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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

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Fantastic post Swasthi...I think Ahem has come a long way. I don't think he really loved Anita, it was just the idea of her being the perfect arm candy for a man in his position. He never really considered how she would fit into his life at home. Now that he sees how Gopi has taken over his family life and how she has become an important part of it, he knows now there is no one better suited to be a Modi bahu than Gopi. He is going to be a little insecure when she shows up...but not because he still has feelings for her, but because he does not want his life disrupted now.

Fantabulous post and loved your points and questions...I hope I made sense 😳

You are welcome Rupal.
@ bold - Ahem is a routine creature who is set in his ways. He likes his tea at set times, have his things taken care of and when he wants something it is given / located for him. Gopi has made his life a breeze. He loves his lifestyle that has been created.
Will he one day ask his mum the reasons for her selecting Gopi as her bahu? She did once offer to tell him after Nani left when she was adamant for Gopi to stay.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awesome post!very interesting topic!i think anita's return will do good for gohem..ahem will realize that he never loved anita.. what he had with anita was just an infatuation where as gopi is the true love of his life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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wowww... loved ur post!! fantastic!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Swasthi.. What an awesome post👏

And so many questions that we will get answers as the track moves on..

Things we do know.

- Aham loves Gopi. He may not have told her that but he does.
- Gopi does not think Aham loves her. She feels she is unloved still.
- Aham is basically a good person. He was guilty when he had to jilt Anitha for his mom. If she comes back I think he will feel guilty again.. for hurting her.

So the upcoming track will I am hoping bring closure to all the above. Aham's confession + total realization, Gopi's faith and belief and her dream of Aham's love coming true and finally Aham's closure for his past guilt.

I hope closure now because, I do not want them both to continue in the same vein for the times to come. Gopi deserves his confession and he will not confess until he thinks she is comfortable. Gopi will not be comfortable as she has lost all hope and this is now a vicious cycle.
I am hoping Anitha breaks this and her entry brings the emotions to the peak making Aham look deeply at what he feels for Gopi.
Although a comparison between the girls is not really to my taste, I think it becomes unavoidable. Again, it may not be Aham but Gopi herself who compares herself to Anitha and comes up with the decision that Aham is more compatible with her. It will be an epitome of her sacrifice.. Will she sacrifice without a fight, I hope not.. I hope she does fight even if it a little.
I am sure though that Aham will fight for her. How soon is the question. The upcoming episodes are going to be the rockiest yet in GoHem relationship.
During the initial days it was Anitha's memory that Aham clung to.. But he was able to forget her till now.. Now that the reality comes crashing again, will Aham be able to face his past with confidence? I hope he does. But I think he is going to falter initially and learn from that. When I mean falter, I mean falter in making himself clear not falter in his love for Gopi😃

A very interesting time for this beautiful realtionship😛

My pleasure Harini.
You have hit on the key points - closure, Ahem reflecting deeply and the start of a beautiful relationship.
The complicated character of Ahem has been peeled layer by layer through the show. He is still complicated in thought as he has not yet expressed himself yet his actions are getting clearer and truer as time goes by. Through this upcoming experience he will learn new things about himself that he may have thought never existed. It is within this that he may realise the beautiful relationship he has.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipsy80

i am certain gopi is going to feel insecure coz right now her confidence is at an all time low..she feels the happiest and the most precious moment in her life is not even worth remembering for ahem..

and i am also certain that ahem loves gopi...so even if anita is not negative her return will have a negative impact atleast for gopi...and ahem in the beginning may fail to do the right thing becoz of his guilt of jilting anita...
the good thing is ahem will finally be pushed to be more vocal about his feelings towards gopi...right now he is not making a move (atleast consciously..forget the bhang induced holi milan) coz she does not seem to be comfortable around him..but if she starts moving away further becoz of anita he is going to panic and wont hold himself back...
not sure if i made any sense!
loved your post btw!⭐️

Much appreciated.
@ bold - You have raised a very important point. Not only is she already hurting as Ahem does not remember their wonderful time together (this would be her best time ever in her life), having just gone through emotional turmoil with the near separation of the family, Gopi is at an all time low. She has already distanced herself from Ahem now she could totally clam up.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


Swasthi it is a fantastic post👏

now there is no question of if Ahem loves gopi or not... because we all know he loves her,,for which words were not let out...

so how does it change their relation - very drastically i would say

- Ahem and Gopi are in a kind of loop... she thinks he does not love her, he thinks she is not comfortable and hiding her pain from him... this could go on for ages to come,,,

- Anitha coming back... will definitely confuse Ahem with all sorts of emotions and gopi will be deep down in misunderstandings...
- i really don't want Ahem to compare and analyze and decide ...

- i think with Anitha as catalyst... Ahem's feelings will come to the fore that he in fact loves gopi ...and . he will not compare oh gopi is good or anita is bad...and decide if he loves gopi or not...the already existing feelings will come out in words...

- gopi going to the level of sacrificing her love for his happiness, will trigger ahem to confess his love ...not because she is sacrificing her love for him... but he will not let her go and want to be with her,,.. only because he loves her and that is where Ahem Modis' love is😊

Well said Munni.
It will be best should Anita be the catalyst to propel Ahem's love. This will bring about a decisive move from Ahem into verbalising just what he feeling inside to Gopi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: S696_sehreen

i was postive before reading ur post but now i am more 😊

This is really fantastic.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

And swasthi comes in with the million dollar question! For me the answer is simple. Aham was infatuated with anita. And she would have made him an ideal trophy wife. Aham loves gopi with every fibre of his being. He will never let go of the one person his heart has chosen for him to spend the rest of his life with. The journey may be rocky. But the fate of our golden couple is to grow old together.

Well put Ashwin.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu27

awesome post swasthi and wonderful posts by everybody in this thread...ahem loves gopi with every fibre of his being and anithas entry might just be the push he needs to communicate with gopi and be more assertive...

Much appreciated Varshu.
This would be the best thing forward for Ahem - looking for to the coming episodes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nihira-fan

awesome post!very interesting topic! i think anita's return will do good for gohem..ahem will realize that he never loved anita.. what he had with anita was just an infatuation where as gopi is the true love of his life.

My pleasure Nihira.
Well said by yourself too. This is the jolt that Ahem needed to move forward in his relationship with Gopi.

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