Being pulled from all sides..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gopi's current state is just that.. She is being pulled by all sides and she is searching for the right direction. Hopefully the road she chooses will lead her to her true family where Ahem, Meera and Koki will embrace her new honesty and trust.😊


Poor Gopi though.. It is really tough for her and she is taking it all in like she usually does, silent and worried. To be fair to Gopi, she did listen to Koki and did not think about Urmi's suicide note after Koki told her about it. Unfortunately for her, Urmi always gets lucky and she planned to sidetrack Rashi near the Shiv Mandir.. Gopi had no idea of Urmi being there nor did she go against Koki's words.

But trust once lost is very difficult to gain.😭 Gopi is finding it albeit the hard way. To people like Rashi, trust means nothing except when they want others to take their words without inquiring deeper. But to people like Gopi, trust is everything and to Gopi, her Maaji's anger is difficult to take. Poor kid but I think she is slowly learning and opening her eyes to the realities of her situation with Urmi and Rashi.

It is hard for her though. Urmi is very cunning and devices new plans.. Rashi again is only herself. She prays for only herself, she shouts at her mother for doing drama and then accuses Gopi of keeping her mother's message to herself and tells her that she would never forgive her if Urmi had died🤢 Typical Rashi.. She cut her calls to Urmi.. She stood there shouting at Urmi while Gopi almost died saving her mother and then Rashi has the galls to accuse Gopi of being silent about the message.

Rashi is tempting Gopi to the other side by her emotional drama. She wants Gopi like this, forever suspended between her Maayka and her sasural. While on one hand Gopi gets taunted by Koki for believing in Urmi, yet again (when she actually did not), Rashi is pulling Gopi on the other side by making her guilty about not heeding Urmi's drama inspite of knowing her mother..

This is the most trying part of Gopi's life. The clutches of the past are still strong but so is Gopi's love for Koki and her need to make her relationship work with Koki.. How more will Gopi face before she realizes that Koki is right and that Urmi and Rashi are too selfish to care for her or her family😕


The one part I liked was Mota Bhabhi's try to broker peace. As much as Koki's taunts are needed, the talk about Thepla was really sad atleast for me.. Gopi has made a mistake and this is the way she will have to learn about the consequences but it is sad to see her tearful as Koki talked about Meera's mother and her involvement with her Maayka forgetting her daughters ear piercing (I thought this happened after a year? Are Gujjus different? They celebrate it on the 4th month?)

But Mota Bhabhi atleast noticed Gopi's distress and tried her best.. Rashi is in her own world. Her life, her twins, her mother of course and Gopi is just furniture in all this, use and throw..

Tomorrow it will be little Meera's ear piercing ceremony but before that Rashi as usual is going to the jewellers for her free 50,000 Rs gift😉 (the Urmi plan😆).. Now the question will not be if Rashi will get into trouble.. It is as to whether Gopi will get into trouble because of Rashi for surely there will be drama..


Will Rashi again make Gopi's life more difficult than it already is? Koki will surely blame Gopi if Rashi is late due to her mother. She will not believe that Gopi does not know about Rashi going somewhere for trust once lost is hard to gain..😭

So will Gopi be able to realize where she is going wrong and make sure to stay off Urmi and Rashi's business? I certainly hope so😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rashi will be quick to get one over Gopi. After all she and her mother have wanted the status of top dog in MM since the start. Gopi is just an inconvenience in their way except when they want something doing. Doesn't Rashi realise that if Gopi had not pulled Urmila away then she would have lost her mother?
At this stage, as I put it in Anansuya's thread, Gopi is between a rock and a hard place. I suggest that she takes a crash course in rock climbing if she is going to re connect with the family that she deserves.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Rashi will be quick to get one over Gopi. After all she and her mother have wanted the status of top dog in MM since the start. Gopi is just an inconvenience in their way except when they want something doing. Doesn't Rashi realise that if Gopi had not pulled Urmila away then she would have lost her mother?

