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Posted: 10 years ago
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So not only did Radha lose her virginity to Jigar but also got pregnant on teh same night.

So Jigar was drunk, however still he managed to not only have sex with a virgin but also get her pregnant the same night.

Interesting, he wanted to marry paridhi out of guilt, but has zero regret or sympathy for getting radha pregnant. No matter how evil she is, she was still pregnant with his kid, which the family so wanted to save, however jigar had no views on this.

Jigar is one of the worst characters of teh show. His character has not been defined since the beginning. he finds happiness and solace in women who trap him and betray, be it rashi or pardihi. I am sure if he was left alone with radha for a week he would fall for her also.

He is actually a sexual pervert, he didnt give a shit abt tolu molu and wanted to run off to somewhere, however, still found time to hang with paridhi. no he doesnt give a damn abt radha's kid but still was able to get it up and knock up radha even when drunk

Evil women can do anything to him, but he is happy as long as the sex is great!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jigar was not drunk, he was drugged by Radha and Paridhi. He did not consent to what happened between him and Radha. If anybody is the victim in this situation, it is Jigar. He is a victim of drug rape.

Why is it that only women receive sympathy in these cases? What is with the gender bias? Just because he is a man, he must be sexual pervert and must have enjoyed the sex.

Now what if they had shown a woman in this situation? Let's say this had happened to Kinjal and Umang was the one to drug rape her. Would you have felt the same? Would you say Kinjal was a sexual pervert? Would you say she enjoyed what happened? No, right?

I would like to ask this question to the writers, producers, channel heads and even the audience who diligently watch this show and keep it in the list of top three shows:

Why has what happened with Jigar been taken so lightly? If this had happened to the daughter of the house, would the Modis have let the perpetrator go off scot-free? Is this what happens in India with male victims? Men are expected to enjoy sex; doesn't matter how they get it and doesn't matter if it's with their consent or not. Is that really what people think?

Just imagine: in real life there could be men who go through this situation but are too scared to speak up through fear of what society will say to them. Unfortunately, it is the same case for women. At the end of the day, a crime is a crime irrespective of gender.

Hats off to Star Plus for their "Nayi Soch"!!! 👏🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why blame Jigar for that. It was equally Radha's fault. Is she a kid or what to sleep with a man? Practically, if a woman is drugged & raped, the Indian society will blame the woman as it is the woman who gets pregnant. But in this case, I say it is Radha's fault as she deliberately did it. She wanted to take revenge on Modis & can go to any extent.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree Nikki..I even doubt if the child is really Jigar's.. Radha must have played with everyone's emotions..Jigar was drugged by Radha... she is evil.. Everyone knows it.. It has nothing to do with gender.. If a girl makes mistake it is a mistake, it a boy makes a mistake it is a mistake... so it is both ways.. never just one thing...
I dont want to think Radha is a victim in this...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The Modis are really stupid. 😡They could have got rid of Radha. They could have handed Radha to the cops for kidnapping Meera & Vidya. They had a proof too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mama1234

So not only did Radha lose her virginity to Jigar but also got pregnant on teh same night.

So Jigar was drunk, however still he managed to not only have sex with a virgin but also get her pregnant the same night.

Interesting, he wanted to marry paridhi out of guilt, but has zero regret or sympathy for getting radha pregnant. No matter how evil she is, she was still pregnant with his kid, which the family so wanted to save, however jigar had no views on this.

Jigar is one of the worst characters of teh show. His character has not been defined since the beginning. he finds happiness and solace in women who trap him and betray, be it rashi or pardihi. I am sure if he was left alone with radha for a week he would fall for her also.

He is actually a sexual pervert, he didnt give a shit abt tolu molu and wanted to run off to somewhere, however, still found time to hang with paridhi. no he doesnt give a damn abt radha's kid but still was able to get it up and knock up radha even when drunk

Evil women can do anything to him, but he is happy as long as the sex is great!!


Your heading is totally wrong. What is there to be stupid in all this.

As for Jigar "enjoying" anything if he were conscious only then right? If he were under the influence of drugs what can he do?

As for running off with "Paridhi" leaving the kids it did not make sense.

Let me get this straight.

Urmi wants the kids. Jigar wants to run away. He conveniently takes Paridhi.

