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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have never said when others do it is sin and when rashi does it's nothing.I have just pointed out others mistake.When everyone can make a mistake and canbe forgiven why not Rashi.
Yes she married Jigar for a good lifeand the entire family knew about that during navaratri time .Jigar and family accepted her back then why do they need to bring that again and again When they decided forgive and move on why crib about that now.She has been a good wife and a good mother if not good DIL like Gopi.She might not be an ideal one but she is caring towards Jigar and kids.
Kokila has always been partial towards her and being selfish Kokila recognises Gopi's effort and never truly appreciated Rashi's efforts .This created insecurities in her and she tried to create rift between Hetal and Kokila to save herself from Kokil's taunts Rashi used divide and rule policy.Only in serials going to a parlour is a mistake,going out with your husband or spending time with him in the room is considered a mistake,talking to your mom daily is a sin.Kokila can be very unreasonable and unlike Gopi rashi couldnt accept Kokila's hitler rule and found a way to put an end .She is wrong and I completly agree but one cannot ignore the reason which forced Rashi to take that step. These kind of family politics happen in all the family .
According to me Rashi behaviour towards Gopi in some situations are totally not acceptable because Gopi has always supported her but I guess by saving Meera twice,supporting her during the bad time she has made up for all her mistakes concerned to Gopi.
Regarding Radha I think there is no big difference between her and Rashi's approach.She has no right to hurt Jigar and his family for Rashi's mistakes.She could have spoken to her mom or Gopi instead of plotting aganist jigar and rashi.I dont feel sorry for her .Just like Rashi she also deservers a chance and can be forgiven but one cannot ignore her mistakes .
I agree Rashi has done some mistakes but in my long post I just wanted to convey that she has helped family and Gopi at times and that needs to be recognised ,one cannot forget that .If others can be forgiven for being mean and selfish at some point of time then Rashi also deserves a chance.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

I was very much in the same forum as you .I dont like personal comments.P
I dont support physical abuse no matter what .Whatever Rashi did was different but that doesnt justify someone getting physical.
I guess along with Rashi's misdeeds people have forgotten the good one she did.She has saved Meera from the getting killed.She has saved baby meera from being kidnapped by the servant and she has supported Gopi during the police fiscaso.She has helped Gopi during Anita's time.She has saved the family from being robbed by the carprenters.
She has always loved her children and no one can deny that .Jigar is wrong to accuse her in this matter.Along with rashoi there are other people who have been selfish and mean .
In the beginning Kokila was mean to Hetal and Jigar.Ahem was selfish and mean to both Anita and Gopi.Kinjal was mean to Dhawal .Now Madhu is mean to Kinjal .

Rashi also tried to kill koki with the cooker... have you forgotten... Rashi has never been really punished ... I hope she get punished for all her bad deeds ... In the beginning she was just horrible to Gopi... if she did not inter fear ahem would have accepted gopi ... but rashi hate the fact that gopi was Married to the older modi.
What goes around comes around...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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have we all forgotten how this got started ...rashi told radha that ahem had a twin brother ... Rashi deserves everything she is getting ... I wish urmil will also get caught... that will be the cherry on top.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rashi and her mom are the most disgusting people in this show. Both of them deserve bad in their life. She doesn't love Meera at all. Meera is a baby and sbe just thinks she's cute. Plus didn't anyone see how she treated a 1 year old when the kid said Rashi taught her Sheila ki Jawani dance?? That was bery stupid! A 20+ year old girl showing her nakre to a 1 year old!! As if Rashi was expecting Meera to pacify her! Right now Rashi can be all "Hamaari Meera pyaari bachi" and all, but give it a few years, she will be like "gavaar ki beti, junior gavaar" to Meera.
The only reason she helped Gopi with Anita was because she didn't want Anita to become bahu of Modi and rule over her. She wanted Gopi to stay bahu so she can rule over her. It was he selfish motives.

honestly everything Rashi does 100% has a selfish motive.
Whether its for money, status, laziness, or shabaashi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SailorMoonStar

Rashi and her mom are the most disgusting people in this show. Both of them deserve bad in their life. She doesn't love Meera at all. Meera is a baby and sbe just thinks she's cute. Plus didn't anyone see how she treated a 1 year old when the kid said Rashi taught her Sheila ki Jawani dance?? That was bery stupid! A 20+ year old girl showing her nakre to a 1 year old!! As if Rashi was expecting Meera to pacify her! Right now Rashi can be all "Hamaari Meera pyaari bachi" and all, but give it a few years, she will be like "gavaar ki beti, junior gavaar" to Meera.

