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prevas12

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Posted: 13 years ago

I feel sad to see that Gopi is taken for granted by everyone especially Ahem. After the whole incidence Ahem did not even bother to ask her how she was feeling and to give her any explanation. He has ignored her feelings completely and is showing all his care and concern to Anita. He thinks that come what may Gopi will never go against him as she loves him dearly and she has no choice in her life as she does not have eductaion nor family to depend on ...so she will be stuck with him forever taking all the crap from him...

This kind of wife is not a role model as she gives wrong message to the world. No matter how you husband treats you ...stick on to the marriage ... This is not right and they should do some thing soon in the storyline to make Gopi stand up for her rights and become independent and make her husband and everyone in the house realise her worth...

Keeping quite always and swallowing all the pain does not work...

Gopi is just killing her self respect with this self sacrificing nature...

PS : I also fed up looking at her dumb helpless expressions all the time

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Vinder90

@Vinder90

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Posted: 13 years ago

gud point

but if u think of all the past, this OUT OF ALL is the perfectly right time for Gopi to take some stand

I want her to LEAVE MM and Ahem, yay, make Ahem suffer after that, realise that he has always aken her for granted, And if Ahem remembers Anita and whatever he did to her, he should realise that he has made Gopi suffer million times more. .. and on top of that added salt to her wounds by taking her for granted,

I do not think she will be a possessive wife, if she is, then hmm, no comment, i just dont take it, will be too easy for Ahem

So dont worry, Gopi has bee brilliant so far based on her character, ... she will only get better, (and for that I want her to misunderstand Ahem, by this, misunderstand , I dont mean that think Ahamita caught in bed was real, but misunderstand taht Ahem still loves Anita... then make a move from taht... Gopi will always trust Ahem no matter what, but when it comes to Love, and Anita, Ahem himself, has made Gopi believe that he can not love her... I am sure flashbacks will ring in Gopi's brainz...

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Good point.. But is Gopi really a doormat?

Keeping quiet at times and not going off into an emotional rant when the family is facing a crisis is not being a doormat nor does it mean that people are taking her for granted. What Gopi did today is a mark of a sensible and mature human..

So what do you expect Gopi to do? Collar Ahem and rant off on all she has faced till now? When another girl's marriage just broke. I do not think for one minute Gopi suspected something going on between Ahem and Anitha..

Then with all the drama why would she add on her side and make the situation worse?

Gopi to be is being a sensible person in the lot. She is being strong not just for herself but for her husband and his family. Yes. Her husband is yet to give her an explanation. But she is in no hurry as it does not really matter.She believes him and is there to support him.

As for Ahem being insensitive... When you get caught in a humiliating situation and are the reason for a girl's marriage being cancelled, and now the reason for her fainting, I am not sure if anyone would have waited to see what others including wife and family think.. As for as Ahem is concerned, all this can be dealt later too. The thing of importance is to make sure that this third person's situation does not worsen.

As for offering an explanation to his wife, a hospital may not be always the best spot. He will.. I am sure in the coming episodes.. But today.. Today he needs to be pitied.. 😊 Taking her for granted.. I will leave the judgement out there till this track is moving a bit more..

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Rope_of_Hope

@Rope_of_Hope

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Posted: 13 years ago

i felt very very sad for gopi today...!if i am in gopis place i wont accept him again..!ahems behaviour really irritated me today.. his concern was only about his ex..!even he didnt explain about the bed scenario to gopi..!😡

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ahem thanked Gopi for staying in the hospital with him. But he did not see her pain and didn't care how she would feel. Disappointing !!

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rashmashariff

@rashmashariff

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Posted: 13 years ago

that is well said ahem is ignoring Gopis feelings and that is really bad man

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Vaishnavi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ahem ...!!!! Wad the helll...!! How can he do this...? Anita zara faint kya hogaee ahem toh...!! He ws so lost caring about anita that he forgot that gopi exists n she is his wife... I hated ahem today... Bechari gopi...!! Ahem wad r u upto...? Dnt tel me ahem stil loves anita...! But why on earth does gopi keep her mouth shut...?! N koki is only the one who understands gopi...

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doc4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Good point.. But is Gopi really a doormat?

Keeping quiet at times and not going off into an emotional rant when the family is facing a crisis is not being a doormat nor does it mean that people are taking her for granted. What Gopi did today is a mark of a sensible and mature human..
So what do you expect Gopi to do? Collar Ahem and rant off on all she has faced till now? When another girl's marriage just broke. I do not think for one minute Gopi suspected something going on between Ahem and Anitha..
Then with all the drama why would she add on her side and make the situation worse?

Gopi to be is being a sensible person in the lot. She is being strong not just for herself but for her husband and his family. Yes. Her husband is yet to give her an explanation. But she is in no hurry as it does not really matter.She believes him and is there to support him.

As for Ahem being insensitive... When you get caught in a humiliating situation and are the reason for a girl's marriage being cancelled, and now the reason for her fainting, I am not sure if anyone would have waited to see what others including wife and family think.. As for as Ahem is concerned, all this can be dealt later too. The thing of importance is to make sure that this third person's situation does not worsen.
As for offering an explanation to his wife, a hospital may not be always the best spot. He will.. I am sure in the coming episodes.. But today.. Today he needs to be pitied.. 😊 Taking her for granted.. I will leave the judgement out there till this track is moving a bit more..

Absolutely agree! 👏

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641345

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Posted: 13 years ago

Our Poor Gopi...Ahem is just too much...I can't wait for the day he beg for her forgiveness...That will be the best day of my life...

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Filmyarchu

@Filmyarchu

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I totally agree with you every woman should understand her worth and make others relaise it as well because people can't ust take you for granted it's not that they have buyed you or somethin so please stand up for your rights. coz u just don't get your rights sometimes you have to stand up for them and snatch it from somene who is stopping you from it.

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