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@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#91

@Smitha

No decent person in the world would snatch away the happiness from others, especially when it is Sadhna, who laid down her life without uttering any complaint. But people may argue that noone asked her to do. If Sdahna feels that the three are happy going back to RH, I think her silence means she does not want to stand in their happiness. or is she expected to say "please dont go there, Mummyji will insult me"....because, she is aware they have succeeded in just one step,...now oi they go back to RH, and Vasu asks them that she will not allow Sadhna in, what will the three do? I am pretty sure that they will never go onside without Sadhna and everything will be reduced to square one.

Ragini did say everything and she did it brilliantly, esp. the words that she said about her and Sadhna during the rift track. But the main question is alekh and ranveer left home and also when Vasu was faking sickness, then also they went leaving all their issues...how come their "khudaari" be given the name of "ego"...and compared in the same status as Vasu's arrogance.

in all, I can say its a mistake in the script, and the direction, they made everything possible to elevate Rgaini's character, except making her solve the core problem.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: ek_sweetladki
I totally agree about how everyone just forgot Sadhana and the issue was Vasu didn't want sadhana back into the house because of her ghamandi attitude.

I dont mean to pin point but the way Vasu has been acting with insulting sharmaji...sending vinu to jail...asking them to empty the house..all of these things are unacceptable and if anyone else did them there would be huge consequences...but since vasu did that (No one dares to ask her to change her attitude)...I mean the issue here is Vasu and her ghamadi attitude not the sons didn't want to return home...the reason they didn't was because of her attitude and how she treated sadhana but they all forgot that in the first place...so how stupid!!

I really want Vasu to feel bad and appologize because all this drama she created about faking it at the hospital and always insulting her in-laws and daughter-in-law is unacceptable in any circumstances and there should be some sort of consequences to it...Bidaai is loosing it's touch with reality and using favortism which is unacceptable. Sadhana should not return until Vasu appologizes!!

good one, but we are not sure that Vasu sent Vinu to jail...probably Vasu did not do this.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: anamika_0
uss ragini ko koi doo dhappad marega?????????????

watz her need to unite such n evil minded ma with her sons, who had a lot of bad experiences from her????????ragini ke BHASHAN sunne ke baad donoon ke mann badal gaya aur woh chalaa apne maasoom maa ke saat apne ghar....

wat a stupid story line??????????????

please do not use such language...

Rgaini did her best in trying to unite and also by admitting the mistakes she made...its her duty as a bahu to unite a broken family...she did exactly that...Ragini deserves claps for giving it such a try.

we are not talking about that here, we are talking about solving the core issue which is between Sadhna and Vasu...

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Posted: 15 years ago

#94

Bani,but Ragini did say Vasu does everything with her wealth and the sons play with emotions.Did she mention ego on the brothers part too?
But its a sure thing that they wouldn't leave without her unless Vasu really changes and comes there to take Sadhana herself.I think all three leaving might be an automatic reaction as they thought that Sadhana also wanted the same?Let's see what's the reason and what really happens on Monday!

And if Vasu comes and begs for forgiveness then at least its the initiation of Ragini's redemption!That is if Vasu doesn't change again...

Edited by smitha80 - 15 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#95

Originally posted by: smitha80
Bani,but Ragini did say Vasu does everything with her wealth and the sons play with emotions.Did she mention ego on the brothers part too?
But its a sure thing that they wouldn't leave without her unless Vasu really changes and comes there to take Sadhana herself.I think all three leaving might be an automatic reaction as they thought that Sadhana also wanted the same?Let's see what's the reason and what really happens on Monday!

And if Vasu comes and begs for forgiveness then at least its the initiation of Ragini's redemption!That is if Vasu doesn't change again...

Smitha, I am just complaining about the creatives. The CTs did only a 50-50 job. when they excelled in making Rgaini utter about her experiences from the rift track and cry her heart out, they failed in making her character identify the core problem.

Its a flaw of the script, thats what I am trying to say. And this is happening because they are in such hurry. And I felt, that Ragini took Anand's help after that kitchen conversation is also a flaw, because before that only, Sadhna uttered "if i tell ou alekhji, my jiji's attempt will be wasted"...

that makes sense "if vasu comes " or they should have waited to see Vasu coming. Vasu does not need to apologise also, but ask Sadhna to come back to RH with a loving smile, thats enough, she as a mother does not need to fall on Sadhna's feet.From the dialogues that "mummyi will not be happy seeing me", its sort of conclusive that Vasu has not arrived till then.

also, I'ld ave loved to se at least Alekh sending Ragini Ranveer back and deciding to go himself when Vasu calls both Sadhna and Alekh back...if after Sadhna's reminding them that Vasu will not like her going there, Alekh's senses come back, then surely for me, it will not have that effect. I'll think that Alekh's love for Sdahna is not that deep, and it is acceptable. Love and faith are always expressed in small gestures

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: Arash
What type of plan was that???? I m very much shocked......its not necessary to show how much they love each other ( vasu and alvir) but the point should be vasu's realization about sadhna's sacrifice.....at the end of the day what happened??? jo hua voh to sabko patha tha, isme konsi bari bath hain !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I m sorry to say this " none of those three ( alekh, ragini and ranveer) have the qualities which sadhna has in her character and that is why sadhna sabse different hain....." I m not surprised to see ranveer's behaviour because he was right in his action...but what happened to alekh and ragini???? how could they do this??? sadhna, jo unki liye itne maine rakhti uski bath ekbar vi dono ki manme nehi aya???? how strange!!!!! What type of relation Alekh share with sadhna?? is it called a perfect husband-wife relation??? apni biwi koi vul gaye ma ke liye??? its not first time alekh act like this, isse pehle vi alekh sadhna ko bina bathaye chali gayi hospital main.....
the CTs should develop the character " Alekh".....and also show the meaningfull relationship between Alekh and Sadhna.......one more thing, the CTs showed us bold ragini but not in the correct way....we don't want to see this type of ragini we want that ragini who will fight for her sister rather than desperate for RV house....... .

