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Originally posted by: arshicritic
And a post to answer them all...
1. I kind of understood Kumud and really felt bad for Kumud last night - this marriage is a third rejection for her .Twice from Saras and once from pramaad. So is there something wrong with her? Something she isnot doing right?If Saras does love her as he claims, and it was an unthinking rejection, then is it her kismet to berejected?If she does walk out of this marriage, what is the guarantee that another accident will not lead toanother unthinking rejection from Saras?She had given herself so completely to him, she had changed her destiny, fought his rejection, pulled him to fall in love with her, and look where it got her!If her dad had said yes to pramaad in the first instant, she wouldn't have had to suffer in love, as she did, for the rejection of Saras after love hurts far more than the rejection of Pramaad.At least pramaad has made his reasons clear, it was coercion and he wants nothing to do with her!So, Kumud's reaction stems from her pain and vulnerability and I get that.Infact last night I understood her reasons for wanting to stay on, it's resignation and defeat that comes from repeated rejection.So, to all those who feel that she doesn't care for him, this has messed her up more than she shows2. My disappointment lies hence not with Kumud, because she is not thinking straight . It lay withDukhba. One reason why she was admired so much was that she had the courage to walk out of a bad marriage. She had till now showed a quiet pride in doing the right thing.Yet last night she hinted that it was her failure that her husband was a bad man.She who had lived with a wrong man, should so easily accept Kumud's decision to go back, alsosupport her and agree to hide it from VC , felt wrong at so many levels. A Mai who thundered thatshe will not let Kumud throw her life away, was surprisingly easy to convince!She who knew that Saras and Kumud are right for each other, and pushed them together, nowcannot see that pramaad is not right for Kumud?I needed to see her stand against Kumud, argue with her, explain to her what life with an abusiveman can be, educate her, not applaud her!3. Saras - as smrth has said- why is he here? Why is he interfering? Why can't he understand that toreally help Kumud, he has to go away, so that she is not tormented by her past.Isn't he still staking her claim on her? She is mine to protect and save, and I am her man?Just like she was his to reject and spurn when he was depressed?And true love, (again thanks smrth) is to love and wait, and accept.It is not to demand and push and take over the right to reorganize her lifeHe forsaked it, he came back, but destiny had played its cards.Now he must not punish her more by seeking forgiveness - what use is that forgiveness?4. The story - it has anyway been compromised enough for TRPs - the PMS, the entry of Saras soearly, the character of dukhbaa.And now the glorification of Kumud's decision to go back - an angry Kumud who insists on going back with her sharabi pati against her family's wishes - I would have accepted , because depressed people are also the most stubborn.But a Kumud applauded with pride, a rergertful dukhba, who now thinks she was wrong to have left her husband, who agrees to hide the truth from Kumud's birth mother and father - is appalling, and an incorrect social message, that is one adaptation of the novel that I strongly strongly strongly reject .5. The time - the novel is set in today, it was made contemporary, the Kumud of the original could not walk away then because girls did not walk away then. And moreover Saras was denying his love for her. It has been made contemporary. Saras is back asking for forgiveness, this Kumud has more options. At least a conflict over choosing the right one, if not from her from her dukhba?So by all means show a Kumud who chooses to live with pramaad , but at least show her doing it against all sound advice and not with the blessings of the woman who moulded her character!This twist is tale was a TRP exercise. And now will start TRP ka khel.
