Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms
I don't think things are tougher for Rashi then Gopi to win their prospective husbands.
Reflect back, wasn't Rashi and Kinjal doing kalakaries so that whatever Gopi does to win Aham fails??? I'm remembering lots of times when Gopi was trying win Aham to her Rashi stepped in to spoil it, so at least in Rashi's case no-one is doing kalakaries against her and Jigar reconciling. Also look at Rashi being out of the house, is she sleeping on the floor and doing any chores at her mothers nothing, Gopi needed to win over everybody, learn what everyone in the house likes and do those things for them in the kitchen, wash curtains, rezai/blanket with her bare hands do as her mother in law says and as Aham says in order to get to the point she is now, but Rashi and it seems her fans as well (all you lot) want it to happen quickly quickly now, no patience all of you just like the character of Rashi zero patience. Rebuilding trust doesn't just happen you have got to work hard at it, Jigar needs to see a change in Rashi, yes she won't have any opportunity to show him she is changing because his not in her presence, but how about cajoling him to meet her for dates, then convince him I don't want you for your money, let me prove it to you, come and live with my parents, Dhawal has gone to his in laws as Ghar jamai you also come to my parents, I can't live without you, I want to reconcile our marriage, give me the opportunity to prove to you that I have changed.
Forget that she loves money, or that she will hate not having it if they stay at Urmila's house but that's only in the interim when he is convinced and can trust her he and her will shift back to go stay back at the Modi's house, but the only way he will be convinced is if he can see Rashi wants to be his wife and not only Modi bahu.
Anupamaa
