OMG is sadhna CRAZZYYY???:Warning On PG7 & PG8 - Page 6

Originally posted by: ritukaprithvi

Guys, I am way beyond arguing about Sadhana's extreme attachment to her mayaka here . It has started to grate on my nerves now. The Question and Answer session will now have to addressed by RS / Bidaai Team themselves. Why is every character being done to death here . Everyone is playing extreme position here. Why is Sadhana potrayed as she is ? Why can she not be just a plain WIFE? I need Sadhana to have some other responsibility on her which will shift her Focus to herself ( A Baby ).

two words ritu: THANK YOU!!!! lol.

@reguser: u said it girl, u said it!!! what is with all this "throwing-bahus-away-whenever-we-want-to" storylines...? and i'm glad this is a very minor issue in india. but in bangladesh, unfortunately, you can't imagine how often this STILL happens. i mean, in the the very urban, upper class areas, this does not happen, but in the rural, much poorer areas, it is certainly a GREAT problem. women are still treated like third-class citizens there.
but anyways. thankfully, this is no longer the issue in bidaai anymore. alekh is now behind her 100%, and no power, can stand between him, and his support for sadi. unless of course, that's sadi herself. seriously yaar, what is with her...? its not just this incident. i have noticed, lately, she kinda' takes his love for granted. i don't deny that she loves him immensely, and i'm sure she can give up her life for him in a heartbeat, if necessary, but she still needs to become a much better wife IMO. right now, i feel alekh is like the perfect husband. sure, he makes mistakes here and there, but i think that's what also makes a "perfect" husband. as for sadi, this whole disappearance thing was the "nail in the coffin" for me. it REALLY got on my LAST nerve, as if you couldn't tell already...lol.
anyways. i just hope that the CTs will FINALLY get our message, and change sadhna soon. make the salekh relationship STRONGER, and NO MORE SECRETS!!!!

ps: btw, this is just a general thing, but can some of you guys please not bring YR, or any other shows' stories into this, unless you completely explain a part of the story...? cause you see, i don't watch any other indian shows besides bidaai, so i get cnfused...😕

Originally posted by: yanks28

WHOA WHOA WHOA! This is some maaayyyjaah anger guys! lol...nah it's all good. A healthy discussion.

I agree. I'm sick of Sadhna and Alekh being away from one another...I'm sick of Sadhna making this sacrifice...saving this person's behind, or that person's...next time she wants to save her family, she needs to take Alekh with her...it'll be a lot more fun with him there anyway 😉.

In the mean time though...I have a feeling this has a little something to do with Sara being away...and the fact that I sometimes feel that fans of these characters know them better than the writers themselves. I do think in reality, Sadhna has learned her lesson and would not separate herself from Alekh or put their relationship under any danger...yet the writers would stray from that just for their own story line...

girlll, you HAVEN'T SEEN ANGER!!!! you wanna see anger, i'll show you anger!!!! 😡😡 lolllll. j/k. 😛😉
on a serious note, who ISN'T sick of salekh being apart...??? even bani has shown at least somewhat-objection to sadi's actions this time, and i thought that day would never come!!! lol. 😆 so now you KNOW the bidaai viewers are PISSSSSEEEEEDDDDD at how sadi's character is being portrayed by the CTs. and you're right, she NEEDS TO TAKE alekh with her!!! wanna save the world sadi, go ahead, but take alekh witchu girl. i'm sure he'd be HAPPY to help. at least, if not take him with you, let him know what's going on...the boy deserves at least that much, for what he's put himself through to get you.
and yes. NO WAY would someone who's like sadi in real life, would ever abandon alekh like this. the CTs are just doing this for the sake of their own stupid storyline. and i have said this before: sara's temporary absence, after almost three years of 100% commitment and dedication, should hardly be an excuse here. they're called "creatives", so its high time they show something "creative" here and not this rubbish again...😡😡

The creatives in my opinion are mixing up their story lines Big Time. They need to urgently take a break and Loop back to when/Why/ they started Bidaai in the first place . The entire Bidaai mess lies on their Threshold, no Logic can explain the Why's here anymore. They can create better storylines even now. Nothing is Lost yet. Ritu.

