DOTW-23'Feb-2'Mar-Fickle Minded Vs Bad-DT NOTE-Pg2 - Page 2

Madhu, In my experience, a fickle minded person goes with the flow of the wind. For example if say someone says "Black is the new fashion", a fickle minded person will agree but the minute the public opinion changes even slightly to say "Red is the latest", they will agree for that too

The question is, how much can you influence their decision and if you do, how long will the influence last. For example, Rashi has now and then tried not to listen to her mom but Urmi's influence on her is true and proper.
I think it is difficult to completely depend on the fickle minded. They will change their tune anytime they want😊

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Madhu, In my experience, a fickle minded person goes with the flow of the wind. For example if say someone says "Black is the new fashion", a fickle minded person will agree but the minute the public opinion changes even slightly to say "Red is the latest", they will agree for that too

The question is, how much can you influence their decision and if you do, how long will the influence last. For example, Rashi has now and then tried not to listen to her mom but Urmi's influence on her is true and proper.
I think it is difficult to completely depend on the fickle minded. They will change their tune anytime they want😊

Nice topic Madhu... Will come back later...😊..

Absolutely Madhu. With a bad person, if they say, no, it is no. So you always know where you stand with them. They hate you, you know they do. But with someone who is fickle, you will be tossed back and forth.

So the question is, do you like 100% certainty even if it s something bad or are you ready for a back and forth where you never know what you get😊

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Absolutely Madhu. With a bad person, if they say, no, it is no. So you always know where you stand with them. They hate you, you know they do. But with someone who is fickle, you will be tossed back and forth.

So the question is, do you like 100% certainty even if it s something bad or are you ready for a back and forth where you never know what you get😊

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Absolutely Madhu. With a bad person, if they say, no, it is no. So you always know where you stand with them. They hate you, you know they do. But with someone who is fickle, you will be tossed back and forth.

So the question is, do you like 100% certainty even if it s something bad or are you ready for a back and forth where you never know what you get😊

100% certainty is always best. You know where you stand and what you expect from other people. A fickle mind can never be a true and reliable.

100% certainty it is for me too but as Swasthi rightfully pointed out it depends on individuals.

See how UrShi took a 50-50 chance on Jigar being a nice guy. They did hit jackpot you know. Jigar could have turned out to be a very bad person. But Rashi got lucky. There are some advantages of not being sure.

But I will take 100% over the grey shades anytime. See how knowing that Ahem hated her, made it easy for Gopi to work towards making him love her. If he had played god cop at times and then bad cop, Gopi would have found it impossible to know what he really wanted and hence their relationship would not have been where it is now.😊😊

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

100% certainty it is for me too but as Swasthi rightfully pointed out it depends on individuals.

See how UrShi took a 50-50 chance on Jigar being a nice guy. They did hit jackpot you know. Jigar could have turned out to be a very bad person. But Rashi got lucky. There are some advantages of not being sure.

But I will take 100% over the grey shades anytime. See how knowing that Ahem hated her, made it easy for Gopi to work towards making him love her. If he had played god cop at times and then bad cop, Gopi would have found it impossible to know what he really wanted and hence their relationship would not have been where it is now.😊😊

This is a fab answer harini! So that gives the snswer its better to deal with a bad person! And the previous question was interesting and like swasthi pointed out that depends on individuals. Ive seen few people comfortable with fickle minded people only! Coz yoi know sometimes they may agree with you rather than contradicting you every now and then

😆 Thanks Madhu.. But I am going to play devil's advocate here😉

See with someone who is set in their ways (lets forget for a moment that they are bad or good), it is always going to be a sure NO or Yes from them, right?

Imagine this. The younger Modis want to go to a movie theatre for some fun. Remember how Koki was completely against the idea. She had to be overridden by the entire set of elders and she agreed only when Baa blackmailed her. But what if it was only Koki there without the other elders? Do you think Kokila would have ever agreed? No.
Koki is never fickle. She decides on something and that is final in her mind. Now with such a person, you can always hope for 100% certainty but you also know that if they decide against what you want, you 100% will not get it😊

Now take Mota Bhabhi.. All you need to do is convince her (which is not all that difficult). Given the right arguments, she will agree. So again you have a greater than 50% chance to get what you want. This is how UrShi play the Modis.

But the point is, yes, it is easier to deal with a fickle minded person when you have the right influence and arguments. So now what will you choose?

A 100% rejection or a window for acceptance?😉

You are right Harini. Mota bhabi is the most fickle of them all. How dangerous was it when Rashi started to drip poison into her ears about the treatment of the younger Modis. What had flowed along relatively smoothly was stirred up by not just Rashi but Hetal's inability to see reason. Beware a fickle minded person as they can easily become snakes in the grass.