Has ahem redemed himself?

All of us are gushing about how much ahem has changed he has lied to talk to her defended her in front of koki taunted his mom. He has massaged her feet taken one slap and not made a scene fulfilled her wish ie playing ludo acknowledged she is his wife indirectly given her a gift was happy when she wore it ,got her a phone. The list is endless. But has ahem redeemed himself for his earlier behaviour? When i think of the way he treated her earlier i still think he needs to do more to actually redeem his behaviour. I ve no clue wat but he needs to have a flashback and be ashamed of himself.the day he understands the pain he has given her oly then acc to me will change completely.
Do tell me your opinion as well

vibha, you are right. though we are happy at present that aham had moved and is looking after gopi, i feel he had not suffered.
i want him to fight for gopi, to realize how good she is.
for this all the kalakari's against her has to come out.
aham has to get flashbacks of how he treated her. how patient she was to bear his anger.
at present he needs a seperation from gopi, to get his thoughts collected.
i want his to beg gopi's forgiveness.
but if you see in the point of view of gopi, aham had done nothing wrong. she was the cause of unhappiness for him. she thinks he is right and she is wrong. so gopi does not need any apology from him. she will accept him as he is. if aham tells gopi you are my wife, she will be happy. if he says out of my life, with tears she will go, she will not even fight him.
for the suffering of aham , we need a change in gopi.

I expect a heart felt sorry from him for all his previous actions in front of whole family cuz he has humiliated gopi in front of others. That day I will feel he truly changed.

Originally posted by: shruthi2010

vibha, you are right. though we are happy at present that aham had moved and is looking after gopi, i feel he had not suffered.
i want him to fight for gopi, to realize how good she is.
for this all the kalakari's against her has to come out.
aham has to get flashbacks of how he treated her. how patient she was to bear his anger.
at present he needs a seperation from gopi, to get his thoughts collected.
i want his to beg gopi's forgiveness.
but if you see in the point of view of gopi, aham had done nothing wrong. she was the cause of unhappiness for him. she thinks he is right and she is wrong. so gopi does not need any apology from him. she will accept him as he is. if aham tells gopi you are my wife, she will be happy. if he says out of my life, with tears she will go, she will not even fight him.
for the suffering of aham , we need a change in gopi.

oh wow shruti i love the line that he has to beg for forgiveness.imagine him on his knees eyes moist and asking her to be a part of his life!!
Gopi needs to have an opinion she should think for herself not be a dumb doll.she just listens if told to take back vachans she did it get out of the house she went come back for nani she came back.she needs to decide wat s best for her.

Agree to you. But as the character of gopi has portrayed she will never demand or she is expecting a sorry from ahem. Only ahem has to feel his guilty by himself and should sorry.

Actualy we don't know whats going on Aham's mind right now. It seems he has changed his behaviour towards gopi as a soft caring person. But i have a doubt that he has the feelings of a husband

I respect all of your opinions. But according to me if only the revelation of kalakaries will help him regret of his past actions and start afresh relationship with Gopi, then it will not be the real love. He needs a retrospect of his past behaviour without the help of revelation of kalakaries. I mean, he has realised the true nature of Gopi by now, how innocent, honest and selfless she is. Ahem being an intelligent and sensible person can now realise that this Gopi can not do all those stupid things - to cause accident to his mom, to steal money from his suit case, to order 5 lakhs necklace, to steal kinjal's jewellery, to lie about her illiteracy and so on.

So I want Ahem to have a retrospect of his past life on his own, not with the help of revelation of kalakaries. He must really regret of his actions and ask for forgiveness from Gopi. When the kalakaries will come out, their relationship will become even stronger, because they will have moved on in their relationship by that time.

Originally posted by: vibz88

All of us are gushing about how much ahem has changed he has lied to talk to her defended her in front of koki taunted his mom. He has massaged her feet taken one slap and not made a scene fulfilled her wish ie playing ludo acknowledged she is his wife indirectly given her a gift was happy when she wore it ,got her a phone. The list is endless. But has ahem redeemed himself for his earlier behaviour? When i think of the way he treated her earlier i still think he needs to do more to actually redeem his behaviour. I ve no clue wat but he needs to have a flashback and be ashamed of himself.the day he understands the pain he has given her oly then acc to me will change completely.
Do tell me your opinion as well

Originally posted by: _Precious_

I respect all of your opinions. But according to me if only the revelation of kalakaries will help him regret of his past actions and start afresh relationship with Gopi, then it will not be the real love. He needs a retrospect of his past behaviour without the help of revelation of kalakaries. I mean, he has realised the true nature of Gopi by now, how innocent, honest and selfless she is. Ahem being an intelligent and sensible person can now realise that this Gopi can not do all those stupid things - to cause accident to his mom, to steal money from his suit case, to order 5 lakhs necklace, to steal kinjal's jewellery, to lie about her illiteracy and so on.

So I want Ahem to have a retrospect of his past life on his own, not with the help of revelation of kalakaries. He must really regret of his actions and ask for forgiveness from Gopi. When the kalakaries will come out, their relationship will become even stronger, because they will have moved on in their relationship by that time.

agree with u the feelings the guilt regret n love should be unconditional not conditional

Originally posted by: vibz88

agree with u the feelings the guilt regret n love should be unconditional not conditional

Agree with you guys. Cant' believe his sudden change