Break up and fight-Reason not strong enough

Saras and his father had a fight over a broken business deal. I understand LNV Saras should have told atleast Sunny, danny or LNV that he is going to Ratnagiri once so that they could handle any emergency in office/house. This is second time Saras has lied/hidden from his father and gone to meet Kumud. This is just not done and any parent will be angry. We understand that.

Yes, the reasons are not strong enough for such break downs!

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Saras and his father had a fight over a broken business deal. I understand LNV Saras should have told atleast Sunny, danny or LNV that he is going to Ratnagiri once so that they could handle any emergency in office/house. This is second time Saras has lied/hidden from his father and gone to meet Kumud. This is just not done and any parent will be angry. We understand that.

But LNV also overreacted by blaming his wife for her suicide and ruining his reputation. What LNV does not realize after 20 years also is that its his fault he forced Saraswati to commit suicide. Saraswati was not that educated and a village girl. She may be scared that if LNV divorce her how she will bring up saras without money, family. In india girls parents and siblings usually do not support girl if she is left by her husband. Saraswati must have got scared for saras future as she mentioned in her suicide note and hence thought if she died saras can atleast live with his father and lover(future wife) may be not an happy life but good life where all his needs are fulfilled. Even today in real life in india many woman who do not go to work even with good education accept straying husbands why? For their children's sake. But saraswati had no option she was a villager did not know her rights as a first wife/divorcee hence thought that her son's future is better off if she killed herself.

Imagine a son gets to know his mother died to protect his future and his father's affair was responsible for that. He will react just like saras did accussingly angrily. But by now LNV who is elder and mature must have accepted he was wrong and try to pacify saras. Instead he attacked saras mom and accussed her for saras so called misbehaviour. Obivously a son will defend his dead mom and say what saras said to his father. Buttt again i did not understand why LNV never tried reconciling with his son why he never stopped him from leaving house. That shows LNV has never loved saras as a son ever. He was just taking care of him like a responsibility like saraswati had requested in her death note. LNV did not even think how saras got that letter after so many years his new wife's tricks. I wonder how LNV is such a successful businessman if he cannot understand his family his wife.

Next is the precap that saras breaks marriage to kumud. I would understand that if there was no one night stand that saras needs time to get over shock of his mom death new revelations. But now saras will not be seen in positive light. Tell me what is diff between LNV who married and had affair with Guman and dumped dukhba in mantap and saras who had one night stand and dumped kumud on wedding day. What happed to dukhba is again happening to Kumud. Indeed in india a woman's honour is linked to her being so called pure(not having physical relation with man before marriage) but now Kumud is in troble. She trusted saras and had one night stand with him and he rejects her. Now if her new husband misbehaves with kumud as per novel we will be angry with saras than pramod and kumud will not get much sympathy either although her husband is wrong.

I would have preferred LNV/Guman calling VC and cancelling wedding and VC marrying kumud to pramod before saras reach india as a better storyline than saras rejecting her on phone.

Originally posted by: Unfinished

Who is Pramod?????

Even iam wondering who this new person, everyone is talking about, and him suddenly gonna come and "marry" kumud in this is show, is going to be interesting to watch. I am only gonna belive all the articles and see if this is true, only when he comes on the show, despite him being in the story book of saraswatichandra.

I disagree with you. There is a difference to Saras and LN in their actions. LN had a affair and got married to Gumaan and left Dukhbaa at the altar. However, that was his selfish motive to get the 'love' of his life into his life instead of being coerced to marry Dukhbaa. Saras on the other hand has no motive...He's leaving everything behind him for peace of his mind and cause of the fear of unknowingly hurting Kumud and not giving her the life she expects from him..as any wife would expect from a husband. Saras isn't selfish... He's had a troubled childhood, always trying to appease his father after the tragic death of his mother...always being afraid of relationships...but when he found out the truth about his mother's death- he can't trust himself to get into that so called bond of a 'pavitra marriage' cause he hasn't had a perfect example of it in his whole life. What's the safe bet that his and Kumuds life would be picture perfect...not only does he need time to himself but he thinks Kumud deserves much better than a 'bhagoda' like him..as LN called him. He wants to get away from his father's empire, the same father who ridiculed Kumud and his love, and make a living and doesn't want Kumud to bear the cost...so yes, he's selfish...he's selfish in love...and it's not a crime.

