Ragini's 'mamta' does not need certificate...

I dont think Ragini needs to get any sort of certficate about her "Mamta" from people like Kauhsi, Nani or Vasu. All three are biased in thier own ways. Vasu is biased because for Alekh's second marriage, she needs to prove that Rgaini is faltering to take care of Khushi. For Kaushi and Nani, their immediate relations only matter. I was stuck with awe to see how Kaushi was trying to defend her statement about "beti Jaisi" and "BETI" and that too by bringing in Sdahna's context. And her mother, Naniji was nodding her head.

Bani, I'd like to say that Ragini will keep strong, but she usually falls hard when people say negative things about her.

Her whole life she grew up hearing negative things about herself to the extent that she started believing them so it'll be pretty difficult for her not to fall under Vasu, Kaushi and Nani's influence especially since Tamanna and Khushi pretty much affirmed what they were saying.

Originally posted by: Rahm

Bani, I'd like to say that Ragini will keep strong, but she usually falls hard when people say negative things about her.

Her whole life she grew up hearing negative things about herself to the extent that she started believing them so it'll be pretty difficult for her not to fall under Vasu, Kaushi and Nani's influence especially since Tamanna and Khushi pretty much affirmed what they were saying.

but this time I think she will not give in easily to these people. She will not allow anyone to play with Khushi's future. I base my statement on the fact that she has seen so many mishaps in her life and esp. she has hated herself so much after knowing the truth in the rift track.

Originally posted by: Rahm

Bani, I'd like to say that Ragini will keep strong, but she usually falls hard when people say negative things about her.

Her whole life she grew up hearing negative things about herself to the extent that she started believing them so it'll be pretty difficult for her not to fall under Vasu, Kaushi and Nani's influence especially since Tamanna and Khushi pretty much affirmed what they were saying.

Bilkul teek kaha. It is really heart wrenching to see ragini crying yesterday and saying mai haar gaye sadana, mai haar gaye Poor ragini, she is alwaays on the tight spot. I think sharmaji should have overheard what kaushi was telling nanima, how stupid beti jaise and beti.Kaushi is still the same old person. Nothing has changed.😡 I really hope ragini dont send tammy to kaushaliya mahal.


@Omshanthi : Very well said👏 Her love for her ladlis is a certificate enough.

Originally posted by: kamuralee

Bilkul teek kaha. It is really heart wrenching to see ragini crying yesterday and saying mai haar gaye sadana, mai haar gaye Poor ragini, she is alwaays on the tight spot. I think sharmaji should have overheard what kaushi was telling nanima, how stupid beti jaise and beti.Kaushi is still the same old person. Nothing has changed.😡 I really hope ragini dont send tammy to kaushaliya mahal.


@Omshanthi : Very well said👏 Her love for her ladlis is a certificate enough.

I dont think Mamaji can do anythign with Kaushi. My only hope is Ragini does not start doubting her mamta, she should feel confident that she always treated her kids same. The other day when she slapped Tamanna was not because she was a part of the group, rather when Alekh told her that it was Tammy's plan. The thing was presented to ragini in such a way that she felt Tammy was at fault. Ragini is just extra careful with Khushi, as Khushi's mental condition is not same as Tammy's, Khushi cannot call anyone "mom" (which every child wants to) and then Khushi's father is also not mentally stable. A mother always tend to sympathesise more with the child, who is lagging in something. Just like we love both out eyes, if one is in pain, we take more care, that does never mean, the other eye does not mean much. Yesterday when tammy was crying, she was so proetective and loving and was trying to assure her love for Tammy also.

I think Ragini never shouts or hurts Khushi because if she does so, Khushi would feel Sadhna's absence from her life..And Ragini doesn't want that. It's not the same with Tammy.
But again, Ragini should not ignore Khushi's 'mistakes'.

I feel for Ragini i really do - esp when you look back to her whole being

Originally posted by: Lennie

I feel for Ragini i really do - esp when you look back to her whole being

Not only has she lost the two most important ppl in her life, Sadhna who was basically a part of her, and like Mamaji said at the funeral - that Sadi has been cut off from her, and then the other most important person in your life where you needed him the most to be your support and everything and love of your life - your husband dies

Imagine the heart-wrenching moments and phase Ragini has had to go through, and one thing that has kept her going is those girls - otherwise if there were no girls, Ragini would be dead herself or lifeless

Ragini knew the day Sadhna's bidaai took off, and her chat with her father, her whole life will be an agnipareeksha with the girls

well said...I just want Ragini to stop crying and be confident that she never faltered to discharge her duties as mom to both her kids. Its the time for her not to get these biased people rule her confidence..she needs to show that she is aware of her duties and she is equal to both. She should believe in herself

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I dont think Mamaji can do anythign with Kaushi. My only hope is Ragini does not start doubting her mamta, she should feel confident that she always treated her kids same. The other day when she slapped Tamanna was not because she was a part of the group, rather when Alekh told her that it was Tammy's plan. The thing was presented to ragini in such a way that she felt Tammy was at fault. Ragini is just extra careful with Khushi, as Khushi's mental condition is not same as Tammy's, Khushi cannot call anyone "mom" (which every child wants to) and then Khushi's father is also not mentally stable. A mother always tend to sympathesise more with the child, who is lagging in something. Just like we love both out eyes, if one is in pain, we take more care, that does never mean, the other eye does not mean much. Yesterday when tammy was crying, she was so proetective and loving and was trying to assure her love for Tammy also.

Yes yaar, now kaushi is going haridwaar, i hope ragini will get some peace of mind. Bechariii, RAgini loves both of them equally, and in todays episode i felt glad to hear anmol saying one day they will be proud that you are their mother. He always boosts up her confidence. Ragini is a super cool mom even when she had lost the two important ppl in her life, she some how managed to bring up the kids with so much sanskar. It is true tammy is sometimes wilful but i think the cts are showing this just bring sakshi in. I always thought that tammy was protective abot khsushi like ragini herself. 😕

@bold: my mother too said excatly the same thing.