At this stage, as I put it in Anansuya's thread, Gopi is between a rock and a hard place. I suggest that she takes a crash course in rock climbing if she is going to re connect with the family that she deserves.



Xari, it is such a sad thing.. In their bickering and fighting neither Urmi nor Rashi even thanked Gopi for saving Urmi's life. They are so selfish that they just forgot that both their lives are indebted to this girl One cannot be called selfish when that happens.. One is truly completely blind..
And even later, when Rashi stood there accusing Gopi, she made it sound like Gopi saving Urmi was for her own good rather than even once thank her for doing that.. How horrible. 😕 No wonder Gopi cannot see the wheat from the chaff.. She is blinded by these false show of anger and drama and just cannot see the truth threw this haze. Koki is trying hard though. I loved her dialogue about the need to see the right from the wrong (The CVs certainly visit this forum😉😆)


Gopi is still finding it hard Xari.. She cannot understand all this completely is my take. She needs her Kanhaji now.. I wonder if she will actually talk to Ahem about what happened and ask him to explain what she should do further. I hope she does. she needs a friend very badly to show her the right direction. She has none in the women side, atleast none her age who she can talk her dilemma to.. Koki is angry and will be angry until Gopi actually takes the right stand.. Mota Bhabi is very like Gopi.. she does not understand.. Baa is old and she is of late a little worse for her age.. That leaves Ahem who can be her Saathiya if only Gopi will give him a chance😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sorry Harini...I am not feeling sorry for Gopi at all 😆...no no hold on to those sandals please! (runs and hides myself!)...well honestly I did a huge face palm when she said that heart felt prayer to Bholenath that she did it all for her maaji's own good 😕😕😕...now I have thought the whole track beginning from Urmi preparing the chit right to the mega disclosure on Holi and I am unable to understand what did Koki gain out of whatever Gopi did! 😕😕😕...and she is not even thinking about Ahem...so I guess the CVs wont either 😡...yes today Gopi did not intend to meet Urmi, and even Koki knows that. Yet she taunted her. She is trying to explain to her continuously that her goodness is wasted on Urshi. Even Urmi accepted that she just gave a threat to make Rashi talk to her. Now if that too does not open Gopi's eyes, really I dont know what will. I am glad she is being pulled from everywhere. She has taken it all upon herself, earlier due to her naivete and really she had no means to face them. But now she is not naive, she was never a fool and now she is not weak either, yet she refused to trust anybody with the truth. And really it's not the first time that it has happened. So now she has got what she wanted. Koki has deliberately backed off and Ahem too cannot help her if she does not trust him enough. From here, Gopi has to help herself. She has to just start and Kohem will stand by her. She needs to understand the difference between Meera and Urshi. Meera is a toddler who needs her support for everything, not Urshi 🤢. I hope CVs bring that change in her...it's high time or Koki will die an early death with all this stress! 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Urmila's drama is stirring unnecessary worry for Gopi, who is unable to see the woods from the trees.

Kokila has taunted with wise words of understanding right from wrong. This message hit home to Rashi loudly and clearly though I am unconvinced that this has made sense to Gopi.

Rashi blaming Gopi is very unwarranted as Rashi knows that she has been avoiding her mother's calls. This is Rashi's discrete way of winding Gopi up further following Kokila's hurtful words. Whilst Gopi bore the blame. She is simply struggling to reason with conviction.

Kokila's final taunt at the dinner table is yet another reality check for Gopi to think and act wisely.

Gopi does not have the capacity to turnaround in one go or will it be a jolt from the blue that stop her spiralling with being tugged in all directions.

