Originally posted by: Arshics
For some reason, the TV shows have only 3 categories of characters, the good, the bad and the dumb
The good has to be the extremely self sacrificing bahu, who will always be sach ke saath, and will often be misunderstood. She will suffer the misfortunes of others and will get blamed for all that goes wrong.
The bad - anything goes, lying, cheating, conniving, stealing, blackmailing, murdering, the bad guy have on their payroll an army of hoodlums and crooks, have no qualms about doing anything be it small petty tricks to huge crimes
And their target is the heroine always, and often this hatred is contrived
And in between are the parivar ke log - who have no capacity to think or rationalize, who accept any crap from all the others but the heroine has to uphold all the sanskars and maryadas and will be ready to punish her severely, while condoning anything and everything from everyone else.
This template exits in every single show in TV, be it a love story or a family drama.
Rather than create characters and situations that are thought provoking and conflicting and create emotional dilemmas that challenge our thoughts and force us to examine our mindsets and prejudices,
We are handed on a platter, caricatures that are black and white.
How wonderful would have been a real situation of a Saras Danny kabir, where Danny is actually jealous of the new bro kabir, who has Saras's sympathy for all that he had gone through, and we have a real conflict between the brothers where all 3 are right, all are trying to adjust to the dynamics of new relationships
Instead we have Saras always good, kabir always bad, and a mindless Danny who will believe blindly one or other. Today he will trust kabir and blame Saras, when he learns that kabir is bad, he will dump all and blindly trust Saras !
How unrealistic this whole scenario is ! So we have families which talk of Sanskar and paramapara and maryada and sach jhooth
But neglect to follow simple facts like communication, honesty trust respect etc which are actually what are needed to keep families together !