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Posted: 16 years ago
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When you are not married and are just lovers, you spend 5-6 hours (approx) of your time with each other, but when you are married you probably stay away for 5-6 hours and spend majority of the time together. That makes a huge difference between a life as a lover and a life as a husband/wife. As lovers, life seem to be strewn with roses and everything is perfect, but when you face life after marriage, one gets to know how much malleable one needs to be. I am not talking about Ranveer-Ragini in specific, but in general. Rajanji's good point he always talk about reality and the best part, he shows how to face the problems and deal with those.
Its not that Ranveer does not trust Ragini. But what he is scared of is that since Ragini is so much in love with Ranveer, if she comes to know the truth behind Ranveer's changed behaviour, she might not be able to tackle that in front of everyone.... Suppose Vasu is shouting at Ranveer, its easier for Ragini to be quiet if she is ignorant, but if she knows that Ranveer is innocent and doing this all for Alekh, she will try to talk to Vasu or any other person that they are just misunderstanding Ranveer. In that way, his plan will come out and the criminal may get cautious.
As I had mentioned in another post that Ranveer can do all these, because he and Ragini love each other so much, and that he has full faith in Ragini.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

When you are not married and are just lovers, you spend 5-6 hours (approx) of your time with each other, but when you are married you probably stay away for 5-6 hours and spend majority of the time together. That makes a huge difference between a life as a lover and a life as a husband/wife. As lovers, life seem to be strewn with roses and everything is perfect, but when you face life after marriage, one gets to know how much malleable one needs to be. I am not talking about Ranveer-Ragini in specific, but in general. Rajanji's good point he always talk about reality and the best part, he shows how to face the problems and deal with those.

Its not that Ranveer does not trust Ragini. But what he is scared of is that since Ragini is so much in love with Ranveer, if she comes to know the truth behind Ranveer's changed behaviour, she might not be able to tackle that in front of everyone.... Suppose Vasu is shouting at Ranveer, its easier for Ragini to be quiet if she is ignorant, but if she knows that Ranveer is innocent and doing this all for Alekh, she will try to talk to Vasu or any other person that they are just misunderstanding Ranveer. In that way, his plan will come out and the criminal may get cautious.
As I had mentioned in another post that Ranveer can do all these, because he and Ragini love each other so much, and that he has full faith in Ragini.



really very well said 👏 👏 👏

i agree to you completely, though i am one of those who is really sad to to see RagVir go through thisphase of time, but still i have a lil faith that after all these when all these will be over we'll see RagVir in a better way, which we have never seen before....ranvir loves ragini way too much and this is actually the reason why he is taking all the pain, so that ragini's life is not in danger
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Ranveer can never take such a bold step unless and until he has complete faith in Ragini. He knows very well when Ragini will come to know this side of Ranveer and the truth, she will not only understand and love him more, but there will be an element of respect added to her relationship to him.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

When you are not married and are just lovers, you spend 5-6 hours (approx) of your time with each other, but when you are married you probably stay away for 5-6 hours and spend majority of the time together. That makes a huge difference between a life as a lover and a life as a husband/wife. As lovers, life seem to be strewn with roses and everything is perfect, but when you face life after marriage, one gets to know how much malleable one needs to be. I am not talking about Ranveer-Ragini in specific, but in general. Rajanji's good point he always talk about reality and the best part, he shows how to face the problems and deal with those.

Its not that Ranveer does not trust Ragini. But what he is scared of is that since Ragini is so much in love with Ranveer, if she comes to know the truth behind Ranveer's changed behaviour, she might not be able to tackle that in front of everyone.... Suppose Vasu is shouting at Ranveer, its easier for Ragini to be quiet if she is ignorant, but if she knows that Ranveer is innocent and doing this all for Alekh, she will try to talk to Vasu or any other person that they are just misunderstanding Ranveer. In that way, his plan will come out and the criminal may get cautious.
As I had mentioned in another post that Ranveer can do all these, because he and Ragini love each other so much, and that he has full faith in Ragini.

