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Posted: 14 years ago
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@shanti..nice topic for discussion..

First scene a leap ,after intro of kids sadnah's barsee and tammy'birthday.

Tammy asking ragini "where is papa"?...we did see ragini's mood very dull and angry too..be it at the house when guddi told her to phone him and she replied if he had to come he will come I wont phone him..at the prayer too when mamaji told ragini that damaadji has organized everything so well ragini mood was off at that time too..

In my pov ....I think that's wat a wife does when her husband is not present in such important family gathering...ragini was angry anmol was not present for the prayer and mostly he did not wish tammy their daughter "happy birthday" and went to office..for me this was the first sign of ragini reacting as a wife?next after her blast etc she said sorry to him in room and here too as a wife she told him to take care and not sleep on the chair and morning he gets back and neck pain..

Definitely things was not that intimate between them but still more than anmol showing his rights as a husband , ragini did it as a wife to him..lets take the confrontation of vasu/anmol and him leaving home..why ragini reacted as if she has lost something precious..her restlessness and when he came home she blasted him pouring all her anger on him..then of course she tracked back after being conscious of wat she is doing..in my opinion this will be the first reaction of a wife and ragini did exactly that after seeing anmol in room.. the POA issue she stood by vasu and showed how she trusted her hubby.next after knowing the reality she gave anmol a good lecture .anmol said "aap ne haq se "then ragini was conscious that she was reacting as a wife to him..

Then their relationship started to change gradually and we got the letter scene..here too we got to watch ragini as a wife.. the letter heading "to my dear wife"..and ragini thought the letter was addressed to her and we got the rain scene..in my opinion deep down ragini was conscious she is anmol's wife and thus she was all ready to listen wat her husband has to share with her..

So there were many signs of ragini letting go of her feelings and reacting as a wife to anmol which sometimes left him perplexed but yes that gap was still there..ragini was a bahu in the rajvansh but still though in these 7 yrs she had the perfect lifepartner she could not bridged that distance between her/anmol and main reason vasu her M-I-L..

The day this got resolved ragini's caring/love for her husband started to show more....the gift scene she was all smile /happy ..the kitchen scene how she rushed to him after he got that cut in his hand..a perfect wife...the scene where we viewers got it that yes ragini was in love with her husband is the KC EPI..her illusion about anmol praising her beauty and later she felt shy.. her being hysterical about him in hospital and the hug ....finally anmol got the courage to confess his heart feelings to her as a husband..

A bad twist in their life and ragini's sacrifice out of love for anmol even though as per her say "anmol mere liye bahut anmol hein"..

from beginning anmol was a vital part in ragini's life as a husband..as I mentioned above there was so many signs of ragini reacting as a wife to him and he did had a place in her heart still there was that "but"be it vasu or that guilt that she will be doing wrong to vasu/ranveer....the trio scene with pendant and ragini finally accepted her love for anmol and thus putting the pendant...her conscience was clear about not doing any thing wrong by reciprocating to anmol's love..we must not forget ranveer was her first love and here it was a second chance in love and it could not happen at first sight ...rajvansh family.tammy ..all were still related to ranveer the one she married wholeheartedly... ragini as a bahu it was her duty towards them more staying with anmol for 7 yrs along with the family he has became a very very important part of her life but not being able to give him the right he deserved as we know the reason...ragini made it her duty to make anmol a part of this family..she patched up alekh/anmol.vasu accepting anmol as her son .tammy as her father..three persons who were dear to ragini accepting anmol and last it remained for her to open her heart for him...it happenned and it started from real father issue to the KC EPI.

I still give ragini benefit of doubt..she was a caring..devoted wife to anmol ..she was taking care of his every need but yes only one not sharing any intimacy with him..there were many a time she did feel anmol's presence as a man ..after the first time they slept together..when anmol wanted to talk about it she rushed to alekh's room.. there was that fear on her face that her heart has started feeling something above care for anmol.. the balm scene..his touch..the eyes lock.the blush etc..ragini with time was finally little by little taking that step towards anmol..

for sure an abrupt ending and all faults go to the channel as now the story would have been more interesting.... ragini was in love but we were deprived of their love track .. we do know anmol loved her more than himself but now it was to be shown ragini's depth of love for anmol.. ..the intimacy in the couple life..the sharing of their thoughts about these 7 yrs ..ragini knowing more deeply about his past/family..

all I can wish a bidaai season 2 and angini love journey is the usp once more as it was from the beginning keeping the viewers glued to their screen ...

Edited by savee_k - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12
Ragini did feel something for Anmol, I am just watching this episode where Anmol has left the house in anger, Ragini is still sitting on the steps outside her house waiting with her mobile in her hand, what makes it worse is only that Ragini was never given a chance to say her feelings to Anmol, thanks to intro being needed for the new show.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: savee_k

@shanti..nice topic for discussion..

