Originally posted by: mama1234
this topic was supposedly to do anything with rape or date rape or men being raped. If we go with this deifinition that radha raped jigar, then lets not forget that by this definition gopi also raped ahem. Even ahem was under the influence of drugs when he had consummated the marriage with Gopi. He didnt even remember after taht anything had happned. So both Modi boys have been raped.
I started this thread to highlight, that CVs really need to imrpove Jigar's character. is he an idiot that he falls for the same evil women who manipulate him. When he found out what Rashi had done he had left her but Kokila let her back and let her prove that she was a good bahu. Whats the infatuation with good bahu, what abt wife?? isnt being a wife more than important than being a bahu. Same was the case with paridhi, kokila let her in even tough jigar wanted to do nothing with her and gave her chance to provde herself. I am sick of such characaters.
Cant the modi boys stand up for themselves how are tehy o much under the influence of the women,
I understand the point you are making about Jigar's character and on some level I agree. He does repeatedly just end doing what the women of the family tell him to do. I also find it irritating that Gopi, who was against Paridhi, ended up changing her stance within minutes, only because 'now Paridhi and Jigar are married, that relationship is above any wrongdoing Paridhi had done in the past'. 🤢
But I cannot ignore the comments you had made in your post regarding what transpired between Jigar and Radha. It is important to understand the intent of the people involved. In Gohem's situation, Gopi did not know Ahem was intoxicated nor did she force Ahem to do anything. Ahem approached her and she reciprocated. Also, when Ahem came to know what had happened, he did not express any regret. He was in love with her, she was his wife and he need a little dutch courage to take their relationship further. Not the best way for these things to happen...but that's another story.
However, in Jigar-Radha's case, Radha was the who drugged Jigar with the intention to sleep with him. She approached Jigar fully well knowing he was not in his senses. She forced herself onto him and he in his intoxicated state reciprocated her advances thinking she was Rashi. So because of her wrong intentions, I would say she raped Jigar.