Rudr is acting childish

I think Rudr can do better with his life than just whistling away and getting emotionally charged with girls' affairs. Why is it that they show people like Rudr to be doing next to nothing and living in a rich family and cursing the rest of the family members for not having any emotions when it comes to him? Why can't he prove them wrong by doing some work and doing it in a manner that is for the benefit of others whoever he wants to help. I don't understand how a guy like him can even think of marriage and live off someone else's earnings in life without doing some quality work - that's when I admire Abhay! Rudr is acting plain stupid! And he is not a sane guy because he does nothing but thinks of himself and pines away for his long lost love..........this show is coming from a world of make-belive and who in their right mind just to teach Gauri a lesson will get married to her? Wasn't he thinking of Pihu a short while before that? Rudr is plain insane, stupid, naiive and is an idle guy who knows only how to romance girls.............bad portrayal ..........or good portrayal of a lazy, rich, spoilt child.