First scene a leap ,after intro of kids sadnah's barsee and tammy'birthday.

Tammy asking ragini "where is papa"?...we did see ragini's mood very dull and angry too..be it at the house when guddi told her to phone him and she replied if he had to come he will come I wont phone him..at the prayer too when mamaji told ragini that damaadji has organized everything so well ragini mood was off at that time too..

In my pov ....I think that's wat a wife does when her husband is not present in such important family gathering?ragini was angry anmol was not present for the prayer and mostly he did not wish tammy their daughter "happy birthday" and went to office..for me this was the first sign of ragini reacting as a wife?next after her blast etc she said sorry to him in room and here too as a wife she told him to take care and not sleep on the chair and morning he gets back and neck pain..

Definitely things was not that intimate between them but still more than anmol showing his rights as a husband , ragini did it as a wife to him..lets take the confrontation of vasu/anmol and him leaving home..why ragini reacted as if she has lost something precious..her restlessness and when he came home she blasted him pouring all her anger on him..then of course she tracked back after being conscious of wat she is doing..in my opinion this will be the first reaction of a wife and ragini did exactly that after seeing anmol in room.. the POA issue she stood by vasu and showed how she trusted her hubby.next after knowing the reality she gave anmol a good lecture .anmol said "aap ne haq se "then ragini was conscious that she was reacting as a wife to him..

Then their relationship started to change gradually and we got the letter scene..here too we got to watch ragini as a wife.. the letter heading "to my dear wife"..and ragini thought the letter was addressed to her and we got the rain scene..in my opinion deep down ragini was conscious she is anmol's wife and thus she was all ready to listen wat her husband has to share with her..

So there were many signs of ragini letting go of her feelings and reacting as a wife to anmol which sometimes left him perplexed but yes that gap was still there..ra gini was a bahu in the rajvansh but still though in these 7 yrs she had the perfect lifepartner she could not bridged that distance between her/anmol and main reason vasu her M-I-L..

The day this got resolved ragini's caring/love for her husband started to show more?the gift scene she was all smile /happy ..the kitchen scene how she rushed to him after he got that cut in his hand..a perfect wife?the scene where we viewers got it that yes ragini was in love with her husband is the KC EPI..her illusion about anmol praising her beauty and later she felt shy.. her being hysterical about him in hospital and the hug ?finally anmol got the courage to confess his heart feelings to her as a husband..

A bad twist in their life and we ragini's sacrifice out of love for anmol even though as per her say "anmol mere liye bahut anmol hein"..

from beginning anmol was a vital part in ragini's life as a husband..as I mentioned above there was so many signs of ragini reacting as a wife to him and he did had a place in her heart still there was that "but"be it vasu or that guilt that she will be doing wrong to vasu/ranveer??the trio scene with pendant and ragini finally accepted her love for anmol and thus putting the pendant?her conscience was clear about not doing any thing wrong by reciprocating to anmol's love..we must not forget ranveer was her first love and here it was a second chance in love and it could not happen at first sight ?.rajvansh family.tammy ..all were still related to ranveer the one she married wholeheartedly... ragini as a bahu it was her duty towards them more staying with anmol for 7 yrs along with the family he has became a very very important part of her life but not being able to give him the right he deserved as we know the reason...ragini made it her duty to make anmol a part of this family..sh e patched up alekh/anmol.vasu accepting anmol as her son .tammy as her father..three persons who was dear to ragini accepting anmol and last it remained for her to open her heart for him?it happenned and it started from real father issue to the KC EPI.

I still give ragini benefit of doubt..she was a caring..devoted wife to anmol ..she was taking care of his every need but yes only one not sharing any intimacy with him..there were many a time she did feel anmol's presence as a man ..after the first time they slept together..when anmol wanted to talk about it she rushed to alekh's room.. there was that fear on her face that her heart has started feeling something above care for anmol.. the balm scene..his touch..the eyes lock.the blush etc..ragini with time was finally little by little taking that step towards anmol..

for sure an abrupt ending and all faults go to the channel as now the story would have been more interesting.... ragini was in love but we were deprived of their love track .. we do know anmol loved her more than himself but now it was to be shown ragini's depth of love for anmol.. ..the intimacy in the couple life..the sharing of their thoughts about these 7 yrs ..ragini knowing more deeply about his past/family..

all I can wish a bidaai season 2 and angini love journey is the usp once more as it was from the beginning keeping the viewers glued to their screen ...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Saveeta wow you have put it down beautifully, i do agree to all the points you have jotted, my only concern was that cheer humanity and understanding level as to I live with a man he knows so much about my family my side of my life with my daughter (taking into consideration that she always asserts as her daughter) , have i made an attempt to understand his side of how he feels living with us adjusting to such a life style what went through in his life..
i mean sheer conversation seeing how two people can start as strangers and develop into a relationship of knowing each other.