Originally posted by: IdiotViewer
So Kumud, we can excuse. As mentioned, she is, being "consistent". For me but, her consistency only stretches from Last friday, to today's epi. I identified and engaged with Kumud better before she had done the honors of so insistingly and assertingly caging herself in "boxes". She is still caged, that is as far as my current identification and tolerance stretches towards her. But Dukh Baa... What was all that almighty din and righteous thundering for, when even the flimsiest of "excuses" spouted by an utterly beseiged girl would not only melt but reduce you to a regretful, remorseful, utterly susceptible fool?!? 😡 Honestly, is Kumud the most deadliest of Siren's that her "song" can turn even the most sternest of brains to mush?? First, it left Saras utterly awestruck, and now, it has left Dukh baa longing to rewind the matrimonial-clock, and 'fix' Sahas Rai 🤢 Let us blame Jennifer's enchanting voice modulations, shall we 😉 (Disclaimer: this is not a "bash" 😳)... Kumud needed guidance, not unwarranted, destructive capitulation. Whose more world-weary, more experienced, more culpable here? Dukh baa, not Kumud, but the convo could've fooled me... A landmark case of "bua-blindness" in excruciating action? What a way to mark Independence day, India's largest GEC! 🤬A bit of "analysis"... It is heartbreaking to see "markers" being used so utterly without regard and narrative/character responsibilty now. The feet device today... The confused stumbling of Kumud totally undercut the mahaan, self-sacrifical kathaa she had fed to Dukh baa right before. It undermined K's convictions in her own words, her own beliefs, her mission "fix Pramad"... Leaves one wondering, is she still keeping a facade? Has the broken mirror miraculously re-joined after that Mandir epi? If so, it also implicity undermined Kumud and Dukh baa bond. Couldn't Badi Maa hear the screaming SOS in her laadli's eyes? How could mere hollow words, how could deceit so easily, so cleanly suffice between "Mother" and "Daughter"? Another thing I did not appreciate, bringing Guniyal's words in, to support the utterly wrong cause. Referring back to "Three Mothers Theory", Dukh baa was supposed to be the "cut", but lo and behold, Kumud turned out to be the "bind" for her long-forgotten marriage vow instead...! 🤢 And now, even without Guniyal being there, her words, unbeknowst, are shown as being the last "bind", with Dukh baa, reeling from own failures as a "wife" and left meekly applauding. So, a much dreaded theory has come to partial fruition, Kumud is now binded "three-ways"... And her autonomy in marriage severely restricted, by her own doing. Let's anticipate what tomorow's epi brings... I want Guniyal to the forefront. I want Dukh baa's useless proclamations muted. And I will, if she even tries, I hold the remote. I don't have to hear 😛
Originally posted by: arshicritic
Nayi Soch ki Nayi Leher Priya Star Plus JiAapko 67th Independence Day ki bahut badhayi hoAaj aapne hamain iss shubh awsar pe Jo sunder gift diya haiUske liye hum aapke bahut aabhari hainAur aaj aapki nayee soch ko salaam karte hainAuraton ke prati aapke vicharon se hum specially impressed hueAaj aap se Jo seekha hai, woh lajawab hai !Toh aaj humne seekha ki :1. Shaadi kismat se hoti hai, aur aaj ke zamane ki ladki apni kismat se nahi ladti2. Apne pati ko sudharne ka saubhagya hi sabse bada dharm hai3. Har sharabi mawali ki haalat ki zimmedar uski patni hai, jo usse sudhaar nahi payee4. Agar aapka pati aapko maarta hai, to aap ke pyaar main kami hai, aapko aur koshish karni hogi5. Agar aap ke pati sharabi hain aur aapke saath bura behave karte hain, toh yeh baat kissi ko matbatana, specially apne mata pita ko to kabhi nahi, yehi nayee soch haiWill the real Dukhba please stand up?Is it the one who said - main Kumud ke liye Bhagwan se lad jaaongi, Kumud apne sasural nahi jayegi,Or is it the one who said - shadi kismat se hoti hai, usko saubhagya ya durbhagya banana apne haath main hai, agar main Kumari ke bapu ko sudhar pati to Meri beti bina baap ke ...Because the second one deserves a kick on the backside 😡Was she actually saying what I thought she was saying? That she had been wrong in walking out on her husband?That any sort of father is better than no father, even one who will marry off his daughter to a married man with 2 kids, for revenge.And that if her husband is a scum, it's because she didn't try hard enough!And the precap - Since Kumud bechari abala nari, cannot sort out her mess alone, and since living with pramaad is her kismet,The valiant hero will help her to reform the sharabi, because without a man's help, a woman can achieve nothing!And the only achievement a woman can aspire for is a pati who will love her and accept her!So now after this extremely enlightening episode, that was full of nayi soch and nayi leher, here is the song of the day -Jai TRP maiyyaBolo jai TRP maiyyaTum ko nit din dhyaweStar plus wale bhaiyyaA perfect episode for the Independence Day !Rating - 10000000000/10
Arshii ...
What a wonderful CB you have given us today ... could not stop laughing ...and the TRP Aarti ... Awesome 🤣But i would like to play the role of the Devil's advocate here ... Did we not already know that this is the way things shall proceed ... Had the CVs not been showing this ever since the Marriage track ??... So why so Furious today ??We all have been talking about the same for weeks now ... we knew that Kumud had accepted this Marriage as her " Kismet " and had decided to bear all the atrocities ... all the insults ... and was going to make all efforts to be a Good Bahu and Pativrata Naari ...all in the name of this Sham marriage... So what is so New today ??and actually ... is it not the same as the original story of the Book too ??