why do u hate anitha so much when you like

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Posted: 13 years ago
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when you like rashi so much, Guy I am making it very clear this is not rashi's bashing post, just i am bored and going through some of the old posts, just a thought went across my mind, and very curious to know.. why do we hate anitha so much when you liked rashi??

Rashi at Past:

* Treated Gopi like a sevent
* She hated Gopi for no reason.
* She tried to harm physically to Hetal and koki (Remember Fire accident & Pressure cooker)
* She tried to break Gopi - Ahem marriage before it happens, but when she comes to know about Jiger, she used Gopi, to trap Jiger.
* She married to Jiger just for money
* She is very bad at cooking
* She never wanted work at home (MM), always hates koki just because she is insisting her to do house-hold work
* Then many more kalakaries, she played with GoKi and Gohem relation, even whole family doubted gopi
* She hurt her physically, never wanted Gopi to be educated
* She doesn't want gopi settle her life freely , enjoy the luxuries, or trips
* never cared for family
* She divided thirty years of relation (Koki - hetal)
* She split the family

Rashi at present:

* Is She helping Gopi whole heartedly? No, to impress koki and to escape from anitha's marriage problem, thats why she is more interested. But i can also say just because, Rashi can not lead peaceful life, she needs an excited life, she always jumps into any problem, so may be that is the reason that she is helping Gopi,

* or deep down at heart, she had a feeling that Gopi is her sister that's y, i doubt it


Now Anitha:

* Initially( after re-entry) anitha is portrayed like she is simple and good girl, but no later she turns as, lazy girl and very bad
* She never scolded or shouted at gopi directly, but doesn't like rashi, here one thing to say she likes gopi alot, just she deosn't like the fact that she is ahem's wife
* She is hurting Gopi just to re-enter in ahem's life.
* at least she is psycho or she has mood swings, or she doesn't hear completly, or she hears only what she wants.. that too just for ahem
* So all the things she is doing to get ahem otherwise she is ok
* She knows cooking ( thought not traditional food, Jiger liked it ;))

Rashi Vs Anitha

Anitha is at-least doing it on a purpose to get ahem, other wise she is quite good.

But what is rashi? for what she had done above listed things in past? does she get a single pie by sending Gopi out of MM? she never repented truly on her past deeds. why did she hurt people physically, that too to the death, she planned to separate a couple just for no reason, tried to split family just to get her luxuries, to get out of all the work?

But now she is helping Gopi, that too save herself, and to get on good books of koki. but still we are liking her.

what is the difference b/w Rashi and Anitha? when we are hating anitha so much , how can we like rashi?

( I think she is bubbly, just she is helping Gopi, or she is giving back anitha or hating Urmi. shouldn't forget, she is still listening to Kurmi's words)



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SIP1997 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post and good question.

For me, I have not forgiven Rashi or forgotten her deeds. Even now I think she is causing more harm than good, silent treatment for short term is good, but to stretch it till it breaks is wrong.

This shows how much she really doesn't know about being married or that each person have their own individuality, no one person is made same, so no I still don't like Rashi.

For Anita, just the fact that she is threatening Gohem relationship makes me hate her, but now she is crossing limits to hurt Gopi and Ahem for that matter. She knows Ahem has moved on but she is not excepting this and is now purposely going to hurt both.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Amala. thank you 😊

But i am expecting reply, why do you like rashi, when you are hating anitha so much now? or if you still don't like rashi 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Sandy! 😃 Both cannot be forgiven for their actions at the end of the day...guess its just circumstances that are making one veiw Rashi in a positive light and Anita in a negative sense...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sandy thats great question 😉
For me, like Shilpaben said, I have not forgiven Rashi for her past deeds. But the fact that she is 'trying' to help Gopi with her marriage is what has me liking for now 😛.
As for the witch, I detest her!!! We have all been waiting for sooo long for Gohem to come together and just when we see a ray of hope, the idiot entered and ruined it all! 😡.. We know Ahem loves Gopi and I am sure he was getting there to tell Gopi his feelings but with the witch's presence, its been delayed even longer and now she is determined break Ahem and Gopi's marriage is just a big put off for me..🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I never hated rashi :p and for that ostrich i hate her coz she insulted rashi :p :p :p
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I Do not like what rashi has done and do want her to be punished but I still hope for redemption for her. Even though she did do the deeds herself to some level she is a victim of her mothers greed.

I hate Anita because there is big difference in taking your status or position in family versus taking ones husband away. Today ahem was clear that he is happy with gopi.

Despite what kokila or gopi have done for Anita she does not care for them. So let's see what ahem has done for her. He was concerned for her health at hospital and ever since she came to mm he care for her feelings. He even talks to the doctor routinely, he lied to her so she will get better fast. We all know how much he hates lying. He can see his wife's smile disappearing but he is still supportive of Anita because he feels that she more fragile right now. He had finally gone against his mom to ensure that Anita marries well and is happy.

What did Anita do?
Lied to ahem about when she found out that she is not married.
Lied and is still lying to ahem about finding out tht he was acting as nilesh
She looked at gopis debased when she manipulated ahem into asking the two questions.
She again emotionally blackmailed him while holding his hand and whining about being alone.
She shamelessly clung to ahem in front of his family
Final nail in her coffin despite hearing ahem say that he considers himself lucky to be married to gopi she is creating more misunderstanding between gopi and ahem.
Anita is doing this to someone she loves imagine how cruel she could be who is of no consequence to her like gopi or Koki.

I hate her way more than rashi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Good post and good question.

For me, I have not forgiven Rashi or forgotten her deeds. Even now I think she is causing more harm than good, silent treatment for short term is good, but to stretch it till it breaks is wrong.

This shows how much she really doesn't know about being married or that each person have their own individuality, no one person is made same, so no I still don't like Rashi.

For Anita, just the fact that she is threatening Gohem relationship makes me hate her, but now she is crossing limits to hurt Gopi and Ahem for that matter. She knows Ahem has moved on but she is not excepting this and is now purposely going to hurt both.



Thank you shilpa.. So you still don't like rashi, yes.. instead of helping , with her stupid ideas she is making more distance b/w them

yeah.. this psycho anitha, she wants take place of real wife, and hurt two real lovers, that make us blood to boil..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: doc4ever

Great post Sandy! 😃 Both cannot be forgiven for their actions at the end of the day...guess its just circumstances that are making one veiw Rashi in a positive light and Anita in a negative sense...



thank you kshama, u r absolutely right, they both can't forgiven, one wanted to throw gopi out her life for no reason, and another wants to replace Gopi as ahem's wife..

taking away husband of a girls is most worst thing a girl ever can do, so that makes rashi positive when compared to anitha..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -neela-

Sandy thats great question 😉

For me, like Shilpaben said, I have not forgiven Rashi for her past deeds. But the fact that she is 'trying' to help Gopi with her marriage is what has me liking for now 😛.
As for the witch, I detest her!!! We have all been waiting for sooo long for Gohem to come together and just when we see a ray of hope, the idiot entered and ruined it all! 😡.. We know Ahem loves Gopi and I am sure he was getting there to tell Gopi his feelings but with the witch's presence, its been delayed even longer and now she is determined break Ahem and Gopi's marriage is just a big put off for me..🤢



Thanks Neela!!

So, Rashi' little help to gopi makes you to like her now, but you don't forgive her completly, i think why you are liking rashi is because of rucha and her acting,expressions 😛

And Psycho anitha, can't ... no i stop it here,

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