Somewhere i mean when i start seeing the scenes of Anmol and ragini he puts in 200% into everything to keep her happy as he feels he does it from his heart and as a priomise to keep ragini always happy and content , but looking at his POV I feel he seems he has'nt got his share !! somewhere ie is at loss , and cannot deny it as much needed talk was not there when it was truly needed for him

And ofcourse when things started to move on they ended the show at the main point of ragini making her way to realize that Anmol is truly a part of her life and will be forever !!

Its just that I see somthing void in her side of understanding the depth of his way of showering his affection towards her..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks to everyone for having such a lively discussion. I think Bidaai is one of the most busy forums on IF for starplus...even more active than forums with shows still running😆 even if we've had our show closed for a month and no official news of reutrning 👏👏👏

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@shanti..i do understand your pov..
definitely there was that lacking part in this relationship..
i wont say ragini was afraid of the society that being a widow married a second time.that was not at all the case..the big barrier in this relationship was vasu..after 7 yrs ragini was still more vasu's bahu as it was from the first day though she married anmol..next ragini too gave a promise that she will look after khushi as her own daughter..then alekh's coming back to square one with the loss of sadnah..thus this neglected her personal life/happiness..
all this responsibilities as a bahu did not spare her any time to communicate on a personal front with anmol..as i mentioned in my post above there were many a time she reacted as a wife but next back step...
ragini as a bahu to vasu and her vows to take care of khushi/alekh did had an impact on her personal life...
in the end alekh did say in these 7 yrs you have lived for the family but now i want you to live your life and that with anmol..
coming to anmol i agree he gave his best in this relationship..it was a promise but later he was more a father to tammy and husband to ragini..he fell in love but still giving that space to ragini..for me as a husband he understood ragini's situation..her family needed her more and he was there for her anytime ..he knew she loved ranveer her first hubby and it will take time for her to be close to him or accept him with her heart.he never for once feel desperate or angry about ragini not reciprocating to his sweet gestures...he was patient and out of the unexpected ragini gave him that green signal on the KC epi and he confessed his love to her..
ragini was a wife/a bahu before..tragic circumstances changed her life with a new lifepartner..it took her 7 yrs to fell in love with anmol wiping out all that barriers in their relationship.a second chance in love with the most perfect adorable stranger she married 7 yrs back..
to say ragini's story of her love for anmol which we got just a slight glimspe during the KC epi and the last epi but it was ended so cruelly..
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Posted: 14 years ago
#17
saveeta i had it look in my mind abt the general way ragini treats anmol just plain simple interaction which was lacking I felt.

I see her role great as a bahu mother and to some extent as a wife, but wife was purly out of duty as anmol had put in his letter he would love to see his wife as a friend for him, which never happened during these 5 months i mean as two people who happen to know each other for so many years not in teh eyes of the viewer coz we saw their acquaintance only since 4 months,

Just that maybe Anmol would have loads and loads to tell her and talk and share somthing about himself abt his life or somthing but would she ever sit and listen ,..

Well these kinda things would defiantly be a way Anmol would be happy to react to ragini's idea of listening to him

Hope these get answered sometime when there is a making of season two which seems to be necessary at least for their story !!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#18
Anmol and ragini both loosened up a bit after the vasu/tammy acceptance...anmol was more teasing. I love his "to mein jaon?" and Ragini laughing blushing at that 😃 i thnk hes making a habit of asking her permission 😃😆 they showed 2 or 3 times 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes I have no complaints on his side he is such a darling [ LOL] and also could see her side of getting happiness,
but somewhere in the beginning and little down the line if she could be a little more compassionate during that time wud have been great !!

Anmol never complains and he is so so anything will do madam for ragini another thing which i feel he was so nice to her !!

We have our list of please do ragini which we need to gift it to Angini ! for their wedding !!😆

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@shanti..agree with you anmol was too much sugarcoated darling for ragini...😊
how much we heard "aap ke liye kuch bhi""aap ki khushi chahata houn" ..."aap hamesha khush rahe"...so much love for ragini..
in the end ragini too got his famous lines.."ab mein sirf aap ki khushi chahatee houn""'aap ki khushi ke liye" she gave him divorce and call him back too..
wat a couple they have made us love them to bits and sometimes made us gone crazy about their "pehele aap ki khushi"...
even though they are so special for us and now our wish and waiting for their love journey together in season 2..
Edited by savee_k - 14 years ago

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