Kumud's reaction is COMPLETELY justified

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hopehot

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Posted: 12 years ago

To all those crying over Kumud's betrayal to Saras, it was completely justified..

She comes from a conservative family.She lives in a village, in India. To a girl coming from any south Asian country, you are always told to be modest and stay in you limit.The family was even bothered before by the fact that they were spending time together after Saras had already said no.

Her guilt was probably gnawing at her on the inside. Sure, she could have also said No to Saras before they consummated, but she is a girl/woman after all. Got wrapped up in emotion and feelings. The guy had just asked her father FOR HER HAND! Of course she was swirling with turbulent emotions. And maybe to her, at the time it seemed justified. Just like her reaction.

Edited by hopehot - 12 years ago

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ToxicRebel

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Posted: 12 years ago

well said! i think u make very valid point!

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hopehot

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ToxicRebel
well said! i think u make very valid point!

THANK YOU! there have been 75 views on this, and only one comment,

apparently many are too busy weeping themselves out..

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

Abt kumud Feels guilty for her premarital sex than she should have stopped herself & him both last night. Instead she is doing her sanskari nautanki & telling him not to touch her was bit

I hv no issue wi her feeling guilty but be mature abt it as it was done by both willingly & Sara's never forced her. He is still willing to bear all responsibility for it. So I don't get her drama 😳

What I don't get wi Indian culture abt sex is girl is supposed to not like or think abt it until she is married but the next day as soon as she gets married she should want & enjoy sex in full fledge its not a switch that goes off & on

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-iLoveKaran-

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Posted: 12 years ago

u are right...if I look frm her POV she is justified.

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Deepa

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Abt kumud Feels guilty for her premarital sex than she should have stopped herself & him both last night. Instead she is doing her sanskari nautanki & telling him not to touch her was bit

I hv no issue wi her feeling guilty but be mature abt it as it was done by both willingly & Sara's never forced her. He is still willing to bear all responsibility for it. So I don't get her drama😳

What I don't get wi Indian culture abt sex is girl is supposed to not like or think abt it until she is married but the next day as soon as she gets married she should want & enjoy sex in full fledge its not a switch that goes off & on

Yeah agree

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Abt kumud Feels guilty for her premarital sex than she should have stopped herself & him both last night. Instead she is doing her sanskari nautanki & telling him not to touch her was bit

I hv no issue wi her feeling guilty but be mature abt it as it was done by both willingly & Sara's never forced her. He is still willing to bear all responsibility for it. So I don't get her drama 😳

What I don't get wi Indian culture abt sex is girl is supposed to not like or think abt it until she is married but the next day as soon as she gets married she should want & enjoy sex in full fledge its not a switch that goes off & on

shes not feeling guilty cuz they had sex but because she broke the promise she made her mom

hence the sanskari "nautunki" as uve put it

MATURE? she was being immature the night before but her acknowledging her mistake shows the level of her MATURITY

drama? well it is a sope oprah after all... bound to be DRAMAtic

and lastly 🤣 ur last claim made me LaughOutLoud 🤣 because well thats not how it works

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dramaybaaz.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Abt kumud Feels guilty for her premarital sex than she should have stopped herself & him both last night. Instead she is doing her sanskari nautanki & telling him not to touch her was bit

I hv no issue wi her feeling guilty but be mature abt it as it was done by both willingly & Sara's never forced her. He is still willing to bear all responsibility for it. So I don't get her drama 😳

What I don't get wi Indian culture abt sex is girl is supposed to not like or think abt it until she is married but the next day as soon as she gets married she should want & enjoy sex in full fledge its not a switch that goes off & on

I don't get what's up with the blame game everyone is playing. Kumud never blamed Saras. She didn't want him to touch her because it would remind her of last night and the line that she crossed in her parents' trust. She never said that it was Saras' fault or that he forced her or anything like that. She was just overwhelmed and wanted to be left alone to just cry and get the guilt out of her system.

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-zozo-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DramayBaaz

I don't get what's up with the blame game everyone is playing. Kumud never blamed Saras. She didn't want him to touch her because it would remind her of last night and the line that she crossed in her parents' trust. She never said that it was Saras' fault or that he forced her or anything like that. She was just overwhelmed and wanted to be left alone to just cry and get the guilt out of her system.

THANK YOU 😆 for getting this certain point across... its nobody's fault

but if u really wanna be a troll 😆 and point figures then blame both cuz they both played a part

it was quite impossible to be done by only one 🤣😉

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: DramayBaaz

I don't get what's up with the blame game everyone is playing. Kumud never blamed Saras. She didn't want him to touch her because it would remind her of last night and the line that she crossed in her parents' trust. She never said that it was Saras' fault or that he forced her or anything like that. She was just overwhelmed and wanted to be left alone to just cry and get the guilt out of her system.

I am not blaming Kumud for putting blame on Saras...I get she feels guilty at breaking her parent's trust...But she is talking to Saras as if what they shared the night before was anything good but "PAAP"

As if she was raped...I just dont get so high and mighty virtues she should have remembered them when she had the urge to surge with Saras..She knows she trusts him, it was both their decision. This guilt could be talked out with Saras and together they can find a solution by going to her parents and sharing it with them and asking for a marriage sooner than later..This way they wont have to deal with bigger problems..

She is having PMS remorse just like buyers do when they buy something expensive and think did I get the best deal or not..😃 In her case she suddenly remembered her family honor and virtue which had gone out the window the night b4 Her dramabaazi was way OTT IMHO

ZOZO dear no one here is brain dead where they cant get the point across..We all are as intelligent as you or any one else..Everyone has their opinion and a right to one..So we have to respect that...BTW Who are you referring to as "Troll" 😕

Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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Kumud's reaction is COMPLETELY justified

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