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yanks28

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Sadhna had a really bad pregnancy, in my opinion. She never looked tension free or relaxed in any scene. She didn't enjoy or have any cravings like Ragini. She was busy worrying ABOUT Ragini.

After the nightmare she has where she wakes up and is totally inconsolable even by Alekh, I felt it was time for her to open up and really tell an elder about them. Mamaji would have been a good place to start.

During the pregnancy itself- I guess she went with what the doctor was saying...that it happens to pregnant women.

But the one which I found MOST disturbing was the one she has in the hospital. Imagine...she just became a MOTHER...she gave birth to a little life...and she cannot even enjoy that.

Major sadism or whatever you wanna call it by the CTs. Anyway she should have told someone about that one. All the nightmares were really eerie and ominous...and freaky. Very un-Bidaai like.

I felt truly bad for Sadhna. She really didn't get a happy ending. I wanted her to pour this fear out...she didn't. The CTs once again went with the route of Sadhna hiding things. Of course, her idea to pray and keep fast was good...she went with a practical solution...but if she found something evil about those kangans...then to me, her putting them on was almost like suicide.

This latest decision by Sadhna in regards to Ragini was the heaviest of them all. It involved 3 lives...her own, her husbands, and the most important one was her child's.

Even in the last moments- Sadhna was left alone...she died alone...but Ragini had Ranvir.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

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How can she share about a dream?what is the basis of a dream?..everyone will laugh it off...but still , she shared with Alekh and he talked to the doctor, who said that during pregnancy, its not strange to get bad dreams. In her subconscious mind, she always has the well being of Ragini...she has a special sense. But, she was not really able to connect the reality with her dreams...like the red car dream, Alekh said that her dream about red car was meaningless, as they never have one red car.

She saw Ragini slipping from stairs and tried to rectify by trying to convince her to shift to a room downstairs and also to avoid the stairs...also, sharing with Ragini could have caused Ragini more tension.
Sharing with Ragini or any other person, would have caused more unnecessary tensions.

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yanks28

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
How can she share about a dream?what is the basis of a dream?..everyone will laugh it off...but still , she shared with Alekh and he talked to the doctor, who said that during pregnancy, its not strange to get bad dreams. In her subconscious mind, she always has the well being of Ragini...she has a special sense. But, she was not really able to connect the reality with her dreams...like the red car dream, Alekh said that her dream about red car was meaningless, as they never have one red car.

She saw Ragini slipping from stairs and tried to rectify by trying to convince her to shift to a room downstairs and also to avoid the stairs...also, sharing with Ragini could have caused Ragini more tension.
Sharing with Ragini or any other person, would have caused more unnecessary tensions.

You're right about during the pregnancy, which I also acknowledged...but the dreams continued after it too...that was alarming. These people seem very religious and devout...the Shamas especially...if she had shared with maybe an elder...she might have gotten some answers.

She didn't need to share with the whole world...not even Ragini...but someone should have known that these horrible dreams were continuing even after Khushi was born.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: yanks28

You're right about during the pregnancy, which I also acknowledged...but the dreams continued after it too...that was alarming. These people seem very religious and devout...the Shamas especially...if she had shared with maybe an elder...she might have gotten some answers.

She didn't need to share with the whole world...not even Ragini...but someone should have known that these horrible dreams were continuing even after Khushi was born.

except Mamaji, noone has the wisdom to understand Sadhna, sorry to say. Keeping in mind, Mamaji's health and also that Ragini is his own daughter, would put Mamaji in tension. Who knew, that her dream might come true...dream is after all a dream...frankly speaking, it cannot be called "premonition" also in the strictest term...

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Remember, she died after performing the puja. She always had strong faith in God, she never thought of her own death probably, she felt that it might be a severe accident...which has something to do with the Kangan, she took away the kangan from Ragini, and went to the temple, because thats the safest place for a God loving person...But God also cannot change destiny, as every person has to bear as per "KARMA"

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Bani ... I wrote a big POST ... but you said the same things in such little words. Truly I often find you and me thinking so much alike.

Regarding God ... I guess God can certainly do anything, but He does not like to break His own laws of creation. He does listen to His most beloved creations ... but that too keeping as much in harmony with the laws of nature as possible.

Sometimes we end up expecting more than appropriate for a person. It is true that the current of a river and the height of a person's wish is never idle ... it goes forward ... unend.

Even if Sadhna shared it all ... it death is to come - it will come. And one soul has to go with Azrael/Yamdoot.

I feel Sadhna never thought that these dreams would have so much potential in it - though as a human with feelings - she was tense.

Afterall she was fasting from such a long time. But then as any one who loves her sister (or any loved one) so dearly ... she prayed honestly (as honestly is by default in her) to take her life instead of her sisters. This is beyond just a dream ... this was her prayer since she was introduced to SH.

As for Alekh Babu. My heart goes out. For Khushi, I cannot describe my pain. But Khushi will know her mother, and only be proud of this most extraordinary person.

Alekh was saved by Sadhna more than once. Vasu aswell was saved by Sadhna (and Sadhna could die there too). Sadhna is just such a person ... Ragini is her heart of hearts ... but it doesnt mean that Ragini is the only person she could bet her life to save.

She is a righteous person. In this world with truth and compassion have been covered with the mist of self and passion - its truly difficult to fully grasp an idea of such a soul.

I personally would've appreciated if Sadhna would remain alive and just seperate from RH or SH ... perhaps Alekh could go abroad on some project with her ... but then this is luck.

If I were in Alekh's place ... I would just hold her and take her away to any other country, so that she can call back home and visit in regular intervals - but remain away most of the time. But even then, in that country, she would be showering her blessings ...

I know how it feels when someone as special as Sadhna leaves the household. I lost my mother at a young age aswell.

I know, there are several POVs and many hurt hearts. You all have a right to say or complain to Sadhna ... I know you loved her and LOVE her. I know how nasty is this blow...

Lets keep her nicely dressed as a SUHAGAAN in our hearts and minds.

The way she touched our lives ... atleast mine ... is extraordinary. I never thought a Serial character could do this....

Sadhna ... is timeless.

Farewell O' Ray of Peace ... Farewell O' teardrop on the cheeks of time!

Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago

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Hannah

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Posted: 15 years ago

#47

Sadhna's character is one I will ALWAYS remember. She was beautiful both in terms of attire and attributes. She was born selfless and will die selfless. She is, was and will always will be remembered as one of the best characters characterized on Indian Television, in my POV.

I don't think I will be able to watch the show anymore

Edited by Hannah. - 15 years ago

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Hannah.
Sadhna's character is one I will ALWAYS remember. She was beautiful both in terms of attire and attributes. She was born selfless and will die selfless. She is, was and will always will be remembered as one of the best characters characterized on Indian Television, in my POV.

I don't think I will be able to watch the show anymore

Creatives and Star Plus have immortalised Sadhna's character like they did for Tulsi, Parvati, Prerna...she will be remembered in the same status as them...

I think Sara Khan should act professional and move ahead with other projects now..

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479445

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Posted: 15 years ago

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I dunno about Tulsi Parvati or Prerna ... but all I know is that Sadhna is unmatched 😊

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Creatives and Star Plus have immortalised Sadhna's character like they did for Tulsi, Parvati, Prerna...she will be remembered in the same status as them...

I think Sara Khan should act professional and move ahead with other projects now..

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