Didn't like Ahemji caressing the diary either

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Did anyone notice Ahem caressing the diary before opening it to read all the cards/letters from Anita. Didn't like it one bit. It was as if he was touching Anita🤢.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I also felt he should get read of the memorabilia of their relationship, that caressing of the place he is saving the cards/love notes and picture, is not good for a married man, my sister does keep her poem's, tapes of love song recorded for her by her ex's 😛😆, but that is girls, it's not right for a guy to do it. Girls keep it for when a harsh word is spoken to them by their spouse, or after an argument you listen to that and it makes you feel better.

I want him to throw those away now. burn them or take them to the office and bin them at the office, so Gopi doesn't see them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Here is what I think it could be...

Ahem thought he still loved Anita and so her kept her photos and her love letters, but as the days went by, he fell in love with Gopi and his whole life was surrounded with Gopi and nothing else.

He probably forgot he still had all this with him. And now when his past came back in front of him, he is visiting his past again. He came home and confronted his past that he still kept with him all this time.

And the frustration he feels now is all about not wanting his past to come and ruin his future...He feels like this is going to make Gopi go back in her shell and he is never going to be able to reach her again. Ahem does not want to loose Gopi in any way ever again...

Just my POV. I have confidence that if there is any misunderstandings between GoEm, it will be a creation of Rattie and nothing else. Ahem will never waver in his thoughts and his feelings for his love Gopi 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with Rupal, if anything has to go wrong with Gohem this time, it's going to be because of Rashi! Feel this is the leaning towards CVs maybe bringing out all the misunderstandings that occurred before and maybe trying to rectify them by creating this breaking of Anita's marriage. But her staying with Modi Parivaar just doesn't sit well with me. 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oh yes, we all noticed it. 🤔

He also touched Gopi's cheeks like that.

I honestly don't know what to make of it. My processor for analyzing Ahem has turned into a shriveled grape--a raisin in other words. 🤣


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RachP

Oh yes, we all noticed it. 🤔


He also touched Gopi's cheeks like that.

I honestly don't know what to make of it. My processor for analyzing Ahem has turned into a shriveled grape--a raisin in other words. 🤣


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RachP

Oh yes, we all noticed it. 🤔


He also touched Gopi's cheeks like that.

I honestly don't know what to make of it. My processor for analyzing Ahem has turned into a shriveled grape--a raisin in other words. 🤣

ROFL Rachna, you make mee feel so much better. Your mind has turned into a raisin and I think I have turned from a plum into a prune. Even my family is noticing it😆.
I have no problem with Ahemji keeping all these things locked. I agree with Rupal that he forgot. I have tons of pictures and letters from friends locked up somewhere; I hardly look at them, haven't thought about them for years. I just don't like the way he is acting thinking about those memories. Why are you touching your diary containing Anita's memories lovingly as if it is still so precious to you? Why do you have tears for those memories now? You never consciously cried for your wife's love. You never consciously said how precious she is to you. You never consciously caressed her things to show us that she is precious to you and you value her in your life. Oh, Ahemji, what are these CV's doing to you? Wake up, prove once and for all you are her true Saathiya before she disappears from your life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

Here is what I think it could be...


Ahem thought he still loved Anita and so her kept her photos and her love letters, but as the days went by, he fell in love with Gopi and his whole life was surrounded with Gopi and nothing else.

He probably forgot he still had all this with him. And now when his past came back in front of him, he is visiting his past again. He came home and confronted his past that he still kept with him all this time.

And the frustration he feels now is all about not wanting his past to come and ruin his future...He feels like this is going to make Gopi go back in her shell and he is never going to be able to reach her again. Ahem does not want to loose Gopi in any way ever again...

Just my POV. I have confidence that if there is any misunderstandings between GoEm, it will be a creation of Rattie and nothing else. Ahem will never waver in his thoughts and his feelings for his love Gopi 😊

Dhabu, at this point, we are just guessing that he loves Gopi because he is not the same Ahemji as he was in the first year. Is his love a complete head over heels, exclusive, fairy-tale like love for Gopi? We don't know. Is he her true saathiya yet, I don't think so. He has to confront his past and openly admit his feelings for Gopi to himself and Gopi and the world in order for me to believe he truly loves her. The CV's are making it confusing. The next few days will give us more clues. I didn't like his reaction to Anita's wedding card either.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l

🤣 Rachna, you make mee feel so much better. Your mind has turned into a raisin and I think I have turned from a plum into a prune. Even my family is noticing it😆.
I have no problem with Ahemji keeping all these things locked. I agree with Rupal that he forgot. I have tons of pictures and letters from friends locked up somewhere; I hardly look at them, haven't thought about them for years. I just don't like the way he is acting thinking about those memories. Why are you touching your diary containing Anita's memories lovingly as if it is still so precious to you? Why do you have tears for those memories now? You never consciously cried for your wife's love. You never consciously said how precious she is to you. You never consciously caressed her things to show us that she is precious to you and you value her in your life. Oh, Ahemji, what are these CV's doing to you? Wake up, prove once and for all you are her true Saathiya before she disappears from your life.

The prune and the raisin! 😆

How come Ahem is so openly expressive of how he felt about Anita, but he's so regressive when it comes to anything about Gopi? I know he has ounces of romance in him, but why keep it bottled up and most importantly, why keep it away from Gopi? Is it not evident that the only thing Gopi wants from him is what he doesn't give her? Dimaag khujaoing!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RachP

The prune and the raisin! 😆

How come Ahem is so openly expressive of how he felt about Anita, but he's so regressive when it comes to anything about Gopi? I know he has ounces of romance in him, but why keep it bottled up and most importantly, why keep it away from Gopi? Is it not evident that the only thing Gopi wants from him is what he doesn't give her? Dimaag khujaoing!

That's why I never could get it when people would say he is a shy guy. He wasn't shy with his girl friend but he is with his wife😕? The way he wrapped his arms around Anita and said I love you and demanded she said it back to him boils my blood😡. His wife who would die for a single word of love from him gets nothing😲. She should be satisfied with just his supposedly goo goo ga ga eyes.
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