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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

I dont think Khushi is shown to be mature enough though...she is just seeing and reacting to Tammy's emotions, she does not udnerstand the implications of Alekh's marriage, she does not understand why Ragini-Anmol are against Alekh's marriage..As a child she is evaluating the situation from one point only, had she been mature like an adult, she could evaluate the situation on a whole...

Khushi is a child with a heart to see everyone happy. She feels her sister Tammy will be happy, only when they have separate mothers. Her little brain understands only this concept, her little brain has no idea of what sacrifice is. All the circumstances like her interaction with Vasu, then only Tammy coming in to say that "Ragini is her mom only" and then her conversation with Alekh and others which imprinted the ideain her heart and brain that if Khushi's mom comes, this problem will get solved...an adult decision is based on a whole approach, whereas Khushi, since immature, is just thinking that " if her own mother comes, everything will be solved and only Alekh's marriage can solve this issue"...but she really does not understand that Alekh's marriage can be a disater in other way for the family also.

I really hoped that she had the maturity to solve Tammy's problem in a different way...but she is still a child...I have a ray of hope that Ragini being a mother will be able to figure this problem out, that Tammy and Khushi are not so comfortable with each other any more, alsowhy is Tammy saying these days" you are my mamma, I wont share you", which means something is bothering Tammy.

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Posted: 15 years ago

I wouldnt even label Khushi as mature or immature, she is only 7/8 yrs old but the kind of heart she has, and the fact she is the daughter of Sadhna, i think alot of her sense and thinking stems from that essense of Sadhna in a way esp when she knows how exactly her dad is, who her mum is and where she is and who masi maa is - to understand all that, she has taken that all in, and thats pretty big for a child

What i love about Khushi on the whole is, she isnt spoilt, she is aware of alot of things in a way

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Lennie
I wouldnt even label Khushi as mature or immature, she is only 7/8 yrs old but the kind of heart she has, and the fact she is the daughter of Sadhna, i think alot of her sense and thinking stems from that essense of Sadhna in a way esp when she knows how exactly her dad is, who her mum is and where she is and who masi maa is - to understand all that, she has taken that all in, and thats pretty big for a child

What i love about Khushi on the whole is, she isnt spoilt, she is aware of alot of things in a way

u r right...but I think the way Khushi is behaving is not weird or out of her age, rather it shows her perceptions and her ideas to see her sister happy, which is not abnormal at that age also, she does not know what sacrifice is...

these do not look strange, first due to one reason you stated, that she is Sadhna's daughter. But I also to add to it, her perception is more due to her daily experience that her father is not normal like other kids' fathers. May be that has made her to be more understanding.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
u r right...but I think the way Khushi is behaving is not weird or out of her age, rather it shows her perceptions and her ideas to see her sister happy, which is not abnormal at that age also, she does not know what sacrifice is...
these do not look strange, first due to one reason you stated, that she is Sadhna's daughter. But I also to add to it, her perception is more due to her daily experience that her father is not normal like other kids' fathers. May be that has made her to be more understanding.

I agree, also her whole situation isnt normal, she hasnt got a normal family so i think it stems from there as well

Her perceptions i feel is def from what i mentioned - she is aware of how she is and who is around her and she has taken that all in, and in a way understands in the simplest forms, that her dad is Alekh and he is that, she has a mum - she died, and Ragini is her masi etc

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Lennie
I agree, also her whole situation isnt normal, she hasnt got a normal family so i think it stems from there as well

Her perceptions i feel is def from what i mentioned - she is aware of how she is and who is around her and she has taken that all in, and in a way understands in the simplest forms, that her dad is Alekh and he is that, she has a mum - she died, and Ragini is her masi etc

true, there is a strong basis of her behaviour and it can be justified well as you have mentioned .

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think so too, the foundation that she has been brought up in and by plays a big role in how she is and its not entirely coz she is Sadhna's daughter that does play a big part but the whole situation she has been raised in as well and who is who in her family

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Lennie
I think so too, the foundation that she has been brought up in and by plays a big role in how she is and its not entirely coz she is Sadhna's daughter that does play a big part but the whole situation she has been raised in as well and who is who in her family

she, being Sadhna's daughter is a major factor, but the circumstance in which she is being brought up, adds up to all these...

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Posted: 15 years ago

The way Khushi reacts or behaves it's like Sadhana is guiding her somewhere standing behind her .because kids of her age may feel jealous but they can't be soooooooooo understanding as they are showing khushi .Khushi's actions are like of teenager of 14 or 15

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ANJANA
The way Khushi reacts or behaves it's like Sadhana is guiding her somewhere standing behind her .because kids of her age may feel jealous but they can't be soooooooooo understanding as they are showing khushi .Khushi's actions are like of teenager of 14 or 15

thats it, Khushi is an exception..and exception cannot be taken as an example. That Khushi is different and an exception, makes her different from all other kids. Sadhna was also an exception, its hard to find people like Sadhna in today's world...right?

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Posted: 15 years ago

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I think Ragini sealed what exactly Khushi was and is few weeks back when she said love and sacrifice is in her virasat, i think that sums up Sadhna and Khushi and how they are - nothing less

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