GHAR KE SADASSE JAISE.....Jigar(Hasmukh) and Gopi

Two sentences said by Kokila:-
"Hasmukh aap sabke liye GHAR KE SADASSE JAISA hai, lekin mai ghar ki sadasse hu! Aur mai chahti hu ki ye Hasmukh yaha nehi rahega!"----Kokila said this sentence to the family members for Hasmukh.
"Gopi humare GHAR KI SADASSE JAISI hai. Vo humare saath rehti hai aur rahegi."----Kokila said this to Radha(Mani) for Gopi.

She said almost the same thing but in different ways and to and for different people.
My question is: If Gopi can stay in the house being a GHAR KE SADASSE JAISI, then why can't Jigar(Hasmukh) stay in the house being a GHAR KA SADASSE JAISA???
Everyone including Kokila's elders insisted to keep Hasmukh in the house but Kokila didn't listen to them! In a way she disrespected them. Kokila is so dominating!! She doesn't listen to anyone! Not even to her elders. She is selfish and wants everything in her way only.
I'll be very happy if someone confronts her...


P.S.- The dialogs may not be exactly same as said in the show.

I get a feeling that Kokila is getting a little 'over protective' towards her sister Jigna/Rashi and sees Hasmukh as a threat but does not see Gopi as such. Hence the differing in dialogue.

Originally posted by: Xarina

I get a feeling that Kokila is getting a little 'over protective' towards her sister Jigna/Rashi and sees Hasmukh as a threat but does not see Gopi as such. Hence the differing in dialogue.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

I'm quite surprised she doesn't see gopi as a threat in her memory loss state considering gopi has a connection with the kids, she even fed them, did koki not feel gopi has over stepped the mark?

Koki wants someone better than a driver for her sister, which makes me wonder if she would have married kinjal to dhawal had kinjal not messed her marriage prospects up.

When Dhawal's name came up (Gopi suggested having been told to do so by Rashi and Urmila), neither Koki nor Ahem were keen on the alliance. But I think they had to agree because Chirag intervened and by that time, the broken engagement and Kinjal's pregnancy or lack of it came unwinded (Urmila's KK again) and they married her off to the first guy who came to their head. It helped too that Dhawal was head over heels in love with Kinjal.

Kokila thinks she owes her life to Gopi and Gauri while Radha is a servant in her house. I do not think anyone would allow a servant to talk to their guest the way Radha did.

As for Jigar, he is a driver in Kokila's mind and Jigna is her sister. However cordial and close the driver is to the family, he is still not the same and hence her need to keep Jigar away.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

When Dhawal's name came up (Gopi suggested having been told to do so by Rashi and Urmila), neither Koki nor Ahem were keen on the alliance. But I think they had to agree because Chirag intervened and by that time, the broken engagement and Kinjal's pregnancy or lack of it came unwinded (Urmila's KK again) and they married her off to the first guy who came to their head. It helped too that Dhawal was head over heels in love with Kinjal.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

I think even dhawal questioned the rishta, I remember urmilla had to coax him into it otherwise he had no interest in marrying kinjal in her situation, the love for her came later.

Dhawal was infactuated with Kinjal from the moment he met her. He was diffident because of his status but then Ahem and Kokila went to him and told him they had no problem I think😕..
Kinjal was dead against it.. I remember that Ahem and Kokila gave her no other way out!