talk to both Ishaan and Suhana first. She over heard Suhana declaring that the marriage was a bakwas for her but couldn't Radha bua see it that in spite of being unhappy, Suhana is still in their house? She is doing her best, trying to mend her ways when she could just pack her bags and leave. She is not even thinking that Suhana may not be happy with the marriage but probably she is working on it and maybe Ishaan is helping her to do that.

It was not right on her part to take decisions in behalf Suhana and Ishaan. It's their life and they have to take decisions regarding their married life themselves. Before involving the elders in the house and giving them unnecessary tensions, she should have tried first to solve the issue herself but she is all set to bring about more badnaami to the Kashyap family.

I thought at least she would understand the meaning of marriage, the importance of relationship as she had been unfortunate. Radha bua was a big disappointment for me. I just hope badi maa convinces her to calm down and think rationally.



yes, bua is over reacting and jumping the gun without even trying to give any time. She should atleast trust Ishaan because she believes him to be very intelligent.

Badi maa is not only very practical and rational, she knows Suhana can be talked into realizing her mistakes and mend them. She will control Radha bua for sure.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anugupta

Very nicely put...thats very true! But I guess thats the reason she has kept silent so far as she was analyzing the situation over in her mind. And the things Suhaana had said were quite harsh and enough to turn anyones head, especially when their in reference to someone like her son. Suhaana may not have left the house, but she hasnt made much of an effort either....plus the whole breaking the glass scene probably made her even more tense. And Radha has suffered so much in life that she probably has a negative view on things so hence her reaction to the situation as such.
But I do think it was ridiculous for her to say in the precap that she thinks they should break their marraige. Arre at least talk to them two first and see what they want?? That part was definitely out of hand and she needs to stop trying to control everything.



Radha bua wasn't exactly analyzing the situation Anu( my name is Anu too😳) rather stalking Suhana around.😕 That's not the right way to know what is going on in the girl's mind.

I agree the way Suhana treated Mina was a shock to Radha and she was probably assured that Suhana wasn't the right girl for Ishaan. But didn't she see that Suhana tried to mend her mistake by offering a saree to Mina? Didn't she see that inspite of her great dislike in the food cooked in the Kashyap family, Suhana did eat the food when Badi maa fed her with her own hands? Not to forget she even ate breakfast when she is used to drinking juice/tea.. just because it was Badi maa's wish. She even played dumb charades with the whole family when she could just refuse and go lock herself in her roof.

I refuse to believe that Suhana is disrespecting anyone in the house. For a girl like Suhana who had been pampered all her life is doing so much for the family just shows that she is putting efforts from her side.


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