Very well said... 👏 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagVir4eva

Very well said... 👏 👏 👏 👏

thanks
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

When you are not married and are just lovers, you spend 5-6 hours (approx) of your time with each other, but when you are married you probably stay away for 5-6 hours and spend majority of the time together. That makes a huge difference between a life as a lover and a life as a husband/wife. As lovers, life seem to be strewn with roses and everything is perfect, but when you face life after marriage, one gets to know how much malleable one needs to be. I am not talking about Ranveer-Ragini in specific, but in general. Rajanji's good point he always talk about reality and the best part, he shows how to face the problems and deal with those.

Its not that Ranveer does not trust Ragini. But what he is scared of is that since Ragini is so much in love with Ranveer, if she comes to know the truth behind Ranveer's changed behaviour, she might not be able to tackle that in front of everyone.... Suppose Vasu is shouting at Ranveer, its easier for Ragini to be quiet if she is ignorant, but if she knows that Ranveer is innocent and doing this all for Alekh, she will try to talk to Vasu or any other person that they are just misunderstanding Ranveer. In that way, his plan will come out and the criminal may get cautious.
As I had mentioned in another post that Ranveer can do all these, because he and Ragini love each other so much, and that he has full faith in Ragini.

u have a v good point there... well said...
but i feel, (just my point of view), if i was in ragini;s shoes... i wud be hurt to find out later about it... even d fact tt he told sadhna d truth instead of ragini.. i will feel tt my husband should have told me this, der shud not be any secrets kept from each other.... besides.. ragini is so upset with ranvir;s changed behaviour..and d way he shouted at her, doesnt seem any justified to me... he always cuts her off whenever she talks to him on d phone alos .. like "ragini,ill talk 2 u later,im bz now.."
doesnt he feel bad, when he knows tt hes hurting ragini?..altho ragini will learn d truth later and probably forgive him.. how can he take her for granted in tt way?>..
dont know abt ragini, but i wud be hurt for sure..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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In my opinion there can be no explainantion/excuse of Ranvir' behaviour.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: zarmeeno

In my opinion there can be no explainantion/excuse of Ranvir' behaviour.

exactly... i would be annoyed with him too, if i was in raginis position
he should trust her and tell her d whole truth...and his reason for behaving strangely..den she wud undersatnd whenever he has to rush of for "some important work"....and why he doesnt want her to share anythin with d rest of d family members...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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The thing bothering me about Ragvir for the last few weeks was the lack of trust and understanding between them.And because of that I can't seem to enjoy their scenes like I used to.I really hoped that they would solve it during Saalekh's marriage but it never happened.She will forgive him in the end no matter what cos he did all this for a noble cause but I also want her to show Ranvir how he hurt her by not trusting her.There is no equality and depth in their relationship anymore.They always showed Ragini as a meek person so differet from what she was.Ragini staying away is a good thing in the sense that she wants Ranvir to come to her and get her but at the same time it would have been good to see Ragini beside him and helping him.Everyone seems to know whats happening expect her...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: smitha80

The thing bothering me about Ragvir for the last few weeks was the lack of trust and understanding between them.And because of that I can't seem to enjoy their scenes like I used to.I really hoped that they would solve it during Saalekh's marriage but it never happened.She will forgive him in the end no matter what cos he did all this for a noble cause but I also want her to show Ranvir how he hurt her by not trusting her.There is no equality and depth in their relationship anymore.They always showed Ragini as a meek person so differet from what she was.Ragini staying away is a good thing in the sense that she wants Ranvir to come to her and get her but at the same time it would have been good to see Ragini beside him and helping him.Everyone seems to know whats happening expect her...

agree with u.. inside her heart, ragini is hoping ranvir will come 2 take her back.... but den again, she doesnt know what hes goin thru.... and thats all bcos ranveer never thot it was necessary 2 tell her anythin.. he expects she would understand once he explains everything..
i believe he should have told her everythin from d start.. if u have so much of love and trust for ur wife.. u would surely not let such a thing strain ur realtionship....husband-wife relationship is v delicate, be it love or arranged... dey expect each other 2 confide with each other all d time, otherwise dey feel left out, unloved or cheatd.... ragini will feel d same too

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