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@Anu: You said that if your husband asks you to 'trust' and 'have confidence', it will be more than enough for you. I liked it alot, this is the way it should be.
Now, about Vasu and Rajvansh house... I dont feel that this home is fit for Sadhna yet. I wish Vasu would sincerely and humbly accept Sadhna ... otherwise ALEKH SHOULD NOT ENTER RAJVANSH HOUSE.... HE MUST NOT....HE CANNOT .... HE IS NOT TO ENTER THAT HOUSE WITHOUT MY SADHNA!!!!
However, how many times did you husband throw you out of the house or witness you being thrown out mutely due to incitement from your mother in law? Did you do as much as Sadhna did for her husband? (ofcourse, you must've done alot, but Sadhna's act in the Serial in exceptional, hope you will not misunderstand).
Alekh had not been mature ... but now when he is trying, there is more and more to be expected from him. He knows himself that he had been guilty of indecision and wrong decisions aswell.
Sadhna is trying to bring him and his mother close to each other. Unlike people who would measure things according to their utility, Sadhna only tried to do the right things without considering their aftermath!
Sadhna may be blamed to be shortsighted, but there is a deeper philosophy here. Sadhna is not evaluating the fruits she might be able to relish by doing a good deed i.e. uniting the mother to her sons. She does not calculate ... and this has been attached to her as a vulnarability. However, I THINK IT IS ONE OF HER GREATEST AND MOST UNIQUE QUALITIES. She is doing what is right ... and thus, whether now or after some time, the fruits will SURELY be sweet. However, those who do good work for the sake of the fruits, cannot add sincerety in its purest form to their efforts. Sadhna is selfless and truely devoted, and thus she will do things that may bewilder the masses! But on deeper thought, it teaches us to do GOOD, without thinking our benefit in that GOOD. Good can prevail only in this way, otherwise SELF and DESIRE would always try to stop GOODNESS by becoming barriers.
Ragini is facing troubles with the water shortage in the house... and the poor quality gifts that Ranvir brings are not really the best things. I know and I dont blame her. I actually have no comment on her sincerety towards her sister. I respect her support to Sadhna now, and I wish it intensifies. I appreciate her thoughtfulness too. BUT IT IS VISIBLE THAT SHE is under alot of stress with her new dispositions. She also once tried t stop Ranvir for the sake of Vasu ... she never wanted to abandon Rajvansh house... perhaps that place needed her as much as she might feel the need of it. I still feel that Ragini had no neccessity to leave the Rajvansh house ... in this way SADHNA AND ALEKH could get decent time together. Ofcourse Ragini's well wishes would have been there, and would be always welcome.
As for Alekh ... its time that he becomes firmer about his responsibility towards his wife. He should not forget the shameful times of the past ... and make Sadhna's future bright and promising. THERE IS MORE THAN ONE WAY to face a problem ... and to alienate or give less priority to a wife (and when the WIFE IS SADHNA) is certainly not even a fictional/virtual option. One thing is straight, SADHNA COMES FIRST AND FOREMOST ... while his mother should be handled with care. Everyone (including him) know Vasu WELL.
Sadhna is trying to bring him and his mother close to each other. Unlike people who would measure things according to their utility, Sadhna only tried to do the right things without considering their aftermath!
Sadhna may be blamed to be shortsighted, but there is a deeper philosophy here. Sadhna is not evaluating the fruits she might be able to relish by doing a good deed i.e. uniting the mother to her sons. She does not calculate ... and this has been attached to her as a vulnarability. However, I THINK IT IS ONE OF HER GREATEST AND MOST UNIQUE QUALITIES. She is doing what is right ... and thus, whether now or after some time, the fruits will SURELY be sweet. However, those who do good work for the sake of the fruits, cannot add sincerety in its purest form to their efforts. Sadhna is selfless and truely devoted, and thus she will do things that may bewilder the masses! But on deeper thought, it teaches us to do GOOD, without thinking our benefit in that GOOD. Good can prevail only in this way, otherwise SELF and DESIRE would always try to stop GOODNESS by becoming barriers.
Ragini is facing troubles with the water shortage in the house... and the poor quality gifts that Ranvir brings are not really the best things. I know and I dont blame her. I actually have no comment on her sincerety towards her sister. I respect her support to Sadhna now, and I wish it intensifies. I appreciate her thoughtfulness too. BUT IT IS VISIBLE THAT SHE is under alot of stress with her new dispositions. She also once tried t stop Ranvir for the sake of Vasu ... she never wanted to abandon Rajvansh house... perhaps that place needed her as much as she might feel the need of it. I still feel that Ragini had no neccessity to leave the Rajvansh house ... in this way SADHNA AND ALEKH could get decent time together. Ofcourse Ragini's well wishes would have been there, and would be always welcome.
As for Alekh ... its time that he becomes firmer about his responsibility towards his wife. He should not forget the shameful times of the past ... and make Sadhna's future bright and promising. THERE IS MORE THAN ONE WAY to face a problem ... and to alienate or give less priority to a wife (and when the WIFE IS SADHNA) is certainly not even a fictional/virtual option. One thing is straight, SADHNA COMES FIRST AND FOREMOST ... while his mother should be handled with care. Everyone (including him) know Vasu WELL.
These are my feelings 😊.
Now, about Vasu and Rajvansh house... I dont feel that this home is fit for Sadhna yet. I wish Vasu would sincerely and humbly accept Sadhna ... otherwise ALEKH SHOULD NOT ENTER RAJVANSH HOUSE.... HE MUST NOT....HE CANNOT .... HE IS NOT TO ENTER THAT HOUSE WITHOUT MY SADHNA!!!!
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