Let's Be Honest...

I hate Anita from the bottom of my heart, and I am not here to defend her actions. Just wanted to pose a general question.

Imagine you loved a person very much. He / she gets married to someone else. You try to move on in life but fate brings you face to face with your past once again. You realize that you are still not over you ex and he / she is also not happy in his / her marriage. What would you do?

if it was me i would probably walk away, if his marriage is not going well why should i be the one adding fuel to fire if it doesnt work out for him he knows where i am but i will not go after him

Just walk away. Certainly, wouldn't try to break up their marriage. If that person gave me signals that they still loved me, tell them to move on and walk away. I wouldn't respect a person who is married, doesn't want to make it work and runs after his ex. I would say no and move on.

Originally posted by: suk19

if it was me i would probably walk away, if his marriage is not going well why should i be the one adding fuel to fire if it doesnt work out for him he knows where i am but i will not go after him

Well said Suk, it's a very dignified decision

i would never come back to his life.. what ever may be the situation, if at all i come, if his marriage is not on good terms, i would help for their marriage life.. but never want him in my life

i respect wife and husband relation more than lovers :))))

Originally posted by: aris22l

Just walk away. Certainly, wouldn't try to break up their marriage. If that person gave me signals that they still loved me, tell them to move on and walk away. I wouldn't respect a person who is married, doesn't want to make it work and runs after his ex. I would say no and move on.

As I told Suk, moving on and not breaking the marriage is a very dignified decision

Anna, in this case ahem is happy in his married life...anitha is delusional and sees what she wants to see...gopi was the one supporting her from her stay at the hospital...shes made anitha feel welcome and has been her moral support...no matter what anitha thinks she knows...to try and lure a man away from his wife is crossing the line...and for anitha to do it to gopi and ahem is the basest form of betrayal...my personal opinion is no matter what a couple go through in their marriage to utilise it to break up their marriage or for ur own good is a NO NO...

Good question..😛

Originally posted by: Sandy914

i would never come back to his life.. what ever may be the situation, if at all i come, if his marriage is not on good terms, i would help for their marriage life.. but never want him in my life

i respect wife and husband relation more than lovers :))))

Wonderful Sandy, going one step further and actually helping you ex. Sign of a very strong person.

Certainly won't break a marriage weather he/she is happy or unhappy with dat marriage.I won't cause hurt and pain for their partner which they r already going throu. If my love is true I would walk away, and wat assurance do I have that he won't dumb me again for da same reason?