What u will do if u are in charu position in real

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel so sorry for this charu a lot... I know she is cunning and really mad and rude little bit..


Suppose minus these points of charu and think charu is a normal girl her marriage is fixed and her would be husband have taken her to coffee shop everyone in the house have accepted their relation... It will be a time for ur marriage and the guy thinks u are not a suitable partner for him and will start liking a new girl who is sweet and have a qualities which u are lacking...
Than that sweet caring girl instead of coming to you and confess that she is in love with ur soon to be husband guy... Will take the route of proving u a not good and responsible and cultured bahu?
What will be your situation if u go through this phase in real life...?


Don't think of serials point of view...

Think its a real life situation

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post Bhavya di!!! day before yesterday, only i told my mom, whatever Gunjan doing is not correct, falling in love with a man who is engaged to other girl. Eventhough, Charu behaves little odd, but she has a heart too. If Mayank, ditches her now, what will she do? she will become more revengeful girl. Before, getting engaged to Charu, Mayank should think twice, but he didn't.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@vibha true...

:mayank would have not get engaged to charu after spending so much time together and than falling in love with gunjan ...

Actually i agree with u ...charu was not wrong initially she was little crazy but mayank felt charu is not suitable for him after seeing gunjan...
And gunjan i like her a lot in all other matters but coming to mayank life and cheating charu is not a indication of sensible woman...

I really condemn this act of gunjan
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Posted: 13 years ago
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better it breaks before than after...less heartbreak and pain
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of all Gunjan is not answerable to Charu. Charu got engaged to Mayank and not to Gunjan. Gunjan is not trying to prove anyone right or wrong. Mayank is the one who is trying to show Charu in a bad light. Why should Gunjan go and "confess" anything to Charu? Isn't Mayank man enough to tel the girl he got engaged to that he is no longer interested in her.

It is very easy to blame the so-called "other woman". Why should no one blame the real culprit in the entire scenario and that is Mayank?

It is Mayank who got engaged to Charu, knowing well how silly she is only because he wanted to show Gunjan down. On his engagement day itself he falls in love with Gunjan. Then he steadily changes his behavior so that Gunjan will get over her dislike for him and gets close to her.

At the time that Gunajn is at her emotionally weakest point Mayank makes his move to trap her into this charade of love. All the actions and entrapment is from his side. He's not bothered to break relationship with Charu either. He's making that effort only because Gunjan has insisted that he do so. He is only taking advantage of a young, defenseless girl who has nowhere to go at the present moment.

Mayank is the one who had no objection to receiving huge expensive gifts at the time of engagement and he only refused the car to look good in Gunjan's eyes. He is the one using the two girls.

Coming to your question about Charu - why doesn't Charu confront Mayank directly? Why can't she ask him why he is treating her like this all of a sudden? Isn't she going to marry the guy, isn't he answerable to her? Let her pose the questions to Mayank directly.

Today she might insult Gunjan, because Gunjan is in a weak position in this family, tomorrow it'll be another girl for a guy like Mayank. What is Charu going to do then? Keep fighting all the women in the world, instead of teaching a good lesson to her husband?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guyz LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARY
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post. I agree that charu may be annoying, lying, and irritating. But, she still doesn't deserve this treatment from Mayank.

Mayank is the one who is at FAULT in this. Personally, I never liked his character.

I have never seen him studying or doing anything useful.

Both gunjan and charu deserve someone better.

Gunjan is just too good for this idiot Mayank.
And charu doesn't need a liar in her life even though she is annoying. She'd rather spend her life with a guy who loves her and not double-timing 2 girls.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: radha9

Guyz LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARY

I agree LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDRY, but Mayank's is a triangular love; so it comes with some heart ache. If it is O.K., that charu's engagement breaks with Mayank, without her mistake. She is weird, i accept,,but, the punishment, she is going to get for her behaviour is little big.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mohini19

Good post. I agree that charu may be annoying, lying, and irritating. But, she still doesn't deserve this treatment from Mayank.


Mayank is the one who is at FAULT in this. Personally, I never liked his character.

I have never seen him studying or doing anything useful.

Both gunjan and charu deserve someone better.

Gunjan is just too good for this idiot Mayank.
And charu doesn't need a liar in her life even though she is annoying. She'd rather spend her life with a guy who loves her and not double-timing 2 girls.

Awesome post. agree with u Mohini di,👏👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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oh what a tangle web we weave when we first seek to decieved, 😉this situation is the product of a scheming family {charu's}, a greedy mother and a weak son who doesn't know what he wants.
U cannot blame gunjun for this situation, blame Mayank's, before this situation get out of hand he should have put a stop to the engagment.
Guys lets think logically here, this family should have been suspicious of charu to begin with, if the girl is good why is her parent practically buying her a groom.😡
At present if i was charu i would have ended the relationship{call off the wedding}, reason being if he is treating u ill before the wedding, it will only gets worst after. sometimes it is better to walk away with your head held high and your dignity 😊😊than to stay n b broken emotionally n physically.😭😭
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