u r getting too emotional.its not a fight between DIL and MIL. Rather, it should be seen as something, where true problem solving skills are required...its either a mistake of CTs or their deliberate attempt to prove something.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#97

Originally posted by: smitha80
Bani,but Ragini did say Vasu does everything with her wealth and the sons play with emotions.Did she mention ego on the brothers part too?
just listen to the dialogues again,,,

But its a sure thing that they wouldn't leave without her unless Vasu really changes and comes there to take Sadhana herself.
the three will never go without Sadhna, that much faith I have in all three. But this thing should have come to their mind on their own...they completely failed to identify the actual issue. Vasu has no problem, taking all three back, do u remember the temple scene recently? The main question is whether Vasu will accept Sadhna.

I think all three leaving might be an automatic reaction as they thought that Sadhana also wanted the same?Let's see what's the reason and what really happens on Monday!
Sadhna wants the same for sure, but what is "that same"? By "same", They are all thinking that the problem gets solved and the family unites, BUT they are not able to identify the real problem. if that core issue gets solved, everything will automatically fall in place,

And if Vasu comes and begs for forgiveness then at least its the initiation of Ragini's redemption!That is if Vasu doesn't change again...

Vasu does not need to fall on Sadhna's feet. If Vau just asks Sadhna to come back home with an open heart and mind, thats enough. By open mind, I mean, Vasu will not scheme again.

again, I want to say that its a problem in the script or it could also be a deliberate effort on the part of the creatives to show something more about the repentance. It is sure that a person like Vasu, who by life's experiences did not learn about leaving her ego, will not leave her ego so easily.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#98

Originally posted by: suchitra_1
ok CTs better have good stuff next week for me to watch bidaai ... I am just reading updates lately and from what I am reading.. its good I am piling up the episodes. IN few weeks time I will just watch all of it... FF button, Pause at Saalekh Scenes, Slow, rewind, play, rewind play , then FF button blah blah lblah blah then Slow, Play , Ragvir Scenes, rewing play rewind play....

IF vasu falls at the FEET of sadhana, I will rewind play , replay , replay replay it oVER and OVEr and OVER again eheh...

---- One week people
ONNEEEE WEEEEEEEK wiht out Bidaai...!!!!! WOHOOO

hey Suchitra, I think you are doing right..but I highly recommend you to see yesterday's episode for Parul's performance, she was very good.

On a serious note, I do not want Vasu falling on sadhna's feet, rather just welcomes her with an open heart to the house..thats enough

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#99

Originally posted by: --Anu--

This is not how a normal couple would behave in real life. They discuss the problem and try to find a solution. This is a TV show, so anything can happen. Sadhana's first priority should be her marriage and husband. Its okay if she doesn't want to hurt Vasu by not going back to Rajvansh house. But she can't ask Alekh to go back without her. She should have let him know her concerns and wait for his decision first. He would have surely understood her point. In my opinion, she is not fulfilling her duties as a wife. She seems to be more concerned for everyone except her own husband.

Anu, I understand your point...
firstly Sadhna will go back to RH for Alekh's happiness, but what if at the back of Alekh, Vasu played some trick to separate them. This is my concern,not character Sdahna's😆 we are yet to see how welcoming Vasu is...

Secondly, she is not breaking links with Alekh...its upto Alekh to decide what he wants to do. I loved the temple scene, when Sadhna could not hold her judgement in front of Alekh's rationale. I am pretty sure Alekh will not leave Sadhna and go to stay in RH...but would not it be awesome if Alekh himself had expressed concern before his starting walk to RH, whether Sdahna will be welcomed?

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Yaar Anu, Sadhana needs to get strong , and set her priorities big time!!!! No doubt about it.
But setting priorities not necessarily mean leave your self respect out like.She is not like Ekta's bahus or today's genre bahus.Right she bore Kaushi's torture, when your mom tortures you it not torture, cause she is a part of your system, base.Kaushi never showed her love or acceptance, true but she still cooked and let Sadhana be in her house and was a part of Sadhana's childhood and base.
Vasu has always done sauda's.In fact even the language Vasu used towards Raagini and words like "return my favor back, and "I have let Sadhana's Kali sister stay in our house" all shows her ill feeling and no love for her bahus.
It is hard to ignore that, esp., when someone hates you so much even after seeing you suffer and sacrifice. I do not want Sadhana to go back without an apology.This is my POV.
Alekh showed some maturity in between but now back to be original!!! it is like he is changing his suits !!!

Sadhna is not holding any grudge against Vasu...but she wants that their happiness stay, when all are eager to go back with RH, she should not spoil their happiness by bringing herself, when she is sure that seeing her, Vasu will never remain cool and welcoming. So, Sdahna's very presence will stop the family from reuniting...

Sadhna can make out how eager all are to go back to the house, she just does not want to spoil that happiness, the same thing happened in the hospital, in the temple...she volunteered to stay away, but she never broke ties with Alekh, rather prayed that "Alekh is sae and secure" (refe: her dialogues with Vinu in her room "mere Alekhji pe kya beet raha hain hain")

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