Mansi gets angry seeing Ahem comforting Gopi - SBB - 27/04/15 - Page 2

Originally posted by: ani_gr

CVs are totally mindless..kal tak they hated each other so much... now where did this hamdardi come from for Ahem? How can they so easily unite them after hating that much...

Why are they rushing now ? Either they rush or drag...😡..

So disappointed.. they are showing Gopi has no self respect what soever... why dont they just let her live by herself.. why did Ahem and come and comfort her ? 😡

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Yes, the reason is simple. They want to make Gopi a typical Indian woman who is a pativrata. But sorry CV's if you want us to be like that, it is not possible. Neither our hearts are that big nor do we have that much patience.😡

Now they are even making reunion very much abrupt.😡

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

You know what was weird about this scene? The way Ahem genuinely looks guilty about being with Gopi behind Mansi's back. Everyone's ready to blame Mansi for coming in between Ahem and Gopi, but then look at the way Ahem desperately stops Mansi from leaving. If Mansi was only a 'friend' for him, he wouldn't react like this would he?

From this scene it looks as if Ahem and Mansi were always in a committed relationship, but now Mansi has caught Ahem with another woman! Of course the 'other woman' is he's actual legally wedded wife, but instead it looks as if Mansi is her wife. 😆

I can understand Mansi being angry and upset, but I can't understand why Ahem is so guilty and desperate to prove to Mansi that nothing is going on between him and Gopi.

My thoughts: CVs forgot to lay a proper foundation for Ahem and Mansi's relationship, more that they were to scared to show them having a proper relationship so as not to taint Ahem's purity. And now these 'misunderstandings' as if they are a typical couple don't really work for me.

This Mansi angle has not worked from the beginning for me. Epic fail.

Another point I want to make, look at the way Mansi is angry at Ahem for forgetting their dinner. Look at the way she tells him off for treating her in this way. She gave him a piece of her mind and stormed off. And what did Ahem do? He ran straight after her. Gopi Vahu on the other hand is forever hovering around Ahem and he constantly smacks her away like a fly.

Now when Kokila says Gopi is the right life partner for Ahem and Mansi is wrong, is she basically saying Gopi will let Ahem treat her in any way he deems right, however women like Mansi and Anita will not stand for that kind of behaviour, therefore Gopi is the right wife for Ahem?

Originally posted by: Xarina

@ bold. Errmmm yes. I guess that every MIL wants a DIL like Gopi. A maid, washerwoman, cook, pseudo mother figure and incubator. Someone like Mansi would have set certain perimeters and stand firm that she is his equal not there to be used and abused. Something Konica will never entertain.

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

But does Ahem want a wife like that?

I think Ahem actually wants to be with a dominating woman. Maybe someone who is more possessive of him. When Mansi storms off, he will chase after her and try to explain himself. Gopi is right there under his nose, but he's just not interested or letting himself become tempted to take her back.

I don't think Ahem and Gopi can work in the long-term. Not saying him and Mansi will because he definitely does not have any romantic feelings for her. But Ahem and Gopi just don't work. 😕

Originally posted by: Xarina

He wants a wife like Kokila? Domineering and overbearing 😆. Ahem needs a wife who is his equal. Someone who knows that if he had a tough day at work would talk it through with him and come to a conclusion. I'd be much happier if he did end up with Mansi. And remember how many times he asked Gopi to concentrate on him and their little family? But nope. She had to be the adarsh bahu, bhabhi, cousin, guide and confidant to everyone else but her own little family unit. The fault of Kokila and the vows a woman makes when circumventing the fire that she will take on his family as her own and support them at all times. Kokila has always considered Gopi a DIL first and a wife second. And she is not the only one to do that.

Originally posted by: Xarina

He wants a wife like Kokila? Domineering and overbearing 😆. Ahem needs a wife who is his equal. Someone who knows that if he had a tough day at work would talk it through with him and come to a conclusion. I'd be much happier if he did end up with Mansi. And remember how many times he asked Gopi to concentrate on him and their little family? But nope. She had to be the adarsh bahu, bhabhi, cousin, guide and confidant to everyone else but her own little family unit. The fault of Kokila and the vows a woman makes when circumventing the fire that she will take on his family as her own and support them at all times. Kokila has always considered Gopi a DIL first and a wife second. And she is not the only one to do that.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Ahem does not really know what he wants.😆 Kokila wanted Gopi to be her DIL first, then Ahem's wife. Infact she expected this from the best of proposals she got. she said the same thing to Anita. Ahem at the initial stages told Gopi to keep his mom happy only then he will be happy. Gopi became an adarsh bahu, bhabhi, cousin & guide not she is yet to become adarsh patni.

Ahem does not deserve Mansi or Gopi. He does not have romantic feelings towards her as he does not love her. That marriage will not click. However, even with Gopi, it won't work.

I would have been happier if he had married Anita.😆

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

I would have been happier if he had married Anita.😆

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

I think in the long-term even he would have been happier.