Now what are the Modis left with?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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this topic was supposedly to do anything with rape or date rape or men being raped. If we go with this deifinition that radha raped jigar, then lets not forget that by this definition gopi also raped ahem. Even ahem was under the influence of drugs when he had consummated the marriage with Gopi. He didnt even remember after taht anything had happned. So both Modi boys have been raped.

I started this thread to highlight, that CVs really need to imrpove Jigar's character. is he an idiot that he falls for the same evil women who manipulate him. When he found out what Rashi had done he had left her but Kokila let her back and let her prove that she was a good bahu. Whats the infatuation with good bahu, what abt wife?? isnt being a wife more than important than being a bahu. Same was the case with paridhi, kokila let her in even tough jigar wanted to do nothing with her and gave her chance to provde herself. I am sick of such characaters.

Cant the modi boys stand up for themselves how are tehy o much under the influence of the women,
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mama1234

this topic was supposedly to do anything with rape or date rape or men being raped. If we go with this deifinition that radha raped jigar, then lets not forget that by this definition gopi also raped ahem. Even ahem was under the influence of drugs when he had consummated the marriage with Gopi. He didnt even remember after taht anything had happned. So both Modi boys have been raped.

I started this thread to highlight, that CVs really need to imrpove Jigar's character. is he an idiot that he falls for the same evil women who manipulate him. When he found out what Rashi had done he had left her but Kokila let her back and let her prove that she was a good bahu. Whats the infatuation with good bahu, what abt wife?? isnt being a wife more than important than being a bahu. Same was the case with paridhi, kokila let her in even tough jigar wanted to do nothing with her and gave her chance to provde herself. I am sick of such characaters.

Cant the modi boys stand up for themselves how are tehy o much under the influence of the women,


I understand the point you are making about Jigar's character and on some level I agree. He does repeatedly just end doing what the women of the family tell him to do. I also find it irritating that Gopi, who was against Paridhi, ended up changing her stance within minutes, only because 'now Paridhi and Jigar are married, that relationship is above any wrongdoing Paridhi had done in the past'. 🤢

But I cannot ignore the comments you had made in your post regarding what transpired between Jigar and Radha. It is important to understand the intent of the people involved. In Gohem's situation, Gopi did not know Ahem was intoxicated nor did she force Ahem to do anything. Ahem approached her and she reciprocated. Also, when Ahem came to know what had happened, he did not express any regret. He was in love with her, she was his wife and he need a little dutch courage to take their relationship further. Not the best way for these things to happen...but that's another story.

However, in Jigar-Radha's case, Radha was the who drugged Jigar with the intention to sleep with him. She approached Jigar fully well knowing he was not in his senses. She forced herself onto him and he in his intoxicated state reciprocated her advances thinking she was Rashi. So because of her wrong intentions, I would say she raped Jigar.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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dear touch of pink.. i understand ur point. i am not trying to say that what radha did is right. all i am saying is as per jigar's character he is in the habit of accepting and later being very happy with evil scheming women who trap him. so thats why i said that the only things taht seems to matter to him is sex, becasuse he is the most useless charcater in the show..

he is not a good father, (willing to leave tolu molu, and so far no interaction with new baby). not a very good son and even not a very faithful husband (already fully accepted and also in love with paridhi). so if elders of the house wake up tomorrow and say accept radha. i am sure he will have no issue in doing that also😃😃😃😃
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Originally posted by: mama1234

dear touch of pink.. i understand ur point. i am not trying to say that what radha did is right. all i am saying is as per jigar's character he is in the habit of accepting and later being very happy with evil scheming women who trap him. so thats why i said that the only things taht seems to matter to him is sex, becasuse he is the most useless charcater in the show..

he is not a good father, (willing to leave tolu molu, and so far no interaction with new baby). not a very good son and even not a very faithful husband (already fully accepted and also in love with paridhi). so if elders of the house wake up tomorrow and say accept radha. i am sure he will have no issue in doing that also😃


Hmm...okay, I can see where you are coming from regarding Jigar's character now. 😆

Well, the male characters are not given enough scope in this show. Though the storyline has been focused on Jigar since Rashi's death, but unfortunately, they have dealt with his character in a very bad way. So like I said, I get where you are coming from.

Apologies for the long lectures. 😆

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