Vasu`s behaviour wid Ragi was wrong.. really wrong - Page 2

Ragini is not a diplomatic character, she is a simple girl. She could not even realise that such a minor issue could become a huge cry for Vasu.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Ragini is not a diplomatic character, she is a simple girl. She could not even realise that such a minor issue could become a huge cry for Vasu.

For example, not many people are aware... in India, its a custom that whoever is the eldest in the family, invitation cards for that family is issued in his/her name. So Dadibua being the eldest, how bad she might be, Ragini's action was actually following our "sanskaar".

I dont like Dadibua's character at all, but I think if Ragini had gone to inform Dadibua, its her sensitive nature and also that she did not want her Sasural's any minor issue to come out in front of her parents...it shows thatRagini is brought up with good virtues.

All in all, I dont think it was such a major issue that Ragini should get a shout from Vasu...

But probably Vasu is feeling insecure and thinks that Dadibua might influence her bahus and thus the happiness of the family might be at stake again.

well said bani 👏

yeah its a ritual out here in India that even if u dont like the eldest person in ur family, its ur duty to give him/her the invitation first and ragini on her part was correct, totally correct and Vasu was actually insecure about her position in Rajvansh house...its her ego that made her act like this, vasu has a big ego problem and she cant see anyone sharing the position she has in the family or someone giving her a tough competition for her position

Vasu's expressions itself say a lot.Even in Friday's episode she was not happy that DB was giving advice to each and everyone and also didn't like the fact that Avni and NAveen took DB's permission instead of asking her which was the norm.She is seriously worried that her bahus might change and her ego couldn't handle it.SO she shouted at Ragini for absolutely no reason since her authority in Rajvansh house is at stake.But Ragini handled the situation really well.

And dharaa,ok hon.No thanks from now on!!And same goes to you too!!!

Originally posted by: dharaa

zee di, its not only about age
when Mamaji-Mamiji came to invite everyone DB was not there...and except for her everyone was there....so it was Ragini's duty to go and inform her about malti's god bharai and when she is the eldest she should be informed about it sabse pehle so it was not at all wrong

dhara tuneyy merii dol ki baat bol diaa....i mean jabh mamaji mamiji ayee thee tabh sabb wohaaa pee theee,mamaji mamji sabb ko invitee kiaaa...wohaa serf dadi buaa nehii thiii...so its natural naa,ki as a good bahu n good betiii,ragi ne apnii maikey waliii baat sambhaali and dadi buaa ko samjhayaa ki kiun uskii parents nee DB ko uss din nehi bola n yee ragi ki resposiblity hai naa ki apni parents ki tarafsee DB ko abh pher se invite kareyyy....and vasuuu,omggg,poori baat ko ultaa ghoomaa diaa, n bewajaa ragi ko daant diaa..huhhh.....vasu yee kaisi keh saktii hai kii,abh hamey bhii invite kar do...lolzz....kitnii baar usse invite karna padegaa....lolzzzz....actuallyyyy,vasu bohotttt insecureee feeel karti hai hameshaa....😆...lolzz

Originally posted by: dharaa

well said bani 👏

yeah its a ritual out here in India that even if u dont like the eldest person in ur family, its ur duty to give him/her the invitation first and ragini on her part was correct, totally correct and Vasu was actually insecure about her position in Rajvansh house...its her ego that made her act like this, vasu has a big ego problem and she cant see anyone sharing the position she has in the family or someone giving her a tough competition for her position

@smitha di, premu
yeah it looks like that only...she feels insecure about her position..but i am glad to see that even after all this ragini has the same amount of respect for Vasu and she didn't listen to that old lady

@bani, well said again lol

yup its quite possble and from vasu's reaction when Ranvir told her about DB's return in Rajvansh house she looked as if she already knows that with her coming back to the house problems can arise for Sadi-Ragi
Vasu should speak to both Ragi-Sadi regarding this...she was really happy to see the bonding between ragi-sadi and if she speaks to them about DB then i guess even they'll be prepared for everything that DB willplan against them

Vasu knows Db's personality and she might also be worried about Ambika's shrap coming true and destroying peace in the family once again so reacts the way she normally does-shout at everyone and bend them to her will or at least try.

I really want DB, avin and vasu leave to house......I hope Ragini n sadhna stay the house forever! Its feel good peace!

didnt watched today pei yet

I feel instead of being arrogant, if Vasu can openly discuss the problems about Dadibua from her past experiences with Sadhna and Ragini, I am sure that will be a far mature way to deal with Dadibua. Ragini and Sadhna will be cautious and also understand why Vasu is against Dadibua.