Originally posted by: Dhabu89
OK! I just watched the episode and all I can say is if I wasn't a fan of Kokila, after watching todays epi, I am a bigger fan 👏
Kokila needs to be commended on so many levels...
1...Honesty, she will not lie. Even if it means you are going to get hurt she will tell you like it is. To her you getting hurt in the long run is more important than a few seconds of hurt now. These kind of people are rare...Treasure them
2...Trust...She is the only one who you can go to for help and she will help you without any fuss or complaints. Once you made a place for yourself in her heart, you will never be without a friend, confidant, soul mate and of course a Mother/MIL
3...Upfront...She will not hide behind any fake smiles, she will not sweet talk you. She will however say what is on her mind. She does not know how to hugs or show affection, but she can easily be the only person who will stand up for you or stand next to you in your deepest hour.
4...Hardworking...she alone has taken the responsibility of handling the house hold chores of MM. Hetal also does her part, but it seems that Kokila did majority of it. Before the two vau's came along. Now that the two vau's are here, she is not taking a back seat like most MIL's. She is still there to do her share and make sure everything in the house is taken care of for everyone in the house. Be it from the littlest to the biggest problem. There is no rest for Kokila...To her hard work is her lifeline.
She is the only person who know what is going on around her. She keeps an eye on everyone. Now some may say she is nosey, I say she is only making sure HER family is comfortable and is not in any dire stress. To her, her family is the most important of anything else. She may be always yelling at her husband, but when you take a closer look, she is always doing things to make sure he is comfortable...like giving him afternoon tea at the right time everyday or making his favorite food/snack.
My Koki rocks, and I am one proud woman to call her my hero. If I achieve half of her heart and hard work...I got it made...