Saras will in fact, support Kumud when her marriage problems start...cause despite the fact he left her, his love didn't lessen...He did whatever he did, for her good. And that is the specialty of the story ;) Two lovers that are deeply in love, but get separated due to unforeseen circumstances...and it is how in those circumstances they stand by each other, even though the situations have turned and they have become different people.

I say you should still watch out and see how the story surprises you. This is a love story with a classical feeling of eternal romance ;)

Originally posted by: Unfinished

Who is Pramod?????

Originally posted by: anitamalik

I disagree with you. There is a difference to Saras and LN in their actions. LN had a affair and got married to Gumaan and left Dukhbaa at the altar. However, that was his selfish motive to get the 'love' of his life into his life instead of being coerced to marry Dukhbaa. Saras on the other hand has no motive...He's leaving everything behind him for peace of his mind and cause of the fear of unknowingly hurting Kumud and not giving her the life she expects from him..as any wife would expect from a husband. Saras isn't selfish... He's had a troubled childhood, always trying to appease his father after the tragic death of his mother...always being afraid of relationships...but when he found out the truth about his mother's death- he can't trust himself to get into that so called bond of a 'pavitra marriage' cause he hasn't had a perfect example of it in his whole life. What's the safe bet that his and Kumuds life would be picture perfect...not only does he need time to himself but he thinks Kumud deserves much better than a 'bhagoda' like him..as LN called him. He wants to get away from his father's empire, the same father who ridiculed Kumud and his love, and make a living and doesn't want Kumud to bear the cost...so yes, he's selfish...he's selfish in love...and it's not a crime.

Saras will in fact, support Kumud when her marriage problems start...cause despite the fact he left her, his love didn't lessen...He did whatever he did, for her good. And that is the specialty of the story ;) Two lovers that are deeply in love, but get separated due to unforeseen circumstances...and it is how in those circumstances they stand by each other, even though the situations have turned and they have become different people.

I say you should still watch out and see how the story surprises you. This is a love story with a classical feeling of eternal romance ;)

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I understand Saras saying "no" in novel but not after a one night stand in serial. Did he forget this is india not US/Europe before having one night stand and leaving Kumud? What if her husband comes to know of their one night stand and misbehave with her(in novel he anyway misbehave with her). I do not want the serial to justify his behaviour towards kumud by making a issue of her one night stand.

Well let me put it this way...Kumud-Saras consummated their relationship...Saras thought it was right because their love is pure. It took time for Kumud to realize it, but she eventually did. That 'one night' is what is going to trouble them after they separate, but also provide them the sweet memories of their love...it's going to be the one thing from their past life which will be a bond between them. It will torment them but also provide a brief second of happiness. Like I said, Saras is emotionally strained at the moment. He's sacrificing for Kumud, he doesn't want to give her pain. The serial isn't going to revolve around the 'ONS'...that's something only Kumud and Saras will know in the long run of the story. It's gonna be their little secret...a memory they might turn to in the troubled times of their marriage ahead :)

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I understand Saras saying "no" in novel but not after a one night stand in serial. Did he forget this is india not US/Europe before having one night stand and leaving Kumud? What if her husband comes to know of their one night stand and misbehave with her(in novel he anyway misbehave with her). I do not want the serial to justify his behaviour towards kumud by making a issue of her one night stand.

Originally posted by: SC_wellwisher

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>>> I think husband will come to know because Kumud wrote a letter. I suppose the letter is still with Guman. I wonder if she gonna reproduce it.

You are right, but even if they chose to go this route, I see no harm. I infact see Saras standing up for a baffled Kumud.