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Posted: 12 years ago
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In the precap they show Rajiv telling Gunjan that Mayank's love isnt true and things like that. He also said that this suicide isnt true love (something like tht)
I disagree with that!!
Mayank's love is real and Mayank and Gunjan should be together. Mayank really loves Gunjan, and by trying to suicide, Mayank has proved that without Gunjan, his life is nothing and he is not going to live without her.
Please dont get mad at me guyz, but for this i kind of started to dislike Rajiv.!
If there's no MayAn, i will STOP watching this show.
C'mon Mayank and Gunjan are like made-for-each-other!
Without MayAn this show is nothing to me!
I dont want to see Rajiv and Gunjan!
I want Charu to get out of Mayank's life, she knows that Mayank will never love her yet she is after Mayank!
I want Gunjan and Mayank!
MayAn forever!
Who agrees with me??

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanayaLOVEsMJHT

In the precap they show Rajiv telling Gunjan that Mayank's love isnt true and things like that. He also said that this suicide isnt true love (something like tht)
I disagree with that!!
Mayank's love is real and Mayank and Gunjan should be together. Mayank really loves Gunjan, and by trying to suicide, Mayank has proved that without Gunjan, his life is nothing and he is not going to live without her.
Please dont get mad at me guyz, but for this i kind of started to dislike Rajiv.!
If there's no MayAn, i will STOP watching this show.
C'mon Mayank and Gunjan are like made-for-each-other!
Without MayAn this show is nothing to me!
I dont want to see Rajiv and Gunjan!
I want Charu to get out of Mayank's life, she knows that Mayank will never love her yet she is after Mayank!
I want Gunjan and Mayank!
MayAn forever!
Who agrees with me??


Mayank's love for Gunjan may be true...but what he's doing is ABSOLUTELY WRONG!!! He may not realize it himself but he is doing exactly what Rajeev said, emotional blackmail...he tried to commit suicide after giving Gunjan the ultimatum of either accept and marry him OR he will jump...and when Gunjan does not give an answer he jumps and almost gets killed...Now, anyone in Gunjan's place will start feeling guilty...thinking If only she had done this or that and not do what I did, he wouldn't have jumped and then giving excuses for Mayank's actions etc etc...exactly what Gunjan is going through now...the guilt emotion in her right now is overwhelming that's it's clouding her judgments and decisions...He could have done it a total different way...He could have gotten a divorce from Charu (although I don't see that happening any time now since Charu is now hell-bent on having Mayank to herself alone) then win back Gunjan's love...fight for his love instead of throwing his life away with this stunt of his.. I believe Rajeev realizes this and that is what he is trying to explain to Gunjan in the precap...what happens next we'll only know in the upcoming episodes..I'm sorry but I hope Gunjan does not get back with Mayank...If they do get back together eventually, I hope it's not so soon...

PS: Suicide is not true love!!! It's COWARDICE!!!
Edited by braich_gal - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanaya dear im with You!! I hope of not soon the later Mayank and Gunjan get together!! I do understand that its not right to commit suicide but poor Mayank had no other option cause he was living such a life!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Poor Mayank, he is a very troubled soul. I don't think this is emotional blackmail as he actually jumped to end his life. He did not threaten to do so and not carry the threat out, there is a difference.
Suicide is taboo but it is a reality. These people are very traumatized and find no solutions to their problems.

I sympathize with Mayank as it is Gunjan's fault. She should not have changed places with Charu. She should have walked away. She put Mayank in this loveless marriage. One cannot force someone to love you. With the trio planning against Gunjan, mayank had no chance of seeing reality.

the ideal would have been for the marriage to have been called off and allow for a cooling period so emotions would settle.

This is certainly true love. mayank should proceed with divorce proceedings and become single. Then he and Gunjan should re-evaluate their feelings for each other.

I felt sorry for Charu but she brought this upon herself. How could she think that Manank would accept her after she knew that he loved Gunjan?

This just indicates that they are all too young to marry and they should finish college then get to the serious stuff later.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameetasingh4

Poor Mayank, he is a very troubled soul. I don't think this is emotional blackmail as he actually jumped to end his life. He did not threaten to do so and not carry the threat out, there is a difference.
Suicide is taboo but it is a reality. These people are very traumatized and find no solutions to their problems.

I sympathize with Mayank as it is Gunjan's fault. She should not have changed places with Charu. She should have walked away. She put Mayank in this loveless marriage. One cannot force someone to love you. With the trio planning against Gunjan, mayank had no chance of seeing reality.

the ideal would have been for the marriage to have been called off and allow for a cooling period so emotions would settle.

This is certainly true love. mayank should proceed with divorce proceedings and become single. Then he and Gunjan should re-evaluate their feelings for each other.

I felt sorry for Charu but she brought this upon herself. How could she think that Manank would accept her after she knew that he loved Gunjan?

