'Behen ji'-Pl do Answer!!

Originally posted by: smruti1981

@vibz
i have same questions. i don't have any ans of them.

Originally posted by: vibz88

Who is a Behen ji??

A woman who wears traditional Indian clothes like Salwar kurta s and sarees instead of jeans and skirts.. A woman who prefer s tying up her hair rather than letting it down.. Someone who is shy and not a loud mouth.. Someone who does not go regularly to a beauty parlour... Someone who likes fasting. Someone who is scared of her parents.. Someone who carries a jhola and not a stylish bag..Someone who wears jootis instead of heels. Someone who oils their hair regularly...Someone who bends down to touch people s feet and says namaste instead of hugging and greeting'Hello"

Why cant you be attractive if you wear spects? Why cant you be physically appealing isf you have braces? Why do you need to apply lipstick,kohl mascara and blush to be 'Miss cool'. Why should my unmanageable frizzy hair be tamed before I earn compliments? Why cant I be a tomboy and expect the man I love to Love me back?? Why do I need to speak in 'Accent wala English' and only then you are impressed.

Why cant you love me for what I am? Why do you prefer a girl wearing jeans rather than a girl wearing Salwar Kurta. Even if i try to dress up you end making fun of me..

Why does Anjali from KKKH need a complete makeover so that Rahul falls for her?

Is nt there a single man out there who sees beyond the superficial perfectly threaded eyebrows and the short dresses ?? Do I need to ditch my glasses and wear contacts every time to draw attention to my eyes??

Does Love require me to be beautiful or Should I feel Beautiful because you love me...

This show has made my Bheja-fry

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

This is the problem with the new hip culture. Making fun of simple people as behenjis.
And then the makeover to make the heroine more desirable like Jassi's makeover in Jassi jaisi koi nahin. I loved the before makeover Jassi more than the after,

The same hip culture sometimes takes them to drug culture and rave parties.

So a balance has to be struck.

Super Topic.

Originally posted by: brat2008

👏👏👏 Great post vibz Thank you di😳

They say beauty is skin deep but human beings the greatest creation of god are in turn very judgmental.😡

I would not say only men but women too belong in the judgmental category😕 True It s woman who love talking behind other woman s back

We are so materialistic and so blindly follow that somebody who dares to stand out by being himself or herself without any pretence is ridiculed😕

Why is that people just happen to see a well made up face, a striking trousseau , a well manicured hand and pedicured feet.

Why is a person judged so superficially. Nothing beyond that😡 Yes now physical beauty gives you an extra edge over others . The Ads on the TV , movies everything emphasise on becoming physically perfect

I have a question why is being a plain Jane so hurting or humiliating?????? . You are different from the regular so why not be proud of it rather than being ashamed. Coz no one let s you be. I will give you a simple example there was a party at my house and I wore Salwar kurta someone came up to me and said Why am i dresses like this? I should have worn jeans. 😲 So now I cant even dress the way I want.