The only reason she helped Gopi with Anita was because she didn't want Anita to become bahu of Modi and rule over her. She wanted Gopi to stay bahu so she can rule over her. It was he selfish motives.

honestly everything Rashi does 100% has a selfish motive.
Whether its for money, status, laziness, or shabaashi.

totally agree with what you said... When Rashi does anything good she does it for selfish reason not matter what it is ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

I have never said when others do it is sin and when rashi does it's nothing.I have just pointed out others mistake.When everyone can make a mistake and canbe forgiven why not Rashi.

Yes she married Jigar for a good lifeand the entire family knew about that during navaratri time .Jigar and family accepted her back then why do they need to bring that again and again When they decided forgive and move on why crib about that now.She has been a good wife and a good mother if not good DIL like Gopi.She might not be an ideal one but she is caring towards Jigar and kids.
Kokila has always been partial towards her and being selfish Kokila recognises Gopi's effort and never truly appreciated Rashi's efforts .This created insecurities in her and she tried to create rift between Hetal and Kokila to save herself from Kokil's taunts Rashi used divide and rule policy.Only in serials going to a parlour is a mistake,going out with your husband or spending time with him in the room is considered a mistake,talking to your mom daily is a sin.Kokila can be very unreasonable and unlike Gopi rashi couldnt accept Kokila's hitler rule and found a way to put an end .She is wrong and I completly agree but one cannot ignore the reason which forced Rashi to take that step. These kind of family politics happen in all the family .
According to me Rashi behaviour towards Gopi in some situations are totally not acceptable because Gopi has always supported her but I guess by saving Meera twice,supporting her during the bad time she has made up for all her mistakes concerned to Gopi.
Regarding Radha I think there is no big difference between her and Rashi's approach.She has no right to hurt Jigar and his family for Rashi's mistakes.She could have spoken to her mom or Gopi instead of plotting aganist jigar and rashi.I dont feel sorry for her .Just like Rashi she also deservers a chance and can be forgiven but one cannot ignore her mistakes .
I agree Rashi has done some mistakes but in my long post I just wanted to convey that she has helped family and Gopi at times and that needs to be recognised ,one cannot forget that .If others can be forgiven for being mean and selfish at some point of time then Rashi also deserves a chance.

My replies:
@ blue No one in SNS have made mistakes as much as Rashi made at least not that grave ones... She do things just to have sadistic pleasure... She said she dnt had enough fun even after seeing Gopi cry!!!

@red they bought her back coz she did that kidnapping KK and Gopi requested them... Jigar truly loved Rashi so decided to give her chance...

@green Rashi good mother and wife... when was that???? she was never a good wife it was Jigar who always tried to save this relationship not Rashi... all she did was criticise and Mock at Jigar never ever supported him... Mother she wanted to be mother on 1st place to enjoy benefits... for fame dnt she say she is unmarried and kids are not hers???!!!