In my opinion she should have atleast informed Aalekh that she will be leaving ,when I was watching this I told my friend about my childhood incident my sister and brother(both elder to me) went somewhere without informing me(although my parents knew about it ) for 2 days and I was so angry and I felt so bad at that time I can really feel what Aalekh was going through .

if she had to leave she should have atleast informed Aalekh that " I have to go although I cannot tell you for what but this is important and I will let you know everything once its solved " one simple line would have solved this and definitely Aalekh would have understood .

and about the point what other 3 are doing (Ragvir +Aalekh) - now if she left after putting a note and then calls up and says everything is fine here and I will be back in 2-3 days what else they can do ? and they too have their other problems to solve - (aalekh has Vasu,Ranvir has Anand and Ragi has work and house to attend) .They just cannot leave all this and go in search of Sadi and if you all forgot they all said we have full faith in Sadi if she is gone then there might be a real good reason for that now I would give them credit for trusting her but not to Sadhana for hiding whatever it is from them

and again why to blame Ragi here ,if Sadi decides to hide something in name of her Jiji's maksad then its not Ragi's fault ,and this maksad is not only Ragi's alone as far as I know it is of both of them .

Originally posted by: zarmeeno

Yaar dont worry whatever Sadi does have a justifiable reasaon behind it and in the end everyone will apologize to her. She can never be wrong whether selling her husband lying whenver she wants and becoming sach ki devi everything is fine as long as Sadi does it.

Originally posted by: pricey28

what rubbish are they showing yaar???!!!! 😡😡😡 its like, they've taken a COMPLETELY 180 degree turn!!! just last week, LAST WEEK, they were hitting home runs with bidaai EVERY, SINGLE, TIME. now, WTH is this yaar??? i still tried to stand by the CTs, and trust their storyline, but they have completely appalled me with today's (april 26) episode!!! 😡😡😡
seriously, is sadhna CRAZY???!!!! i don't care what her reason is, you just don't do what she did today. what if alekh had suddenly disappeared for 2-3 days, OUT OF TOWN, to ANYWHERE, just writing a letter and giving a phone call...??? how would she have felt then, huh??? its not a matter of trust, obviously your spouse is gonna worry like hell if you just suddenly disappeared like that. i know i would have. pata nahin yaar, meri kya hal hoti...agar meri husband did what sadi did today, mein toh mar hi jahthi yaar!!!
what sadi did today is careless, reckless, and not to mention, STUPID!!! if i had ever done what she did today, my mom would've KILLED me yaar. sadi should've at least told alekh. bechara, pata nahin kis hal mein honge...i swear, sometimes i feel she takes alekh's love for granted!!! did she forget how they separated for months, and what alekh had to go through to get her back, in fact, is STILL doing to have her in his life. the boy is a billionaire for god's sakes, yet he has left all his money, all his luxury, all his comfort, status, and chosen misery, JUST TO BE WITH HER!!! and this is how she acts...???!!!! ughhhh....grrrr....😡😡
aur yeh vinu kab tak sirf sadi ko pareshan karta rahega... can't he deal with HIS problems on his own for once??? can't he be a freakin' man for once??? hadh hoti hein yaar!!!

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Okay I haven't read through all the pages here, but from whatever I've read I can tell you guys here are being awfully mean, terribly bad, impatient and anything but sensible.

I don't know how you guys still don't know, if you've been watching Bidaai for a while now, that Alekh's and Sadhna's situations must NOT be compared to reality. No one should put themselves in their position to think what we'd do in a similar case. If you guys think you'd have gone crazy and died if your wife left with a note like Sadhna...well then - how about when you (being the beautiful 19 year old with dreams) marry a violent, mentally retarded man knowing this is how you have to spend all your life till the day you grow old and die? Or how about when EVERY person in your life throw you out of their lives/homes into the street, threatening you in case they ever see you again? How many of you here could survive those situations?

Since I am assuming no one could've survived...it is quite clear that Alekh's present situation is very minor in comparison to these. But no matter how minor, SaAlekh's problems should NOT be compared to our own lives. 😊

As for what Sadhna should or should not have done, that just depends on the way you view her character.

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Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Okay I haven't read through all the pages here, but from whatever I've read I can tell you guys here are being awfully mean, terribly bad, impatient and anything but sensible.

I don't know how you guys still don't know, if you've been watching Bidaai for a while now, that Alekh's and Sadhna's situations must NOT be compared to reality. No one should put themselves in their position to think what we'd do in a similar case. If you guys think you'd have gone crazy and died if your wife left with a note like Sadhna...well then - how about when you (being the beautiful 19 year old with dreams) marry a violent, mentally retarded man knowing this is how you have to spend all your life till the day you grow old and die? Or how about when EVERY person in your life throw you out of their lives/homes into the street, threatening you in case they ever see you again? How many of you here could survive those situations?

Since I am assuming no one could've survived...it is quite clear that Alekh's present situation is very minor in comparison to these. But no matter how minor, SaAlekh's problems should NOT be compared to our own lives. 😊

As for what Sadhna should or should not have done, that just depends on the way you view her character.

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