All-in-all, hope this track is not drawn out and laboured.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipsy80

sorry Harini...I am not feeling sorry for Gopi at all 😆...no no hold on to those sandals please! (runs and hides myself!)...well honestly I did a huge face palm when she said that heart felt prayer to Bholenath that she did it all for her maaji's own good 😕😕😕...now I have thought the whole track beginning from Urmi preparing the chit right to the mega disclosure on Holi and I am unable to understand what did Koki gain out of whatever Gopi did! 😕😕😕...and she is not even thinking about Ahem...so I guess the CVs wont either 😡...yes today Gopi did not intend to meet Urmi, and even Koki knows that. Yet she taunted her. She is trying to explain to her continuously that her goodness is wasted on Urshi. Even Urmi accepted that she just gave a threat to make Rashi talk to her. Now if that too does not open Gopi's eyes, really I dont know what will. I am glad she is being pulled from everywhere. She has taken it all upon herself, earlier due to her naivete and really she had no means to face them. But now she is not naive, she was never a fool and now she is not weak either, yet she refused to trust anybody with the truth. And really it's not the first time that it has happened. So now she has got what she wanted. Koki has deliberately backed off and Ahem too cannot help her if she does not trust him enough. From here, Gopi has to help herself. She has to just start and Kohem will stand by her. She needs to understand the difference between Meera and Urshi. Meera is a toddler who needs her support for everything, not Urshi 🤢. I hope CVs bring that change in her...it's high time or Koki will die an early death with all this stress! 😭



Dipsy, I am actually smiling as I see Gopi's distress because this is her learning curve. Once she gets out of these dilemmas which is very needed, then she will become a wiser person, something that Koki wants.

You see, the path is long and hard but the fruit will be good. Koki's taunts are hurting Gopi but it is also making her think a bit. Sometimes she is confused like when today but she also sees the reason behind her Maaji's anger.

Her temple prayer was for accepting Urmi's plan to bring Koki out😆 It was not about anything else is my understanding. Gopi's point to Bholenath is "I did not mean to hurt my Maaji and I cannot bear to see her angry with me"

The point is, she is very slow in seeing what Koki sees. She is what we call stupid and what the CVs prefer to call naive.😉

Now Gopi has seen three instances of Urmi's dishonesty.

1. At the hospital
2. Urmi stopping her time and again
3. Suicide drama.

Today even when Rashi accused her, Gopi told Rashi that she believed in Koki's words. She was hurt by Rashi but did not cry copiously because she knows that her Maaji was right about her Maami and Urmi was just doing some drama..

Now the learning has just started.. So just hold on. .There will be more difficulties to cross.. I just wish that the CVs will give a proper ending to this track instead of just a GoKi reconciliation. I want to see a strong Gopi who is not naive anymore.. A Gopi who will fight for her Maaji, Ahemji and Meera against UrShi .. GoKi reconciliation can take the second priority.

But one thing I am sure.. Rashi will reconcile with her mummy earlier than Gopi can reconcile with Koki..😊 I want Gopi to open her eyes to Rashi too and not just Urmi. Hopefully tomorrow will be another lesson for Gopi to learn😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Urmila's drama is stirring unnecessary worry for Gopi, who is unable to see the woods from the trees.


Kokila has taunted with wise words of understanding right from wrong. This message hit home to Rashi loudly and clearly though I am unconvinced that this has made sense to Gopi.

Rashi blaming Gopi is very unwarranted as Rashi knows that she has been avoiding her mother's calls. This is Rashi's discrete way of winding Gopi up further following Kokila's hurtful words. Whilst Gopi bore the blame. She is simply struggling to reason with conviction.

Kokila's final taunt at the dinner table is yet another reality check for Gopi to think and act wisely.

Gopi does not have the capacity to turnaround in one go or will it be a jolt from the blue that stop her spiralling with being tugged in all directions.

All-in-all, hope this track is not drawn out and laboured.



Well said Swasthi⭐️

I hope Gopi finally finds the answers that Koki wants her to find. It is good that Gopi is left alone. She has to deal with this truth now.. Meera needs a strong mother and Gopi needs to open her eyes and see the truth of UrShi herself. I hope she does.. But will this track extend on and on.. Atleast 2 weeks is my guess. Maybe more🥱

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