@bold i agree Koki is dominating but she is like that with everyone... even after Gopi being Mahaan ideal DIL still she is scolded... Rashi she is lazy and cunning too... she created rift btwn Koki and Hetal coz she can easily cheat Hetal but not Koki... she want to be Mahrani with Koki around it is not possible

@ She used Meera for her benefits... during her pregnancy KK time didnt she use Meera to emotionally black mail others like sharing her worries to Meera... that was sheer acting nuthn else... She loves Meera remember how she made sure Gopi was not near Meera when she wanted her the most... how she differenciated btwn Meera and Tolu Molu??? If Gopi ever had bad time it was all created by Rashi... finally when she have no other go Rashi helps

@ Radha did try to tell Gopi it was Gopi who dnt listen,... Radha did it coz she saw how blinded Gopi was in her love to Rashi ben whereas Rashi was exploiting Gopi's and Modi's good nature

@ No other character in SNS was as selfish as Urshi... Kinjal she was born as princess... her relation broke coz Ahem married Gopi so she hv right to be angry,.,. even though i dnt agree wat she did to Gopi... but she paid for what she did... plus she accepted and started loving her husband not Like Rashi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Leki

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@ blue No one in SNS have made mistakes as much as Rashi made at least not that grave ones... She do things just to have sadistic pleasure... She said she dnt had enough fun even after seeing Gopi cry!!!

@red they bought her back coz she did that kidnapping KK and Gopi requested them... Jigar truly loved Rashi so decided to give her chance...

@green Rashi good mother and wife... when was that???? she was never a good wife it was Jigar who always tried to save this relationship not Rashi... all she did was criticise and Mock at Jigar never ever supported him... Mother she wanted to be mother on 1st place to enjoy benefits... for fame dnt she say she is unmarried and kids are not hers???!!!

@bold i agree Koki is dominating but she is like that with everyone... even after Gopi being Mahaan ideal DIL still she is scolded... Rashi she is lazy and cunning too... she created rift btwn Koki and Hetal coz she can easily cheat Hetal but not Koki... she want to be Mahrani with Koki around it is not possible

@ She used Meera for her benefits... during her pregnancy KK time didnt she use Meera to emotionally black mail others like sharing her worries to Meera... that was sheer acting nuthn else... She loves Meera remember how she made sure Gopi was not near Meera when she wanted her the most... how she differenciated btwn Meera and Tolu Molu??? If Gopi ever had bad time it was all created by Rashi... finally when she have no other go Rashi helps

@ Radha did try to tell Gopi it was Gopi who dnt listen,... Radha did it coz she saw how blinded Gopi was in her love to Rashi ben whereas Rashi was exploiting Gopi's and Modi's good nature

@ No other character in SNS was as selfish as Urshi... Kinjal she was born as princess... her relation broke coz Ahem married Gopi so she hv right to be angry,.,. even though i dnt agree wat she did to Gopi... but she paid for what she did... plus she accepted and started loving her husband not Like Rashi



i agree with every single word you said!! and very well said 👏👏

Rashi was never a good wife she NEVER NEVER LOVED JIGAR!!! whereas Jigar loved her with all his heart and soul and forgave all her mistakes but she never valued him and Tolu-molu she wanted those kids only bcaz she was jealous of all the attention,love and gifts gopi was getting!!

kokilaa had been biased YES! but she also scolded Gopi when Gopi did sth wrong but Rashi she never changed!! Yes kokila is annoying and honestly i hate her but Rashi she is no les even after staying in that family for so long she could never love them arei leave the family even after leaving with such a loving guy she could never accept him!!! Yes jigar did forgave her for the marriage fiasco but did she change?? no she didn't that's why he dragged he same crib again!!
i am not saying that all of these is rashi's fault no it's not !!! Radha is at fault but she wouldn't have started it if Rashi didn't do tat stupid joke on her!!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, I think that these things happen in the families where too many women stay in the house and they don't have professional careers - so they have to fight for power within the house. This is a partriarchal house in which MEN rule - only men can go out for the whole day (officially to earn money) but in reality nobody check them or monitors them 24/7, so they have freedom. But the women, especially the daughters-in-law must stay whole day at home and because they get bored they start these fights and schemes and plotting. Rashi is just a rebel against the Hitler-style Kokila rule and it's hard to blame her for her behaviour. She just wants to breath, just a little bit of freedom for herself. But no, she cant do anything without the approval of all-the-mighty Kokila.