This just indicates that they are all too young to marry and they should finish college then get to the serious stuff later.

Very well said!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sweitzer

Sanaya dear im with You!! I hope of not soon the later Mayank and Gunjan get together!! I do understand that its not right to commit suicide but poor Mayank had no other option cause he was living such a life!!



I had to reply to this 😳
There is always a choice in these situations. In reality when one is disrespectful in a relatetionship, the relationship ends on a bad note. I always respected Gunjan for not giving in.

Coming to the suicide, there is always a choice. Setting this condition was his easy way to get gunjan. But to gunjan on the other hand, the girl he loves, the hardest decision. Either she accepts a relationship she didn't want or lead a guilt ridden life that she caused someone to die.

The better choice is to respect another's wish and work on his marrige. If he hates the mariage then to work on conviconvincing his family for a seperation. Other choices include going to mumbai...there is always a choice, you just need to think with a clear head, which he obviously didn't.

-Star
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starasdf



I had to reply to this 😳
There is always a choice in these situations. In reality when one is disrespectful in a relatetionship, the relationship ends on a bad note. I always respected Gunjan for not giving in.

Coming to the suicide, there is always a choice. Setting this condition was his easy way to get gunjan. But to gunjan on the other hand, the girl he loves, the hardest decision. Either she accepts a relationship she didn't want or lead a guilt ridden life that she caused someone to die.

The better choice is to respect another's wish and work on his marrige. If he hates the mariage then to work on conviconvincing his family for a seperation. Other choices include going to mumbai...there is always a choice, you just need to think with a clear head, which he obviously didn't.

-Star


Totally agree with you Star...you're echoing my thoughts!! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starasdf



I had to reply to this 😳
There is always a choice in these situations. In reality when one is disrespectful in a relatetionship, the relationship ends on a bad note. I always respected Gunjan for not giving in.

Coming to the suicide, there is always a choice. Setting this condition was his easy way to get gunjan. But to gunjan on the other hand, the girl he loves, the hardest decision. Either she accepts a relationship she didn't want or lead a guilt ridden life that she caused someone to die.

The better choice is to respect another's wish and work on his marrige. If he hates the mariage then to work on conviconvincing his family for a seperation. Other choices include going to mumbai...there is always a choice, you just need to think with a clear head, which he obviously didn't.

-Star

You, we and all know that Gunjan still loves Mayank and today's episode proved it where Gunjan said that she cant live without him and i don see a reason why Gunjan wouldnt be in such a relation!! The only reason that she doesnt want Mayank that he is a married man and she want him to move on!! I know what Mayank did was wrong and he shouldnt have done that only the person knows what he is going through. Ps. Its a fictional show not a realily so relax dear. As there are many other shows where one person makes so many mistakes and still be forgiven. You may not be Gunjan Mayank fan but there are tones of them who still are rooting for their favourite couple and you may not be one.. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have to disagree again.

Hearts break with every breakup, people don't suicide, they make an effort to move forward in life. Mayank was being obsessive.

I'm not sure are you supporting his suicide?

His suicide was absolutely unrealistic, he made no effort in moving forward which is more realistic. He is forcing Gunjan to come back to him.

Gunjan recived no respect in that relationship so why should she stay in it. If he loved her enough maybe he would have respected her. He pretty much drove her away.

Also weather she loves him or not, staying in that relationship is her choice, Mayank shouldnt force her like this...

P.S you're right, I'm not a fan of them because he disrespected her, didn't trust her and publicly humiliated her. And ofcourse no offense intended, just making my point :).

Maybe if he worked on that divorce and gave her respect she might think about returning. This is no way to get her back. After this it just proves he was thinking about him self and not Gunjan.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starasdf

I have to disagree again.

Hearts break with every breakup, people don't suicide, they make an effort to move forward in life. Mayank was being obsessive. I'm not sure are you supporting his suicide?

His suicide was absolutely unrealistic, he made no effort in moving forward which is more realistic. He is forcing Gunjan to come back to him.

Gunjan recived no respect in that relationship so why should she stay in it. If he loved her enough maybe he would have respected her. He pretty much drove her away.

Also weather she loves him or not, staying in that relationship is her choice, Mayank shouldnt force her like this...

Maybe if he worked on that divorce and gave her respect she might think about returning. This is no way to get her back. After this it just proves he was thinking about him self and not Gunjan.


well said...Mayank was only thinking about himself and what he wants...he never stopped to think about what Gunjan wants and why she wants what she wants...He did not even want to listen to her when she tried to explain things to him...Besides...at this point, If Gunjan accepts him, SSLK will be sending out the wrong message...This Serial is said to be targeted to the younger audiences...is this the message they're sending out? that suicide will get you what you want...that's the WRONG message!!!
Edited by braich_gal - 12 years ago

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