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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipsy80

thanks for sharing your personal experience with us Harini and I am glad you had someone as selfless as that child's mother to console you who realized your fear and guilt 😊..

you are absolutely right about Rashi...i hated her refusal to adopt a stray because she wanted a beautiful puppy. Again she wanted to take care of Meera not because out of love or affection, but just to escape her household chores 🤢...she really has a long way to go before she is ready to be a mother but for the first time I just wanted Nani to disappear...her weird and whacky ideas of "testing" Rashi's motherhood went right over my head!!! 😲🤢..and I was disappointed that besides Kohem nobody thought it was a bad idea!Ahem was genuinely concerned about Meera's health but Koki I think along with Meera's health was a little more concerned about her fear of dogs 😆..it never fails to amaze me how the other men in MM (except Ahem) just act as another piece of furniture in such scenes! 🤢
Jigar confused me with his behaviour😕...if he was furious initially and showed so much concern for Meera he did not have anything to say when Kohem voiced their concerns about Meera catching an infection due to a dog's presence.He was back to giving soppy smiles as Rashi cuddled champu 😕😕.
You are right about Gopi too...actually I am a little disappointed with the way the CVs have shown her as a mother so far. Yes she loves Meera but the moment she cries, Gopi wants to hand her over to Rashi 😕..i think when she was gobbling her food she was more concerned about Rashi not getting to eat than going back to Meera.😕
What i liked about yesterday's episode was that brief moment when I thought Rashi actually cares about Meera. She ran to her as soon as she heard her cry leaving Urmi alone in the kitchen. I also liked Gohem and Hetal appreciating Rashi's help in caring for Meera. But other than that I am not liking this "taking Rashi's test"...as Koki rightly pointed out..what is the relation between being a mother and taking a dog?


I will be forever grateful to her Dipsy. It was a different time though. A time when neighbors were more part of the family than otherwise, a time when people had the patience to talk and understand each other😊

I think Jigar is now not ready to take Rashi's childishness all the time. Like Swasthi said, maybe he is at the end of the tether waiting to burst into flames🤔 That seems to be his mood and the immediate lover boy who looks on happily after having so much issue with Rashi. .Well both Rashi and Jigar looked very immature. More like kids who fight and then make up without any need for reason.

As for Gopi, surprisingly I felt they finally showed Gopi and Meera properly yesterday except for the last scene. Gopi was shown more with her daughter. I think the below made a big impression

1. Gopi insisted she will make sure Meera stops crying herself and asked Rashi to take care of her mother. I think Gopi is doing her job but Rashi in her need to escape duties and yesterday, to escape her mom's sob story is using Meera unfortunately.😕 One thing I want Gopi to do is politely tell Rashi that she can handle the crying Meera and that she will call Rashi if things go out of hand.

2. Her gobbling food. The look that Ahem gave when Koki told her slow down and that Meera was for now sleeping with Rashi was perfect. It was a look of the husband who understood Gopi's state of mind, someone who has seen her forsake her comforts for the child. That tells me that Ahem has seen Gopi do this before.

3. Gopi holding Meera as the other's danced. It took Mota Bhabhi and Koki to convince her to dance.

I agree with the fact that Gopi needs to stand up to UrShi and that scene of Meera play was horrible. However I have a feeling that the Rashi+Meera thing was shown specifically for Champ to come to MM. We will not see Rashi with Meera atleast until Champ is sent out. It was to serve a purpose😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

That was quite an experience to go through Harini but you have been very lucky that the baby did not have any major injury. This and the fact that you had shown your hurt over your actions.


So was it a costly mistake that Rashi received the worst ever scolding from Jigar? If you look at that moment in isolation the answer is no. Things like this happens. If she had accepted her wrong doing then it could have been different. What Jigar looked at was the collective behaviour of Rashi to state his points across that made her receive a punishment from nani.


I was lucky and I was fortunate to put that behind me😊 More fortunate that nothing happened..

I agree with you Swasthi. I do think that though Rashi was frightened, she did not completely understand the danger she had put Meera in at that moment. Jigar's anger comes from seeing Rashi do similar errors all throughout. He has seen her being careless when Gopi was in the wheelchair in the park putting Gopi in danger.. I guess he was justified in anger. Words were harsh but as I said, maybe there is some truth in them. Rashi is not ready to be a parent.

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