Physical abuse, especially against women, is always unacceptable and I don't understand why we can see it so often in almost every serial. Is it so widespread and normal in all Indian households that showing it on the screen is seen as normal too? In another country a woman would file a case against her husband in court and won for such treatment. But I guess that India is 100 years behind...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Leki

My replies:
@ blue No one in SNS have made mistakes as much as Rashi made at least not that grave ones... She do things just to have sadistic pleasure... She said she dnt had enough fun even after seeing Gopi cry!!!

@red they bought her back coz she did that kidnapping KK and Gopi requested them... Jigar truly loved Rashi so decided to give her chance...

@green Rashi good mother and wife... when was that???? she was never a good wife it was Jigar who always tried to save this relationship not Rashi... all she did was criticise and Mock at Jigar never ever supported him... Mother she wanted to be mother on 1st place to enjoy benefits... for fame dnt she say she is unmarried and kids are not hers???!!!

@bold i agree Koki is dominating but she is like that with everyone... even after Gopi being Mahaan ideal DIL still she is scolded... Rashi she is lazy and cunning too... she created rift btwn Koki and Hetal coz she can easily cheat Hetal but not Koki... she want to be Mahrani with Koki around it is not possible

@ She used Meera for her benefits... during her pregnancy KK time didnt she use Meera to emotionally black mail others like sharing her worries to Meera... that was sheer acting nuthn else... She loves Meera remember how she made sure Gopi was not near Meera when she wanted her the most... how she differenciated btwn Meera and Tolu Molu??? If Gopi ever had bad time it was all created by Rashi... finally when she have no other go Rashi helps

@ Radha did try to tell Gopi it was Gopi who dnt listen,... Radha did it coz she saw how blinded Gopi was in her love to Rashi ben whereas Rashi was exploiting Gopi's and Modi's good nature

@ No other character in SNS was as selfish as Urshi... Kinjal she was born as princess... her relation broke coz Ahem married Gopi so she hv right to be angry,.,. even though i dnt agree wat she did to Gopi... but she paid for what she did... plus she accepted and started loving her husband not Like Rashi


omg 👏.Thank You! I wabted to write something like that but was too lazy too 😆. Agree with every single word. Rashi and Urmilla are disgusting characters.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have already conveyed my opnion in the last two post and I will stick by that .
In my opnion,Rashi never used Meera .She has always been loving towards her .She even went againist her mom for Meera which shows her genuine love for Meera .Every mother is protective of her kid and Rashi was concerned as Meera is a small kid and unknowngily Meera might harm Tolu and Molu .Regarding teaching dance I am surprised the way people think here.She didnt teach Meera how to steal or anything .It was just a small dance.Meera is too small to understand the lyrics for Meera it is just a song and moreover dancing to Bollywood songs is not a crime .If that was the case then all the school,colleges should be banned for allowing children to dance on these songs in their cultural program.
Radha could have spoken to her mom or Kokila they would have listened to her .Radha tried talking to Gopi after doing everything .Radha is Gopi's own sister ,did she even think once what will be the consequences of her actions.What will Gopi has to face in her in laws place bacause of her mistakes.Two wrongs can never make a right and nothing can justify her actions.
Being lazy is not a crime.Only in serials people expect the bahu to be active 24/7 but in real life everyone gets lazy at times and when they can afford they prefer having maids .Sometimes I feel lazy to cook and clean and I have never seen my MIL shouting like Kokila .Somtimes I have burnt some dishes and I have never seen my in laws making a big issue out of that .When people starts reacting adversly for such small things it will force other people to lie to protect themselves or some people might play mind games to comeout of the situation.If Radha is right in plotting aganist Rashi and hurting Jigar who is innocent then Rashi's actions are also justified.Why this double standards.😳
I have never seen Rashi playing dirty games with Jigar or kids except while marrying him and he was aware of that and was ready to give her a second chance.I definately feel Rashi has improved and she is not the same as she never did any KK this time to convince Jigar.
I completly agree with you when you say Rashi was hurting Gopi for her pleasures but as I mentioned before she has made up for all her mistakes by helping and supporting Gopi in her bad times.
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