Before leap I loved Ragini and could identify (I am not justifying her here) with her even during the rift track as I understood how loosing a baby can affect you even if it was unborn and what PMD can change you. In all her actions before leap I found a connection to her.
Post leap Only thing I like about her is that She is looking absolutely gorgeous and her happy interactions with kids and Alekh. I thought she handled the whole pari fiasco poorly as most of the time she spent crying buckets and blaming herself. I am mother myself and I have same issue as one fair and other dusky, but if tomorrow similar issue comes up, I would sit together with both of them in the same room, would layout/explain the problem and provide the solution for it and would make sure both understands it and would keep tabs on them in future too just to make sure that it's not repeated, I know it sounds like treating them like adults but that's what most childhood experts advice that when babies are 1, behave and show respect to them same as adults as build will confidence in them and allow them to explore. I have no doubt that she loves them a lot and really takes good care of them, but she is shown lacking mother's intuition both in understanding Tammy's insecurity/jealousy and Khushi being reserve/shy and overly sacrificing which no kid should be.
I believe, happy,loving,secure and carefree childhood is every child's right.
Edited by tamushi - 15 years ago