Originally posted by: ishtar
I think people need to look at things with a different perspective.
I am just going to post what I posted in another thread
I have said this before ,I think Ranvir was wrong in letting Aalekh drive and Ragini should understand that.Having said that..About the Slap we have to look at it from both the sisters perspective.
Sadhna treats Ranvir like a kid brother,so she slapped him well and good.
But Ragini looks at Sadhna as her kid sister.I wouldn't like it if my younger brother or sister hits or insults my husband..no one would.
That slap brought the whole jethani -devrani thing into play because Sadhna would have never hit her Jijaji.
And Ragini wouldn't be looking at the situation as a devrani but an elder sister.
So both the sisters are going to end up as victims of circumstances.
From Sadhana's perspective, Ranveer became her devar first and then Ragini's husband. So she will always treat him like a devar.
I do understand Ragini's position that she is stuck between her husband and sister cum jethani. But if she can think beyond herself and understand the situation then nothing will come between them. But if she does not then I won't blame her even in that case.
Ragini-Sadhana both need to understand their new equation and adjust according to that. There will always be situations coming in front of them as devrani-jethani and not sisters, just like feet touching thing.
I guess something similar must have happened between Vasu and Ambika. But their relationship was never strong so it broke easily.
Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago